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The 'Positive Mental Health' Corona virus thread Part II

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magimedi · 10/03/2020 09:44

I hope that RapidRainbow does not mind me starting Part II of the thread - if you do let me know & I'll ask for it to be deleted.

It would just be a shame to not carry on as this is such a positive place.

Part I is here:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/coronavirus/3821799-The-Positive-Mental-Health-Corona-virus-thread?msgid=93901971

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AutumnRose1 · 11/03/2020 16:21

Superbrew

I have asthma and quite meh.

Though I just did an elbow bump with someone who was expecting a hug and she was rather...surprised.

Jrobhatch29 · 11/03/2020 16:21

Theres definitely critical cases. The woman in my town is very poorly. I just wish they would give us more info xx

Asgoodasarest · 11/03/2020 16:23

@Superbrew if it’s not too personal would you share which medication? I have a relative with RA on medication and I’d be interested to know if it’s the same one / type. Sorry to slightly derail for everyone else. Thank you.

KnottyAndPistey · 11/03/2020 16:40

I love Pringles. Paprika every time. Unless there are Twiglets. In which case Twiglets

Grin

I’m reading everything. You are all fabulous. Saving my sanity. So THANK YOU! xx

DH’s works for a large IT company who have just sent them all to work from home indefinitely. That is in one way reassuring, but we are also used to him travelling a lot. So please send all the gin I’m going to fecking need it. Halo

@magimedi

Gawd my shoulder! Thank you for remembering! Surgery was The Best Thing. Life changing. Had both done in the end and now I honestly wouldn’t know there had been anything wrong!!

Again. All hail science and medicine!

I had two frozen shoulders. Completely frozen. Very boring and magi was a real gem to me. Loves her!

WindFlower92 · 11/03/2020 16:45

@Dellow if you do remember could you please post? That sounds promising Smile

Sunshinegirl82 · 11/03/2020 16:46

@Jrobhatch29

Have a look at Chris Whitby's Q&A with the select committee. It's very reassuring.

He says several times that children are not badly affected by the virus. No child under the age of 9 has died anywhere in the world.

I'm actually not sure that it would help if they released more information. Knowing the numbers only seems to increase people's anxiety as it stands.

M0reGinPlease · 11/03/2020 16:46

C'mon @Jrobhatch29 let's keep it positive!

Sunshinegirl82 · 11/03/2020 16:46

Whitty

Orangeblossom78 · 11/03/2020 16:51

As I mentioned before the BBC news said most of the people in UK have mild cases, are at home and 'might feel a bit rough for a few days'

I totally agree about going out. DH said roads also quiet and easier travelling on the motorway today.

I am glad we have a government which seems to be responding sensibly and rationally, cautiously. It was good to hear the Budget today saying will give NHS anything they need as well.

Yes my DH is on Humira for an autoimmune condition and saw something about that being possibly used as a med. He also has asthma so will pass on the stuff about the inhaler. Thanks Flowers

Orangeblossom78 · 11/03/2020 16:53

I can't remember if it was mentioned here but that was a good thing about the 103 year old lady recovering wasn't it? They think it was because she was free of underlying conditions.

motherrunner · 11/03/2020 17:10

This thread is a breath of fresh air!

I’m a secondary school teacher and am feeling so anxious at the moment. I have contact with over a 1000 people a day (students/colleagues), not to mention the parents evenings we had last week and next week. I keep seeing risk everywhere.

I am prone to anxiety and keep thinking how will I care for my children? Could I be a carrier and pass it to a visit to my mum (she requires 24/7 care in a nursing home)? Luckily DH is calm and tried to reassure me but I’m finding it all a bit consuming.

Any tips to help calm myself?

Superbrew · 11/03/2020 17:16

Asgoodasarest, no not too personal at all!
He has barictinib at the moment

Asgoodasarest · 11/03/2020 17:24

Thank you. That’s different, but they have a consultant appointment next week so we can discuss current medication vs risks etc and get an informed opinion.

PineappleDanish · 11/03/2020 17:33

It made me realise that being at home alone all day was making my anxiety about the situation so much worse

I totally agree. I work for myself from home too. Kids are out at school all day, and when they come home they disappear off to their rooms to chill. I do try to get out for a walk in the mornings which helps considerably but it's been so wet recently. I always feel a lot calmer when DH is around. On the positive side, if there are school closures, or more people working from home nothing will change for me. I'll just have to deal with kids and DH under my feet while I'm trying to work.

Superbrew · 11/03/2020 17:40

I'm feeling a lot more optimistic, I have read a few different ra medications are being trialled asgoodasarest, so hopefully they work in similar ways! I would avoid steroid use if possible though.

magimedi · 11/03/2020 17:48

Pistey I also had both shoulders done (a long time before you). Sadly, as my surgeon told me & as I told DH, I've never been able to iron or do gloss painting Grin!!!

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Alsohuman · 11/03/2020 17:48

Just back from today’s walk and am too hot! It’s a beautiful, mild spring day here. I met an old boy who’s utterly pissed off with “all this malarkey” and reckons it’s a good thing Boris and Cummings have come head to head with something they can’t control or manipulate. He cheered me up no end.

Roussette · 11/03/2020 17:55

I like the sound of your oldboy Alsohuman , a man after my own heart!

Alsohuman · 11/03/2020 17:56

And mine!

estherfrewen · 11/03/2020 17:56

Have just walked home from work - 40 minutes in blustery conditions and felt so much better for it! I work in a large town and it was as busy as usual today. I managed to have coffee pre-work at Costa and at lunchtime somewhere else with my DH. Business as usual!

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 11/03/2020 17:59

Curse it, the rush-hour out of London at the end of our road is as busy as always.

Asgoodasarest · 11/03/2020 17:59

Thanks @Superbrew, no steroids currently.

Thank you for all the uplifting posts today everyone.

PineappleDanish · 11/03/2020 18:04

I listened to the Ologies podcast about coronavirus that I talked about on the other thread. It was OK. Very science-y and not scaremongering and there was a lot of good information about how these things actually work in terms of how long they can survive on surfaces and how they're actually pretty rubbish in the air. You're not going to get it from just being near someone who has it. That person would have to cough onto their hand, shake yours, and then you touch your face before washing your hands. They also said masks were useless and should be for people working in hospitals only.

There was a good discussion about the replication rate (?) which was basically trying to work out how many other people one infected person could pass the virus onto. The expert said that as the virus can't stay airborne and be breathed in, it's likely to be low, more similar to flu than something like measles. She also discussed the epidemic curve, said that China are over the worst and seeing things level off and decline, and that we'll see the same too.

It's important to remember that China saw its first cases on New Year's Eve, and the cause was identified as a coronavirus on 7th Jan. That's only 64 days ago. The virus has peaked, and is now declining. We are in a MUCH better position than the Chinese as we have 64 days of studies and research behind us. So it's fair to assume that in another 64 days (or less) we're going to be seeing sharp declines too.

64 days from today is, coincidentally, my birthday :-) So if that's a sign, I don't know what is.

AutumnRose1 · 11/03/2020 18:04

I’m using my steroid inhaler as usual..i have to!

Talked to another neighbour, he’s a teacher. Very annoyed about the hysteria and the way the media are talking about it.

Superbrew · 11/03/2020 18:10

Autumnrose1
Sorry definitely didnt mean that type of steroid, I meant the tablets where you have to carry a card to inform people you are taking them.