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Locked out

203 replies

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 21:52

My wife as changed the locks on the house even though I am the sole owner and pay the mortgage not her is this allowed

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TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:27

Are you the bloke who said he ended up sleeping on the streets because his wife wouldn't let him in the house?

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:28

Cause her mum dad are evil they put the charge not my wife

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Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:28

TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:27

Are you the bloke who said he ended up sleeping on the streets because his wife wouldn't let him in the house?

No thankfully feel sorry for him

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TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:29

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:28

Cause her mum dad are evil they put the charge not my wife

It's the CPS who decide whether or not to charge people.

TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:29

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:28

No thankfully feel sorry for him

Why? You don't know what he did.

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:30

TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:29

It's the CPS who decide whether or not to charge people.

Yes they dropped it nfa

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TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:31

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:30

Yes they dropped it nfa

So it wasn't your wife's parents.

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:31

No

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RMNofTikTok · 20/06/2024 22:32

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:23

What legal issues

Your divorce and financial settlement.

sprigatito · 20/06/2024 22:33

More than 80% of domestic abuse cases are dropped...gosh, what a lot of evil crazy lying women there must be Hmm

TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:34

sprigatito · 20/06/2024 22:33

More than 80% of domestic abuse cases are dropped...gosh, what a lot of evil crazy lying women there must be Hmm

Yes. It's shocking.
So few prosecutions.

TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:35

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 21:52

My wife as changed the locks on the house even though I am the sole owner and pay the mortgage not her is this allowed

Yes, it's allowed if she believes you're a danger to her.
Also, you're not the sole owner if you're married.

Strictly1 · 20/06/2024 22:35

BIWI · 20/06/2024 22:06

Bollocks

How do you know? Not all women are victims and men the villains!

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:37

i Am totally against domestic abuse the way some women are treated is disgraceful and the Sarah Everard incident was the worst I ever seen, but what about the mental abuse of me not seeing my kids because they made up lies

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TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:38

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:37

i Am totally against domestic abuse the way some women are treated is disgraceful and the Sarah Everard incident was the worst I ever seen, but what about the mental abuse of me not seeing my kids because they made up lies

You can arrange supervised visits.

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:40

TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:38

You can arrange supervised visits.

I can’t afford a solicitor

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sprigatito · 20/06/2024 22:41

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:37

i Am totally against domestic abuse the way some women are treated is disgraceful and the Sarah Everard incident was the worst I ever seen, but what about the mental abuse of me not seeing my kids because they made up lies

"Sarah Everard's murder was awful, but what about me?" Seriously?

If you want shared care of your children you need to stop harassing your wife, find somewhere suitable to live and go to court for a child arrangements order.

BIWI · 20/06/2024 22:41

So. I'll ask again. You were charged with common assault. What did you actually do?

The fact that you aren't answering the question speaks volumes.

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:41

Ok but I didn’t do anything wrong

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TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:42

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:40

I can’t afford a solicitor

Take your wife to court then.

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:42

they said I grabbed her arm allegedly

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Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:42

TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:42

Take your wife to court then.

How

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TheShellBeach · 20/06/2024 22:42

Joke14 · 20/06/2024 22:41

Ok but I didn’t do anything wrong

What did you actually do?

vodkaredbullgirl · 20/06/2024 22:43

It's like pulling teeth.

Enko · 20/06/2024 22:43

You cant afford NOT to get a solicitor. Find one and get the right motions in place. the solicitor will help with access both to children and house.