Should I be pissed teacher didn't wish DD a happy birthday?

[muttleyandson]

I don't care about handing out sweets or having the children sing happy birthday to DD but what has really pissed me off is DD told teacher it's her birthday today and the teacher couldn't even wish her a happy birthday!

Yes you can’t just pick and choose which child you sing happy birthday too or which child gets to give sweets out. You either do it for all or you do not. This would definitely upset a child if they were treated differently to the class norm.

DD cried on her birthday and asked why she was singled out. I'd rather a TA than some heartless cunt who can't wish a primary years child a happy birthday. We're not talking teenagers here we're talking about an 8 year old child.

It could be school policy not to wish a child happy birthday as it may not be a happy occasion for the child?

In the grand scheme of things OP, I wouldn't get your knickers in a twist over it! Teacher okayed giving the sweets out to her classmates

what has really pissed me off is DD told teacher it's her birthday today

have the cunt fired. actually no, have her executed. that’ll teach her

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😂

If she had the class sing happy birthday for the other 2 children but not yours, she must dislike your child. Is that better? Is that what you want to hear?

You're the cunt op.

Gosh it’s all a bit cunty here tonight 😁.

Poor kid with this as a mother!

The original post says that DD told the teacher it's her birthday today, that's why everyone thought it happened today. The drip feed of the next part which makes it clearer it didn't actually happen today came after everyone questioning why she was at school on a Saturday.

Yes your poor mother.

Jesus Christ OP, get a life. I'm embarrassed for you.

Yes, you shd be passed. I know I was. Different situation though as it wasn't child's school but a situation where there was a grown-up in charge of young children. Everyone's birthday before and after DC's bday was celebrated but not dc. It took me about 6 months to get over.

And yes, I KNOW it's not the Teachers' responsibility to organise bday singalongs but it should be the same across the board

Me too!

Sorry my bad, I should have made it clearer like in my second post.

Wow you really are a vile creature. The teacher probably thinks you’re a cunt

The secondhand embarrassments I have for the OP and her behaviour on his thread is off the scale 😂

@muttleyandson

Maybe you'll retract the c**t remark at me then considering all I did was quote your post.

After reading the OP I thought you were being a bit silly but I actually think it's pretty cruel to let two children hand out sweets and sing happy birthday and not the third child.

What in the universal credit is going on here?

If your child spoke to her teacher the way you are responding here then I'm not surprised the teacher backed away and did nothing. Did you not speak to the teacher to say it was her birthday and whether you had bought the right sweets?

I said that in no world would a child say it's their birthday and not have any response back in the remit of 'Happy Birthday/Have a lovely Day/Oh very good' etc. How did the teacher allegedly respond?

Literally nothing, just an 'okay'. Like I've said, I don't care if DD didn't get to hand out her sweets, I don't care about the singing or the sticker. It was the teacher's response to DD saying it was her birthday.

My apologies.