"cutting women’s breasts off and playing with them while gang raping her. tying children and their parents together with wire and burning them alive, torturing a family by cutting off their body parts while they are sitting round a dining table. kidnapping babies, etc, as evil?"
Are these real events that took place or made-up stories such as 40 beheaded babies burned in ovens? Either way, I feel deep sadness for loss of life on both sides. I don't see the actions of IDF as any better if these claims were true. We have seen enough videos of IDF soldiers who don't care about civilians in Gaza and we have seen enough people cheering up on their killing. We have read about IDF's own reports claiming they were instructed to make maximum destruction. So, yes I consider IDF as equally evil as Hamas.
"You don’t think Israel’s stance may be borne out of years of wars started against them, terrorist attacks hijacking planes, blowing up buses, pizza parlours, shopping malls, murdering their whole Olympic team, murdering whole families including babies in their beds, shooting up school buses, disembowelling people and pulling out their innards for making a wrong turn etc, etc?"
I have lived with terrorism enough to know it doesn't happen out of the blue. Terrorism is the reason I moved out of my own country, not because it was an immediate risk to my life but because I didn't want to participate in it by being okay with my husband joining the army for compulsory military service. My personal position couldn't change anything but at least I had the choice not to participate in it. I'm also familiar how majority of public was manipulated with disgust caused by the terror group and how this disgust was used to justify and dismiss the loss of civilian lives on the 'other side' because they were 'supposedly' supporting these terrorists.
"Now you’re saying the 1948 war wasn’t really to wipe out Israel."
It's not my opinion. Its the opinion of subject matter experts based on historical facts and referenced material.
"Sounds like you’re pretty one sided to me."
More like you are projecting your one-sidedness onto me.
"It’s well known that if Israel wasn’t there, the Arabs would be fighting each other. Israel is just a distraction. Sunni vs Shia."
Sure. That's what I've said before. So presenting Israel as this tiny little country where Arabs are collectively trying to destroy is not true as Arabs or all these surrounding majority Muslim countries are not unified. But we'll see if Netenyahu-Trump alliance will unify them.