Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Cost of living

Stretching your budget? Share tips and advice to discuss budgeting and energy saving here. For the latest deals and discounts, sign up for Mumsnet Moneysaver emails.

March Frugaleers continued. In which we report spends, share money saving advice, chat about pretty much everything and post pet pics.

999 replies

Cagliostro · 09/03/2018 15:22

Welcome one and all! Newbies and lurkers always welcome 💐

OP posts:
Thread gallery
25
Cagliostro · 13/03/2018 22:06

Sorry about ouchy throat, grumpy partners, delayed house sales, form filling etc.

I’m knackered having been out all day. Blood test, dance shop, then not enough time to be worth heading home really, so hung out in town with friends. Thankfully it was just mild enough to sit at the park while the kids all played.

Spends £90 Tesco (not so much food in that as we needed laundry stuff, nappies etc)
£11 lunch
£15 Wilko on cheap storage, marigold gloves and some poster card
£42 tap shoes 💸😱 twice the price of DD’s. They fit well and thankfully DS never seems to grow in shoe size so they will last a good while I hope. So cute. Walked into the class and the teacher said oh you got the good ones 😂

If it helps, his hand is only in his pants half the time. The other half, it’s up his nose 🤦‍♀️

OP posts:
Cagliostro · 13/03/2018 22:14

Oh and £16 H&M, crop top bra things for DD and white tshirt for tap (principal still hasn’t got back to me about ordering a proper uniform top for DS... in fact she hasn’t invoiced me for his lessons either) which came in a 2 pack with a cute shark tshirt, hurrah.

Seriously need to get to bed I am fit to drop 😴

OP posts:
mammymammyIRL · 13/03/2018 22:29

Cag Smile at your ds

ChristmasSeacow · 13/03/2018 22:54

Gawd, I can’t keep up today!

Glad you are both philosophical about interviews Life and Meadow. Better behind than in front of you at any rate!

That pony?!

Sunny is it you that suspects EDS and the professionals aren’t taking it seriously, or has someone else suggested it? I can’t think why anyone would resist referring your DS for diagnosis if it’s a possibility. Forgive my ignorance but is private diagnosis not an option? It isn’t really for ASD, I guess because it is seen as a subjective judgement for an individual clinician so to get support from the nhs you need to go through their multidisciplinary diagnostic process. But EDS isn’t a ‘behavioural’ Condition so diagnosis is much more objective. Confused. I hope this doesn’t sound as though I am taking you to task, I’m not at all, just baffled as to why you would not be getting help from the Gp and others to refer (with an expectation that it will go somewhere!). I hope you get some answers and that if he has it the prognosis is good ( through my previous work I came across a few patients with this and their symptoms varied incredibly widely).

On a lighter note DS is also exceedingly fond of his willy. In fact he asked me to tickle it the other day, so I explained that his willy is just especially for him next step is to work on the ‘in private’ aspect. (Tbf, I tickle his tummy, cheeks etc a lot so I can see why he thought it was a reasonable request Grin)

LSD, just £8 top up shop. Oh, and £13 to the Amazon for a book on child development 0-5yrs. I am feeling a little worried about my beautiful little DD Sad. She rolled months ago when expected (just a handful of times really though) and then stopped. I honestly can’t remember the last time she did it, weeks ago though. And there’s a few other developments I’m looking out for but not sure of the normal window for them appearing. I really don’t want to feed my fears so I thought hard before buying the book but I don’t think Dr google is helping either, better to have a proper reference. So we’ll see. I did ask the HV at the weighing clinic the other week and all she said was ‘all babies are diffferent’ but with DD at nearly 9 months and not rolling I’m not feeling particularly reassured.

I am also fretting about my dad. He had cancer a couple of years ago (not one with a good prognosis usually) and was lucky to make it through treatment and get the all clear. But he called yesterday to say he’s been getting worrying symptoms and is being called in for a scan. I know he has a bad gut feeling about this and so do I. Trying not to think about it until the scan is reported. But Sad again. I’ve been a bit tearful today.

Was supposed to be getting my new front door installed tomorrow but it’s been delayed as the new door was damaged during delivery to the fitter chap so they have to make a new one. 2-3 weeks. It doesn’t matter at all really but I was rather too excited about it. Which just goes to show that I need to get a life Wink

Like you Cag I really need to get to sleep earlier. Zzzzzz

lifelongfrugaleer · 14/03/2018 06:56

Ah sea, you are having an awful time. Dr Google will not be your friend unless it's a trusted site like NHS. Big hugs. Flowers

Need, I love your pony. He's such a funny little sod..Grin

Nsd planned today.

ememem84 · 14/03/2018 07:25

need I’ve seen a pony do this! They lie on their backs legs up and rub their backs until they’ve slithered out of the rug. It’s crazy. One of the ponies at the stables does it.

More waiting today. Dh says not to cancel removals as if I do well need them on Friday.

I’m cancelling them.

I know now it’ll go through next Friday instead if it’s going to. We have a funeral to go to, I have a dentist appointment. So it’ll absolutely be next Friday. Soda law.

WreckTangled · 14/03/2018 07:30

Seacow it's completely natural that you're searching for symptoms in your dd. Is she sitting? Some babies never roll. Hope your dad is ok Thanks

I definitely need diesel today. The dc got up really early and I realised the heater was off in their room so it was freezing. Have ds' parents eve later today.

Bornlazy · 14/03/2018 07:40

Seacow sorry your having such a stressful time. Hopefully your dd will catch up soon, surely if there was anything to worry about the HV would have picked up on it.

With regards to saving energy, my first steps should really be to clamp down on the lights left on, devices left switched on when not in use and clothes thrown in the washing basket when they've only been worn for about an hour Hmm I still leave a light on overnight and youngest ds is 12......

LonelyOversharer · 14/03/2018 07:58

seacow try not to worry. I know it's natural, but some babies just don't roll. Is she being very different to ds? If she's bright, alert, chatty and eating well, surely staying in one spot just now is good?!! Dd1 used to roll over and over and I'd frequently 'lose' her under furnitue. Dd2 commando crawled like a demon and it was a nightmare. For a passive baby, she didn't half move fast.

Emergency orthadontic appointment today. Wire has moved, and her teeth are hurting. This will interfere with my shopping.

LonelyOversharer · 14/03/2018 08:03

born yes, light on here too. Upstairs hall has a tiny led, but dd2 screames in her sleep if we switch it off. Bizarre.

Yes em everything points to a move on your busy friday. Sods law at its finest.

SnugglySnerd · 14/03/2018 08:26

Morning all. Ds already like a good rummage in his nappy usually whilst trying to clear him up after an explosion Sad

Today should be NSD. I slept well last night. Apparently dh was up with DS. I didn’t hear them.

Wigwigeconomist · 14/03/2018 08:48

Morning all

Feeling contemplative today

For those who haven't seen the news...Stephen Hawking has diedSad

Yesterday was the final end to a very stressful family situation and I hadn't realised how tired I am until now

Hoping for a NSD today

Laska5772 · 14/03/2018 09:06

Quick update ..the power of NHS through Girlie vibes and shouting and also the power of Frugaleers ousted that bone last night! Gargled 'something' happenned (although never sawthe pesky thing)and a miracle. Suddenley no pain and i can swallow! Within half an hour swelling going down and only a slight tenderness left in neck this morning ! (So no need for A&E!!!). Breakfast!! (And Ive lost 3lbs)... Grin
At work ill carch up later.
Thanks for the concern x

WreckTangled · 14/03/2018 09:08

Glad it's out laska! Next time get treatment sooner though Wink I would keep gargling with something antiseptic for a couple more days.

ememem84 · 14/03/2018 10:20

Waiting in outpatients for blood test. Consultant I sawnon Saturday wanted these done. He said to just pop in and take a ticket.

I’m number 42. They’re on 36. So hopefully I won’t have to wait long.

We were going to the tax office. But I left my form behind. Doh.

Will head into town as want to Have a mooch around the shops. And may pop in to see my lawyer if he calls.

SunnyLikeThursday · 14/03/2018 10:34

Christmas Thanks, yes I see what you mean.

The school is working on the ASD referral still, and the GP is doing the Ehler-Danlos thing, so I think we're good. My neighbour turns out to be an Ehler-Danlos physio, and is going to come over and advise. Yay!

Laska if it helps any, I have a friend who once had a minor brain failure when tidying, and instead of putting a dress-makers pin in its box, he just casually tossed it in the air and swallowed it right down. He also had to go to a&e and have it removed, as it stuck sideways half way down. He says the a&e people own some surprisingly long tweezers with right angle bends in them for just that very job. Good luck there.

I've got today off. Woohoo!

Girliefriendlikesflowers · 14/03/2018 11:26

You have been lucky laska but for goodness sake get proper medical treatment next time! ! and I agree with wreck keep gargling antiseptic for a few more days.

seacow completely understandable that you're going to worry, babies do vary enormously on what they do and when though.

I'm at work waiting for a colleague to do a joint visit with me.

ememem84 · 14/03/2018 12:09

And we’re home.

Bloods done. Ds was funny. The lady came st me with the needle and he went “aaaaaay!” Twice he did that. Little jerk. 😂😂

We then increased my phone contract. I’ve gobe over my text and call allowance the last 3 months. It’s an extra £5 a month for an additional 8000 minutes texts and 8gb data. So £20pcm for 10.

Met Dm And df for coffee. Now fully fuelled by flat white. We went to local Portuguese cafe. Strong coffee!!!

LonelyOversharer · 14/03/2018 13:06

Teeth fixed (2 more appointments to go) and shopping done. Think I'm under budget (had £215 to shop until the end of the month), will check. Lots of food bought, plus pet food. The only thing I couldn't get was a turkey leg. Will try another day for that. 17 days food planned for.

Other than food, spent £15 on hinges and batteries for dp. The hinges are for the side gate, that came off in my hand last week. Now my little dog knows it's broken it's his only life goal.

LonelyOversharer · 14/03/2018 13:29

£154 spent. £67 left in my purse. I'm very pleased with myself. Sticking to a list, not buying a load of extra crap, and I didn't have the urge to keep adding extra stuff to the trolley. I'm getting there!

Wigwigeconomist · 14/03/2018 13:54

Well done lonely that is impressive!
This is how I should be behaving in shops Grin
One step at a time

Wigwigeconomist · 14/03/2018 13:56

Glad your throat is better laska

And emem who is your phone contract with? Is it a sims card only deal?

Fluffycloudland77 · 14/03/2018 14:45

£15 petrol.
£7 work trousers.

The halifax reward account has 10% back at morrisons. You can manipulate it by buying a small item and getting cashback at the till.

Cagliostro · 14/03/2018 15:08

Ah seacow 💐 I get it. Xx

Corsodyl is good laska

Went swimming today! Cagletini was asleep when we got there, so I sat in the changing room for a bit, then fed her and joined the others once she woke up. She actually enjoyed it, bit of minor grizzling in the middle but then concentrated really hard tried grabbing the bubbles 😍 £10.90 for all of us, not bad considering we couldn’t find the home ed discount card so paid full price (but off peak I suppose. It was nice and quiet). Cheesy chips after, DH paid. Boots on the way home, got hairbands for DD and some super cute half price tights for 6-12m. And some ferrero rocher. 😳

OP posts:
Cagliostro · 14/03/2018 15:34

Sad about Hawking here too wig he just seemed to keep going forever, despite such adversity. Wasn’t expecting that. What a great mind :(

OP posts:
Swipe left for the next trending thread