Well. I have a JOB!!!! She offered it to me on the spot. I very almost burst into tears, but didn't.
I start on thursday, this thursday. Holy moly.
Thats full time, 37.5 hrs a week, minimum wage for now. Its a 3 month trial to get started with. I ran the numbers through the benefits calculator, we will lose the working tax credits, but the child tax crdits stay the same, so all in all, we will be about £700 a month better off. I'm only just starting to realise just how little money we have been surviving on for years. This will change everything. Literally everything.
And dp is happy to be the stay at home dad, do the afternoon pick ups, and bum around the house during school holidays. But, money!
Thankyou all for all your support. I genuinely don't think I would have had the guts to do this before I found you on this thread 