Am I being over paranoid?

[ponygirl17]

Tell me please if in the UK it is normal to send any parents who volunteer themselves to go to swimming sessions with 5-6 year olds to help in changing rooms and in the water with the kids?

ooh wannabe i'll take back my support of you on another thread

She turned on you aswell BTTAT when the she couldn't justify her rubbish

I havent trolled as anyone, I used to be smellymelly, go ahead ask mumsnet ...... I changed my name once, as I am not smelly anymore!!

if she did, I didn't notice and care not

I havent turned on bttat, I thanked her? what effing planet are you on scurryfunge, (btw what kind of disgusting name is that?)

ah btat apologies - I see you're not the same person, although I do still disagree with your point

pony insulting people really isn't the way to gain support for your cause...

Me insulting people? I have only asked a question, and I have received a string of abuse, am I not allowed to get wound up?

I thought my nn was quite nice!

You have been rude to me ponygirl17. That last comment was not necessary

at the OP's disgust at 'scurryfunge'. Does this suggest a mind that will seek out the most disgusting interpretations of everything and anything, usually wrongly?! I think it is.

I actually find this really disturbing. Didn't the OP state early on that she didn't like her kids changing at home in front of family?? FFS. In what world are the bodies of tiny children shameful. This is so upsetting...

it's funny I used to get worried that I was a thread killer, now I am just getting abuse thrown at me... is this really what mumsnet is like now? Very sad.

Abuse?

Where? Some people disagree with you. Forcefully. That is all.

hmmmm ... is this the OP too...?

Excuse me for not being quite as intelligent as the rest of you? I have lived in france for the last 5 years so am obviously out of touch.

I have 2 boys and 2 girls, who are all beautiful, but with ages ranging from 10 - 5 is it not normal to be able to get dressed undressed in private?? They have only just managed to get their own rooms for the first time in years (as my house burnt down, last year - no not a lie, check my posting on here if you want, and before that they shared) so I assumed changing in ones own room was normal? I also know someone else who was abused by her older brother, so it is for that that I thought I was doing the right thing. Am I really getting it all that wrong? Surely not, my children only know what it appropriate and very basically what is not appropriate behaviour, I havent scared them , but I have explained that certain things are not acceptable - why is this so wrong?

Show me some abuse that has been thrown at you. You have been disagreed with. That is not abuse.

er... no headbanger.

'Course getting changes in one's own room is 'normal', whatever the hell that means. I just genuinely and honestly think it's fucking tragic that these thoughts even occur to you.

You actually say (above) "It is for that that I thought I was doing the right thing". That makes me so sad I don't even know what to say. Truly.

Er I have been called an idiot, and an abuser, highly strung, told I need to go to a doctor... all in one afternoon, not bad eh? Oh and a liar - nice.

Did I misunderstand you - are you saying that you are protecting your daughter from the possibility of abuse by her brother?

If i haven't misunderstood you, then I really think that you might need some help of some sort - genuinely. That just isn't the way most people think - truly.