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Has everyone really stopped having sex?

194 replies

notevenat20 · 04/01/2021 07:01

It’s early and I am stressed so what better than to worry about other peoples sex life.

Have all the single (or maybe not single) women here really just not had sex with anyone new in 2020? Have teenagers really stopped shagging? It just seems inhuman if true.

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SeldomFollowedIt · 04/01/2021 07:09

I should imagine they would find some loopholes. Excuse the pun.

sittingonacornflake · 04/01/2021 07:11
Grin

Thanks for checking on me Grin

Obviously lockdown 1 no sex then they let us free so I had several months of all the sex.

Then since second lockdown no sex Angry

Hoping for it to return at Easter!

Hazelnutlatteplease · 04/01/2021 07:13

No sex since last Feb.

Shehasadiamondinthesky · 04/01/2021 07:14

I made the decision to give up sex 4 years ago but that was nothing to do with coronavirus.

nogooddeedgoesunpunished · 04/01/2021 07:14

No sex since lockdown one

notevenat20 · 04/01/2021 07:18

But even in tier 2 you can’t go into a date’s place. Obviously if you are under 21 that won’t stop you but for everyone else?

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QueenPawPaws · 04/01/2021 07:18

Single. Bubbled with "friend" WinkBlush

notevenat20 · 04/01/2021 07:19

@sittingonacornflake

How did you manage it unless you were in tier 1?

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Pinkpercy · 04/01/2021 07:21

If we live alone we can bubble up with one person Blush

wellthatsunusual · 04/01/2021 07:23

People are capable of controlling themselves, it's not that shocking surely?

ForeverBubblegum · 04/01/2021 07:23

Possibly in the first lockdown, but a lot of living apart couples moved in together temporarily. Since bubbles have been allowed, I imagine most single people would be able to form a bubble with a partner. There's probably fewer new relationships starting, but those already in relationships will still be 'active'.

wellthatsunusual · 04/01/2021 07:26

By which I mean, it's no more shocking to have gone without sex than it is to have gone without touching anyone else, or hugging anyone else, for almost a year now. Living without all of those things are unnatural to humans, sex is no different.

notevenat20 · 04/01/2021 07:26

@Pinkpercy. Ahhh...for some reason I am now thinking of people who love to pop bubble wrap :)

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notevenat20 · 04/01/2021 07:28

People are capable of controlling themselves, it's not that shocking surely?

I find it shocking. Sex and eating are fundamental to life.

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notevenat20 · 04/01/2021 07:31

ForeverBubblegum

It’s a good point about bubbles. I notice your name is implying something in that context :)

I guess you can bubble for as short or long time as you like with a new date. Amusingly this does mean that monogamy is now the only legal form of sex life.

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PicsInRed · 04/01/2021 07:33

The answer will be in the annual financial results of Tinder, Bumble et al announced in the coming months. 😉

FortunesFave · 04/01/2021 07:37

Sex isn't fundamental to the individual life...you can live without it.

E1ffelTower · 04/01/2021 07:38

Yes. No sex for a year now. Bad times.

Jackblackcat · 04/01/2021 07:38

Left my ex during lockdown one.

Started dating/having casual sex pretty much immediately, about 25 sexual partners between July and November.

I had an antibodies test through work quite early on in the pandemic though so knew I had antibodies, although if I'm honest I don't know if that would have changed my behaviour if I had not.

Been dating the same guy now since November and we have bubbled, even though technically breaking the rules still because he is not the person I bubbled with back in September.

notevenat20 · 04/01/2021 07:40

The answer will be in the annual financial results of Tinder, Bumble et al announced in the coming months.

Hmm...in terms of economic indicators, what do we only buy when we have a new date?

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notevenat20 · 04/01/2021 07:42

Been dating the same guy now since November and we have bubbled, even though technically breaking the rules still because he is not the person I bubbled with back in September.

That’s ok isn’t it? I thought it was only overlapping that was banned.

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TitInATrance · 04/01/2021 07:46

You are now allowed to change your bubble if you abstain for 10 days between - it’s on the gov.uk website.

jessstan1 · 04/01/2021 07:46

What is sex? I've forgotten.

Bubblemonkey · 04/01/2021 07:47

Nobody’s gonna die from lack of sex. I assume most people have hands, sort yourself out.

3littlewords · 04/01/2021 07:48

So its actually all these frivolous singletons that are really spreading the virus not the kids! Get the bloody schools opened and put a ban on condoms problem sorted Grin

FYI that is a joke BTW before the MN police pile on i know humour isn't practiced much on here

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