Hi. WARNING LONG POST....
Sorry I didn't come back to you yesterday. Thanks to everyone for asking after me.
Scan had the best outcome we could have hoped for (apart from the miracle baby option).
Everything has gone by itself and there is now a thin lining so go back to the start (do not collect bloody anything ).
Anyway, she said all looks fine, ovaries both fine etc. Good to go again if we want to.
Was very relieved to hear no need for medical intervention.
I do feel that we got off rather lightly (IYSWIM). The bleeding lasted about 9 days but it never got too bad. I needed a hottie twice and paracetamol twice. Thanks to my endo I have had far worse periods in my youth. There were times when I literally did not know what to do with myself cos of the pain and i had feared that would befall me last week but thank God - it was nothing like that.
GP today. Bless her, she is already planning what we will do next time. "We'll check your levels every few days, we'll get you an early scan (even if we have to tell a white lie and say your spotting)." She said she is confident that I will get preg again and that she sees no reason why it shouldn't go right next time (has she not been paying attention to my MC history )
Anyway, she said it's obvious that fetilization is taking place as is implantation - it's just that the last 2 embryos have not taken off and she hopes the next one will. So do I love, so do I!!
She doesn't think I have the sticky blood thing cos I had 2 successful pregs before, she says it really isn't a fault with my body more a chromosone problem.
So here we go again. I do feel that as I have dealt with this early loss fine I am happy to go again. But if I were to lose again I may well stop then.
My DH didn't want me to get my FSH levels checked cos he said the results would not be conclusive regarding egg quality and he didn't feel we should make a decision based on that. I am ok to go ahead on that basis.
She isn't too worried about the pains in my legs. I do not show signs of DVT. So will see if it settles down.
Sorry for long ramble.
GPS Sorry to hear your results were'nt good. The added time pressure thing is a pain as well isn't it. I was desperate to get pregnant again before August cos that was when our lost little one was due and also when i turn 44. I think having something in the future which puts that added pressure on makes it all twice as stressful. Not sure what to say to you to take that added stress away though - sorry at my rubbishness.
gum beef in beer sounds good - any left over for me? Sorry to hear that you are having trouble with longing for another baby. It is hard to be happy for others isn't it. I know how you feel hon.
diege Love the idea of us all meeting up in real life. My goodness we know soooo much about each others lady bits - it would be so funny!
italian Thanks - my kids are lovely (now you mention it). The eldest is 10 going on 14 so he has a tendency towards stroppyness and the youngest is a loony but they're ours and we love 'em.
Make the most of your DD - before you know it she'll be 10 going on 14 as well and it's all downhill from there (so I'm told!)
linda It is so hard to know what to do next isn't it. I hope you reach a decision or have a miracle pregnancy which takes you by surprise real soon.
jolly saved you til last cos you're in extra need of some Hippy care right now. try not to stress. It coud well be thrush. Have you got a GP appointment to discuss it yet? Stop smuggling vinegar in your knickers Mrs - it can only lead to trouble. Seriously though, thinking of you my love. xx
Anyone else I've left off - sorry .