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The 'Positive Mental Health' Corona virus thread Part II

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magimedi · 10/03/2020 09:44

I hope that RapidRainbow does not mind me starting Part II of the thread - if you do let me know & I'll ask for it to be deleted.

It would just be a shame to not carry on as this is such a positive place.

Part I is here:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/coronavirus/3821799-The-Positive-Mental-Health-Corona-virus-thread?msgid=93901971

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purpleme12 · 11/03/2020 11:30

I haven't checked the other thread since yesterday on purpose. Trying to keep on this thread now

Callybrid · 11/03/2020 11:40

We’re sticking with UK travel plans too - Scottish Highlands so I’m looking forward to being a bit remote and hopefully enjoying the countryside (currently stuck inside with poorly 7yo)!

Enjoying all the humour and helpful stats and graphs - thanks everyone!

PineappleDanish · 11/03/2020 11:46

We are off to Aviemore first week of the Easter holidays. Self-catering house. Cannot WAIT. Bit of fresh air and hopefully sunshine and lots of getting out and about.

Thymelord · 11/03/2020 12:42

Ooh Aviemore is lovely. I am jealous PineappleDanish.

Zoidbergonthehalfshell · 11/03/2020 12:48

@PineappleDanish - I too am very jealous, although we are off to Orkney and Shetland in April Smile

Somebody posted this on a Fb group I belong to, and I thought it was lovely and that you might like it too (shared with her permission, of course)

"I am lucky enough to be able to work from home two days a week. My "office" is in my conservatory, which has downsides in terms of heating! But the upside is that I can watch wildlife through my window while working. So far today I've seen a gang of goldfinches on the seed feeders, a wren furtling in the flowerbed, a green woodpecker rummaging in the veg patch, two male blackbirds having a proper handbags session over a female, and the rat who lives in my compost bin sunning itself at a wary distance from my cat 😍 And the great tits are yelling "teacher teacher teacher" through the window."

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 11/03/2020 12:55

62-year-old Nadine Dorries felt ill on Friday (per The World Service) and arranged to be tested, and was tested and found to have the disease on Monday. Today she is tweeting that she is over the worst.

I've had mild colds that lasted longer than this!

I find it very encouraging that this seems to be a rather mild disease than otherwise, once the newspaper hype and twit hysteria is stripped away. Yes, people have died, but fewer than die of flu or pneumonia or many other diseases every winter.

FDRoosevelt said in a speech in 1933 that the only thing we have to fear is fear itself. He was talking about the cause of the Great Depression, but it seems to me to apply here too -- well, not the only thing, because we could still get hit by a bus, but the main thing. Fear reinforces itself, as anyone knows who has watched a horror film with people who want to be scared by it, and then a horror film with people who want to laugh it it.

PS: I do actually know someone one who was hit by a bus. I don't as yet know anyone who has died of covid-19, not even at three or four removes, though I do know someone who knows someone whose workmate's colleague on a different job has it -- or possibly his workmate's colleague's wife has it, I'm not sure. Anyway, the person who has it is recovering a week after we heard about this, so they are unlikely to die at this point. And we only know because the self-isolation was being a nuisance about some work-thing.

Orangeblossom78 · 11/03/2020 13:31

I went out into town today and I am glad I did. The sun is shining and the usual crowds were not there and it was much quieter. Went to aqua fit and all the older ladies were there as usual. The sports centre had extra signs telling us to wash hands and use the Antibac which they now have installed at the entrances etc.

Then to Waitrose where the attendants were cleaning the self service checkouts - it was all fine. Very reassuring. It was nice to see the smile of the instructor at the gym and the ladies in the pool as usual.

magimedi · 11/03/2020 13:39

Just read this in the paper:

Seen scrawled on the back of a very dirty white van:

"No toilet rolls kept in herre overnight"

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PowerslidePanda · 11/03/2020 13:57

Regarding the 100 year old who has recovered... if you flip the mortality rates, it means that 85% of people over the age of 80 recover from it, despite their age! And so do 89% of people with cardiovascular disease!

Winecheesesleep · 11/03/2020 14:06

www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2020-03-11/keep-calm-and-wash-your-hands-britain-s-strategy-to-beat-virus

This is a good summary of our approach, I am trusting that the government know what they're doing, I think they are following the guidance of some very informed people.

Orangeblossom78 · 11/03/2020 14:28

That is interesting (Bloomberg article) Yes, I read that Italian parents were saying exactly that about the school closures, that children would be cared for by grandparents and in groups of 6 or 8, it would not help things.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 11/03/2020 14:28

I was a taught by a teacher at a Quaker school that you ought to wash your hands for what she called "a paternosterwhile" -- the time it took to say the Lord's Prayer. Which is about twenty-five seconds!

WindFlower92 · 11/03/2020 14:45

Something that keeps being contradicted - can you get it twice? I'm too scared to Google the answer!

Dellow · 11/03/2020 14:58

Windflower - no , there is good evidence of seroconversion from Japanese studies apparently ( can’t remember where I read this but very recently) . So most people should not be able to get ill from it a second time, although there will be rare exceptions as with other viruses eg:like chicken pox. However it may be possible for a person to test positive after having got rid of the virus by being exposed to virus particles and getting them on them - this does not mean they would be ‘infected’ though. Much like the dog who tested positive but in fact was not infected it had just been exposed to its infected owner.

Orangeblossom78 · 11/03/2020 15:01

30 billion pounds to be spent in budget on helping UK deal with this, including things like paying the wages of employees in small businesses sick pay etc.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-51835306

Roussette · 11/03/2020 15:23

magimedi Hahaha, that is brilliant! Think I might write that on my car! it's dirty enough

Canshopwillshop · 11/03/2020 15:39

For anyone who has a child who is asthmatic, I just thought I’d let you know about the conversation I had with my Dr last night. She called me because DD (15) was due an asthma review. She wanted to check how DD was and if she’s using her inhalers (brown preventer and blue reliever).

I asked her 2 things - firstly is DD more at risk of CV with her asthma and secondly, did the steroids in her brown inhaler mean her immune system was weaker. She was reassuring on both and said that children and young teens are generally getting mild cases/no symptoms and there has not been any evidence so far of different outcomes for children with asthma compared to those without.

In reply to the steroids she said that the immune system is only affected when you are on high doses and that the levels in the brown inhaler are not significant enough to affect it. She emphasised the importance of taking the brown inhaler regularly to keep asthma under control and also said to make sure I have enough blue inhalers in the house just in case.

TheWorstShed · 11/03/2020 15:47

Hi everyone, thanks for being a sea of calm.

I have felt much better today. I work from home and had a day off with DH. We have been out and about - being careful to wash hands of course. It made me realise that being at home alone all day was making my anxiety about the situation so much worse. I wonder if that's part of the hysteria -it is very easy to spiral and let thoughts go unchecked if you are are stay at home parent or work from home.

M0reGinPlease · 11/03/2020 15:50

Most reassuring article I've read @Winecheesesleep thanks for sharing. I've said it before and l'll say it again- I'm no fan of Boris or the Tories and it does actually pain me to say it but I think they're handling it well. Keep calm and wash your hands. Simple really. Only thing I wish they had kept more of a handle on was the hysterical press coverage last week.

Jrobhatch29 · 11/03/2020 15:55

I really wish they would share how the people infected are doing - especially the children who have caught it. Would alleviate alot of fears as im constantly googling how it affects children x

Superbrew · 11/03/2020 16:14

I googled how many people in uk have asthma...its 5.4 million, worst case scenario they are saying overall 100,000 deaths. So to me that is reassuring

Helenj1977 · 11/03/2020 16:17

According to worldometer there are no serious cases.

The 'Positive Mental Health' Corona virus thread Part II
SureTry · 11/03/2020 16:20

Theworstshed I agree. I spend a lot of time alone with my toddler and it definitely causes my anxiety to go off the rails. I dragged myself and DS2 to his playgroup on Monday. I felt good for doing it and seeing other people carrying on with day to day life was very reassuring.

Superbrew · 11/03/2020 16:20

Reassuring for asthmatics
Also I have been worried about my husband who has rheumatoid arthritis ( I still am) but I was worried because of the medication he is on. However I have read that they are trialling his medication to use for coronavirus, because it reduces inflammation which is what they think happens to the lungs (too much inflamation) . I presume hopefully most autoimmune medications act in a similar way to reduce inflammation- so that is also a positive hopefully.