Morning all,
Early bird today because I'm meeting my Mum at 8 at the hospital to support her through hopefully getting a drain fitted to ease the discomfort of the hopefully fluid building up so fast in her abdomen due to her terminal ovarian cancer. My son is helping her get ready for the hospital transport which won't take me with her as I am not essential medical personnel, so I have to get a bus or taxi across the other side of town.
Everything feels very surreal.
Last night my dear SM divulged she will hopefully be having a procedure in the next couple of weeks because she has aneurysms in her neck that may leave her blind if not treated - worst case scenario stuff but even so - my 80 year old Dad isher carer and has no spleen so will not be able to go with her if it goes ahead. She is so worried that she will have to go into a home - she has long term MH issues and slow burn vascular dementia. I have offered to accompany her - IF, in the current climate it even goes ahead.
My mantra is now a steady chant of "It is what it is" with a side serving of whelp.
My heart goes out to @MurrayTheMonk running the care home - I don't even know what to say but hope things get turned around soon.
One thing that has gone through my mind is that every country has a contingency plan for this sort of thing. I don't really see evidence of it at all. I'm wondering if someone accidentally shredded the wrong files and they're now winging it. But I'm a little cynical so in reality I'm sure there are some things going on that have not yet been explained. We shall see.
So to everyone, those with symptoms or self-isolating, people with quite natural anxiety and everyone feeling this virus circling like a stealthy predator and coming ever closer to disrupting everything we hold dear and cherish, I wish you well. This thread, as I have said before is one of may anchors to sanity at the moment, and I send immense gratitude for all the posts, information and for the safe place to share. It's going to be more vital than ever from here I feel.
MNetters, I salute you.