Hi everyone
Oh yogamat - scream away. It's a totallly shit time. I found that I was up and down a lot - I guess that's part of the healing process but it still swipes you sidesways when you feel so bad again. I got a BFN a week after the bleeding finished but not sure what is normal.
Just1oneplease - welcome. So sorry to hear about your losses but you have found a great bunch of ladies here.
Goodluckbear - at your hunky young doc! I wonder if it's caused by your hormones settling back down again? Slightly different subject, but I had real problems losing weight after my m/c. I'd lost some naturally through healthy eating whilst pregnant. After the m/c I went on a strict diet - and the scales refused to budge at all . I googled and found quite a few other people had experienced that so I put it down to hormones....
barrenbrook - iced gems, that takes you back. Good luck to you both on Monday.
Unbuffy - welcome (impressed at your wading through all this volume). This is a great place to get a plaster put on your scab or pick away at it - whatever you need. at your friend's introduction. Must have been awful finding out at 14 weeks. Not an insensitive question about cheapies. I got 25 InstAlerts (off Amazon I think) for £3.99. I had got fed up wasting £££ on Clearblue digitals just to see the words "Not Pregnant". Mind you, I don't think they are that sensitive as I got BFNs on them on days 29 and 30 (usually 28 day cycle) before finally getting a BFP on day 31.
There are a lot of new people on here going through that horrrible immediate post m/c pain. I've been reflecting and it was only recently that I emotionally accepted that there was nothing I could have done to prevent the m/c. Rationally I always knew that, but when it finally sank in emotionally it really helped. Sorry for the ramble but I just wish I could say something to help you all feel better. xxx
Littlemiss - will be thinking of you tomorrow.
Sunburntats - feel your frustration. Any news?
VivC - the first month with the monitor can be a bit vague as it gets to know you. I didn't ovulate the first month and hence got 18 bloody Highs in a row and no Peak. DH was exhausted!
Louisesh - have a great weekend. Does your sister know you're pregnant or will she be looking at your orange juice suspiciously? Reading your posts got me POAS this morning - the madness is contagious! Still getting wobbly emotionally but trying to keep busy (and not obsessively surfing here).
Hopefully - I'm not sure whether an increase in post m/c fertility has ever been proven. So don't feel you are missing out on it. Still got my fingers crossed for you until AF actually appears.
underneaththestream - I was pretty wiped out for the next 2 weeks or so but it's hard to know what is hormone related and what's just feeling blue at times. Take it easy.
WestYorkshireGirl - I'm afraid it appears when it appears. Commonly it's late but in my case AF actually arrived 3 days early. PITA waiting....
meita - seeing you get to your scan fine is an inspiration. I'm guessing you slept for 24 hours solid afterwards in relief .
And cheepz - last but never least my dear! Good news re the valuations - but think about the nightmare of keeping the house clean for all those viewings! Hummm - maybe that says more about me than you
Sorry if I've left anyone out - love to you all.