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Just MC'd. Starting it all again.. Come and join me for the long haul.

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MumOfBaby · 01/05/2009 19:11

Hi all.

Needing some extra support this time round as have just had a MC. We are trying again straight away. But I've a feeling it's going to take ages. Got pregnant first month trying last 2 times. I have 1 DC- 11 months.

I want some people to join this thread who are ready to hold hands and help each other through the TTC.

Good luck to all.

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Neeko · 13/06/2009 20:59

Congrats Luckywinner That's great news.

Sorry I've not been posting but I lurk a lot.

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 14/06/2009 12:04

Lucky- well done! Congratulations sweetie! I'm off to tell DP..

I did a test yesterday, although I'm not meant to test until 19th June and it's negative, but I am sicky, faint, tired, craving bread and feeling lots of funny twinges down there. So hoping for the best.

luckywinner · 14/06/2009 19:17

Thanks my love. I am v excited, but also really really quite scared, especially when I go to the loo. No white knickers here.

Don't give up for this month yet, I did a test on Monday as I was getting fed up waiting for af and wanted to know for sure and it was negative. Saturday I get a BFP. Am keeping my fingers all crossed for you. Hurry up 19th June.

boodleboot · 14/06/2009 22:15

that is brilliant news lucky....this is a really lucky thread woohoo...

i POAS yester and this morning and am ovulating so BD last night. and willevery other night for next week.

FINGERS CROSSED FOR STICKY BEANS.....

hopingalways · 15/06/2009 13:13

yay Lucky you're living up to your name!

totally step away from the tests with your hands where we can see them! with early testing, if you get a BFN you just ignore it and test later, if it's BFP you would have found out in a few days anyway. I know it's really tempting (never had a pregnancy where I didnt test early!) but it is worth waiting until AF is due.

Another thought that might help, chemical prgs might account for up to 75% of pg, and all the thinking about how many MCs are normal was done long before hpts were sensitive enough to register chemical pgs. so by testing early we might just be setting ourselves up to be more upset than was ever needed.

puts white coat away

boodles enjoy the bd!

luckywinner · 15/06/2009 14:43

Aw, thanks guys. I am sooooo tired today and have to go to a playdate type thingy and then to a meeting at my son's school.

Boodle, get inseminating pronto. I am sending you lots of sticky stuff.

Yuck, that actually sounds revolting doesn't it

Oh well, whatever it takes.

Hoping, when do you get your blood test results?

Oh btw I bought one of those digital tests today and it said 2-3 weeks which I think puts me further along than the mc which I think is quite positive.

I hope you don't all mind me staying on this thread. I am not ready to leave you all yet.

boodleboot · 15/06/2009 16:01

i can't believe it.....stupid DH has broken his rib.....he is in heaps of pain and all ican think about it there will be no BD tonight and i am so OVULATING RIGHT NOW....aaaarrrrrgggghh. BUGGER BUGGER BUGGER.

i have graciously {IMO} agreed that he can rest tonight and see how he is tomorrow...Bloody football....why can't he just watch it instead of play it????.....tsk. Really praying that we sealed the deal sat night...i did feel some cramping last night which could be implanting?

lucky don't go anywhere.....i may need restraining from murdering my dh....

boodleboot · 15/06/2009 16:07

.....oh, i do love DH and am sorry he is in pain etc etc etc....blah blah....just thought i'd add that incase newbies to the thread think i have slightly lost sight of reality..

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 15/06/2009 16:35

Lucky- I hope you do stay around! You're our ray of hope!

Boodle- Lol. I think you have more chance of getting preg if you BD before ovulation, and I think implantation happens 8-10 days after ovulation. I'm no expert though. Lol poor your husband but I totally understand what you mean!

Hoping- I tested this morning before I read your post and it was a 4 days early test and it was negative. And it's 4 days until I'm due AF so I can't be pregnant I guess Hrrmmph.. sick of this lark already. But it is my hen night in a couple of weeks and I suppose I wouldn't have been able to drink and everyone would have wondered why, but I wouldn't be able to tell them as if work find out I won't get re employed at the end of my contract. Urghh. What a mess.

I just want a bloody healthy bump!!

amyboo · 16/06/2009 10:29

Huge congratulations to lucky! I hope this is a very sticky bean. Maybe this is a lucky thread? Here's hoping...

boodle - sorry to hear about your DH's mishap. I hope it doesn't get in the way too much of the all important bd-ing!

totally - sorry to hear your poas wasn't succesful. It might still be too early yet? I'll keep my fingers crossed for you just incase.

I've been bd-ing like crazy the last few days, as I'm on CD 18 today, so should have ovulated somewhere around the weekend. I had my parents visiting all weekend, but still managed to fit in some late-night (very quiet) bd-ing! Fingers crossed it's been successful....

luckywinner · 17/06/2009 12:36

Thanks everyone for your lovely messages.

I am a bit of a nervous wreck tbh. I keep symptom spotting, and keep getting nervous that they aren't strong enough and then I get in a tiz about having another mc.

But today I am feeling a bit sick, v cold (which is typical for me when pregnant) and all I want to eat is egg and chips!

Totally have you done any more tests?

AmyI also have a good feeling this is going to turn into a lucky thread.

luckywinner · 17/06/2009 14:01

And also why am I so frigging tearful? I cried today when dd 2.6 wouldn't let me give her a cuddle to cheer her up. I mean, ffs .

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 17/06/2009 18:05

I did a test last night and we couldn't decide if it was faint positive or not but by this morning is was positive so did another and it was very faint positive so I woke DP up and we agreed not to get excited but we are.

Did another tonight and it's negative

Due AF in 2 days and have been doing the tests that your meant to take on day of AF.

Just hope I am pregnant. I have heartburn, twinges, indigestion, tiredness etc.

Please everyone say some prayers for me!

Lucky- it's good ur gettin symptoms, as naff as they are

luckywinner · 17/06/2009 19:37

Oh I have so many fingers crossed for you Totally. And a faint positive is a really good sign when your af isn't even due yet.

Oh I really hope we both get one that sticks.
This evening I am feeling v negative and don't really believe I am pregnant.

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 17/06/2009 20:29

Thanks lucky. I think I'm obsessed at the moment.

Don't worry, I'm sure uv got a sticky bean!!

luckywinner · 17/06/2009 21:00

I am really really hoping you get a bfp. Is Friday the day your af is due? I don't blame you for being obsessed. I have peed on four tests this week. And it must be difficult when you know you had a faint bfp. But in my book you don't get false positives so I am secretly v excited for you.

Let me know if you do another one. Will be thinking of you.

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 17/06/2009 22:00

I'm Pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wooohoooooo.

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 17/06/2009 22:00

I'm Pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wooohoooooo.

amyboo · 18/06/2009 08:19

Wooooo! I'm so happy for you totally! That's great news. You must be so excited!

lucky I don't blame you for feeling negative etc - it must be really hard to stay positive when you've been through what we've all been through. I found it very difficult to believe I'd even had a mmc/ERPC for the first month or so. Heaven knows what I'll be like if/when I get pregnant again. Can you arrange for an early scan to put your mind at rest?

I knew this would turn out to be a lucky thread - 2bfps already this week! Maybe it'll be my turn next week (fingers crossed). I'm on CD20 and am feeling very blue about everything. Not sure if it's just pmt starting early or the faact that I keep seeing pregnancy bump and baby photos everytime I go on Facebook

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 18/06/2009 08:28

Amy- I had all that last week. I was in the pub at a family thing and someone came in with a 2 week old- she didn't care who had hold of it as long as she could be outside smoking. I just wanted to pick the little girl up and take her home. In the end I left. I was really angry at myself but I couldn't be around it. I'm sure it will be your turn next week- this is definately a lucky thread!

Angelfifi · 18/06/2009 08:54

Hi everyone!
Congrats to you totally, you must be so chuffed!! i have been on this thread but lately just lurking!!! I still have no af was due last thurs but did a test and is a bfn so just wishing af would hurry up and show her face to get it over with. I think my body must be still gettting use to the mc or i must have a bug thats holding things up.
Good luck to all testing and congrats again to all those that got bfp!! Whoop whoop!!

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 18/06/2009 17:07

Hi Angel, welcome! U r doing well not to test every 5 minutes

I'm going to stick around for a bit until i know this is a sticky one.

Where is everyone? Boodle? Amy? Hoping? Neeko?

luckywinner · 18/06/2009 20:36

Totally YIPPEE YIPPEE YIPPEE YIPPEE YIPPEE YIPPEE YIPPEE YIPPEE

This is truly a lucky thread.

What's your due date?

Thanks Amy it is so hard to believe this is going ok. I just keeping thinking of all the bad things. Hoping I will get more positive soon!

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 18/06/2009 21:01

Hehe bless Lucky, that's lovely. My due date is 26th or 27th feb, what's your due date? What part of the country u in? I'm in the North West.

luckywinner · 18/06/2009 21:38

I have no idea what my due date is as have no idea when I conceived as I had no af inbetween mc and this pregnancy. If I go from my mc date - 1st May, it puts me at 12th Feb. Went to my doc today and he has got me a booking in apt (and I think with scan) for 10th July, so if I make it till then I should find out.

I am in West London. Whereabouts in the North West are you? I am so pleased for you btw.

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