TTC after Miscarriage part 4

[Ella31]

Starting thread number 4, can you believe it? Congrats to everyone who has been lucky the last few threads and for those who have had recent losses again or new, keep strong, you are amazing. To those still trying, it will happen, myself included there and we will support each other.

I'll just include a foreward for anyone new who joins us, this is a supportive group for anyone who has had a loss, no matter how early or late. Everyone here has experieced the upset and understands.

Ive gone through the list and more than likely left people out so add anyone you think I've forgotten.

@ToeBeans24

@DonnaWhat
@Onthedouble123
@Lovedatforme

@emmatcc1
@ncl31
@MisssMarion
@Loz365
@Tallgirl91
@Figtree11
@ThelastRolo20
@mountainlass
@CadoAvo

@Joleyjojo

@Jellyfish2

@B1989
@rosyposy26

@RaisingCornishWildlings
@Rockyslife
@sarahk89

That’s amazing news, I know you’ll be nervous and anxious about TTC again but you know we’re all here for you

You have had such a bad experience past time, it's understandable. Keep strong, I'm sure you'll be reaching the 20 weeks in no time

I'm so happy for you @Figtree11 you deserved a bit of good news. Time to dtd to your hearts content now😄😁

🤣🤣 thank you!

Thanks so much x

@Figtree11 excellent news. Are you going to track to find your ovulation or just start DTD and see where it takes you? 🤞🏻🤞🏻 You get your bfp very, very soon.
@MisssMarion I don't think you could have done any more really looking at that chatty so here's hoping you timed it to perfection 🤞🏻
@Lovedatforme random emotion seemed to be the sign for me in my first pregnancy so that that could be it. I remember just crying and then saying to my husband I don't think it had worked this month. We went and bought a test so that I could cheer my miserable self up with wine and lo and behold it came up positive. Really hope the hormones are telling you something 💕 how long will you wait to test? Xx

I'm hoping it's not just PMS, my BBT chart it looking good today too so fingers crossed. 8DPO and negative this morning but it's also so early, I just caved 🙃

How are you feeling?

Your chat definitely looks good - fingers crossed 🥰

@jellyfish2 I can only imagine how you're feeling. Pregnancy after loss is so stressful. I was already stressed with my two previous pregnancies although I had no reason to be, so I can't imagine how stressed I'll be if/when I manage to get pregnant again now that I experienced a MMC. Take it one day at a time I guess and remind yourself there's nothing you can do, except to try and relax. Easier said than done I'm sure. I'm so rooting for you, your messages on the miscarriage thread were very helpful when I had my MMC and I wish you all the happiness you deserve! We did you use preseed last month but not as much as this month. Hopefully this time it helps!

@Ella31 Thanks. I'm in my (very) late 30s so I think the GP should advise us to do some tests after 6 months. I'll try and book an appointment after my next period is due to start the discussion as I know it can be very slow. Hopefully I'll get my bfp and will cancel the appointment ☺️ I haven't had my amh checked yet nor done a scan, I'll be requesting those to my gp. I didn't do the amh as part of the bloods I just did as I want to do it together with the scan (I don't want to freak out if my numbers are low as I understand it's not the whole picture).

@Onthedouble123 Thanks! Fingers crossed indeed! I'll be in Disneyland Paris when I'll be able to test but I don't want to ruin the trip so I'll test later, quite close to when my period is due.

Yes you are absolutely right to go after 6 months at the late thirties stage but just remember women are having babies later so I have every hope for you. I think the amh is a good test for when you hit the 6 months and you are right, it isn't the only part of the puzzle. I'm the same I just want my obestrician to finally hand me my baby and say, they are perfect Ella31. It's a weird experience having had two babies in the last 8 months but my birth experience abd post partum experience is unlike most people. I almost feel like a fraud when I talk about being a mother and I find myself compensating by saying, they looked perfect, like proper little babies only they passed away and one of my babies lived for 4 days. I don't know why I feel the need to justify it.

I'm cycle day 10 today.

@Ella31 you are not a fraud, don't ever think that xxxx

How is everyone today. Where are ye in your cycle? Cycle Day 11 today for me

9DPO for me, negative test this morning. I don't feel like myself though, but then again could be PMS. How're you feeling today?

Hi everyone, CD12 for me. From past experience, I don’t think ovulation will be for another week or 2 yet

Have started with the ovulation sticks, but already finding them annoying so not sure how long I’ll keep it up!

6DPO for me today - feels like any other month lol (although I never think of anything at this stage as a symptom as it's too soon). Not feeling particularly hopeful tbh. AF due on the 3rd.

7DPO today, will test on Sunday.

Have booked a massage and facial tomorrow so looking forward to that. It was a birthday voucher and wanted to squeeze it in quickly incase I get BFP and have to wait until I'm out the first trimester for a massage 😅

CD6 for me today. Still pinkish white watery discharge though. Start OPK testing tonight ready for the next cycle.

Still very early. Fingers crossed 🤞

We are the same cycle day almost. I'm 11. Do whatever is best for you. Best advice is dtd every other day and when you have ovulation cm and symptoms.

Fingers crossed.

Good luck with the next few days.

If it helps i felt like normal on my last pregnancy before that bfp.

Hey everyone,
think I've chatted to some of you on previous threads 👋

I'm still here after mmc in December and not a whiff of a positive since..due AF tomorrow and fairly sure she's coming.. I have a procedure next Friday
laparoscopy, hysteroscopy and will check tubes. They are having a good look to see if they can see any issues

I feel like my test this morning might have a vvvvvvvfl but also could be losing my mind looking at tests 🥴

Do you have a pic? 🤞🏼