Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC 4th baby at 38years old

193 replies

CharzPrincess1986 · 22/07/2025 15:40

Im trying to conceive at this ripe old age. Been 3 months so far. Period is due in 13days, praying it doesn't come🙏🏼🙈

OP posts:
Thread gallery
11
Mismatc · 30/09/2025 07:35

@Op1n1onsPlease I also have a 13yo and 11yo, they all have a beautiful bond. Any age gap works ☺️

Mismatc · 01/10/2025 05:33

11DPO today and not the most convincing positive test still. I have everything crossed

TTC 4th baby at 38years old
ChaE05 · 01/10/2025 07:00

@Mismatcthat is alot darker than yesterday 😍

Kittybway · 07/10/2025 09:37

Hey guys, iv been MIA, lost my thermometer and went on holiday. I think im 11/12dpo and took a test.. iv not tested this early before its very thin but came up in a few mins and got darker... what do you think?

TTC 4th baby at 38years old
Kittybway · 10/10/2025 09:15

Hey, im 14 dpo today and have another postive test 🥰

Cycle 7, was getting a bit impatient!

How is everyone else doing?

MixedBananas · 10/10/2025 20:21

Awww I see lots of positives. Congrats ladies.

Since i been away, last posted July I had 2 losses back to back. I got a positive this cycle on tuesday 7dpo and 8dpo but it went negative so another chemical no period has showen up yet.
Finally found a Dr who confirmed my suspicions, breast feeding day and night causes high prolactin. I ovulate, and implant but doesn't go past that.

Mismatc · 11/10/2025 11:59

How old is your little one @MixedBananas? mine is 20 months old and still breastfeeds probably 5-10 times each 24 hours. 2-3 hourly overnight and on demand in the day if I’m not at work.

I’m now 5 weeks pregnant but it took a while to conceive. Fingers crossed this one sticks despite the feeding!

Wingingitlife · 26/10/2025 08:50

@Mismatc@Kittybwaycongratulations ladies!! ❤️

I’ve not been on for a while as I’ve been getting myself all stressed out about everything (ttc and also work). I had some spotting at 8dpo and then dreamt I was pregnant at 13dpo so had myself all convinced then today my af came bang on it’s due date. So I’m gutted 😞 back to cycle day 1. It’s only month 4 for me and I know in the grand scheme of things it’s nothing compared to how long some of you guys have been trying, but I’m just worried I’m trying and I’ve got no chance. But coming back here and seeing that two of you have got your positives gives me some hope again ❤️

I think I’m going to take a month off from the ovulation tests and the temping and try to just relax and trust my body xx

ChaE05 · 26/10/2025 09:53

@WingingitlifeI'm the same.. haven't been on the forums much, these negatives of tests are mine are getting quite boring!
Congrats on the bfps though 👏 love seeing these 🥰
Just ovulated. Thus is cycle 12 now. NHS have done everything they can. My HyCoSy was clear. All tests good so now been advised to seek private IVF. Have booked an appointment with a clinic end of Nov. Feel sad it's come to this xx

Wingingitlife · 28/10/2025 09:22

@ChaE05let is know how your appointment goes 🤍

My period this month lasted literally a day and a half 👎🏼 with the spotting I had at 8dpo I’m thinking this could be perimenopause 😫 xx

ChaE05 · 28/10/2025 18:26

@Wingingitlifei hope not!! Can you get tested for it xx

Wingingitlife · 30/10/2025 11:59

@ChaE05I’ve no idea to be honest. I might just make a docs appointment and see what they say 🤷🏼‍♀️ xx

Wingingitlife · 18/02/2026 11:46

Hello ladies! Resurrecting this post as I need some hope! It’s been 8 months since my bf and I started ttc and 7 months since my chemical. I’ve had absolutely no luck since and even started spotting between periods over the past 2/3 months. I went to see my gp but she was a bit dismissive if I’m honest and said because I have already got children I wouldn’t be able to get any help on the nhs (even though my bf has no children which doesn’t seem fair). I’ve booked in for some blood tests but it’s been difficult to catch them at the right time as my periods are different lengths from month to month, between 23-29 days.

I turned 41 in January and I’m starting to feel the pressure! Do we have any success stories here? Xx

Kittybway · 18/02/2026 12:25

Hello, We got pregnant and I am currently 24 weeks and going well.

Devastatingly my 2 year old passed away a few weeks ago suddenly.

Very bittersweet we are expecting her sibling in June just before she would have turned 3 xx

ChaE05 · 18/02/2026 13:12

@Kittybwayreading this has made me sob. I cant imagine the pain you are going through. So devastating and im sending you so much strength and love. I hope your little baby will help pull you through. Xxx

ChaE05 · 18/02/2026 13:16

@Wingingitlifesorry you are still trying! And sorry your GP has been so dismissive. That isn't right at all. I had many tests with the NHS and I already have a little one.
Unfortunately we are still trying 16 months after first starting and gone into cycle 13 after our chemical. On a second medicated round of letrozole with a trigger shot. Have got my follicle scan tomorrow. We actually just tried to dtd before my fella went to work but as usual the pressure got to much and wasn't able to finish. I just feel so disheartened at this point and feel like giving up. Its very consuming x

Wingingitlife · 18/02/2026 13:47

@Kittybwaymy heart sank reading your comment I am so sorry that you are going through this and I can’t imagine how you’re navigating life right now ❤️ I hope you have got lots of love and support around you ❤️ xxx

Wingingitlife · 18/02/2026 13:48

@ChaE05I am sorry to read that you are still trying. I understand how disheartened you feel as I feel the same and I’ve not been trying for as long as you. Here’s to hoping we get some good news soon ❤️

New posts on this thread. Refresh page