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TTC after Miscarriage part 4

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Ella31 · 12/06/2024 11:51

Starting thread number 4, can you believe it? Congrats to everyone who has been lucky the last few threads and for those who have had recent losses again or new, keep strong, you are amazing. To those still trying, it will happen, myself included there and we will support each other.

I'll just include a foreward for anyone new who joins us, this is a supportive group for anyone who has had a loss, no matter how early or late. Everyone here has experieced the upset and understands.

Ive gone through the list and more than likely left people out so add anyone you think I've forgotten.

@ToeBeans24

@DonnaWhat
@Onthedouble123
@Lovedatforme

@emmatcc1
@ncl31
@MisssMarion
@Loz365
@Tallgirl91
@Figtree11
@ThelastRolo20
@mountainlass
@CadoAvo

@Joleyjojo

@Jellyfish2

@B1989
@rosyposy26

@RaisingCornishWildlings
@Rockyslife
@sarahk89

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moosey89 · 22/07/2024 18:54

@Ella31 good luck for tomorrow. Don't forget to take painkillers about an hour before your procedure time x

Ella31 · 22/07/2024 19:50

moosey89 · 22/07/2024 18:54

@Ella31 good luck for tomorrow. Don't forget to take painkillers about an hour before your procedure time x

Thanks @moosey89 I completely forgot. I'll do that.

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Ella31 · 22/07/2024 19:52

I'm so anxious about tomorrow. I hate ultrasounds since losing my twins, it just makes me think of my little boys and the happier days. Will need to put my big girl pants on and cop on.

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moosey89 · 22/07/2024 20:04

@Ella31 I found asking the doctor to explain the science/biology to me and keep me involved and understanding what they were doing and why really helped me during mine earlier this month. I had x-ray rather than ultrasound but the rest of the procedure is apparently very similar x

CadoAvo · 22/07/2024 20:22

Ella31 · 22/07/2024 19:52

I'm so anxious about tomorrow. I hate ultrasounds since losing my twins, it just makes me think of my little boys and the happier days. Will need to put my big girl pants on and cop on.

Thinking of you ❤️

CadoAvo · 22/07/2024 20:23

3DPO today and have been ridiculously tired all day. Had a nap on my lunch break and a nap after work!

Figtree11 · 22/07/2024 20:47

@Ella31 it’s so hard going back into hospital settings for things like ultrasounds. Hopefully it will be over quickly & you’ll come out of it feeling more positive

@Onthedouble123 wishing you so much luck for your scan

Lovedatforme · 22/07/2024 20:50

@Onthedouble123 Good luck for your scan tomorrow and @Ella31 for your procedure xx

Ncl31 · 22/07/2024 21:07

@Ella31 good luck tomorrow, I hope it’s not too painful for you. I had about 2 minutes of pretty intense cramps and then just mild cramp for 2 days after.

@Onthedouble123 i hope everything is well at your scan tomorrow 🤞🏻

DonnaWhat · 22/07/2024 21:39

@Ella31 Good luck for tomorrow. I don't know anyone as strong as you lady! You've got this. X

Ella31 · 23/07/2024 00:24

Thank you everyone.

Good luck @Onthedouble123 tomorrow

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ThelastRolo20 · 23/07/2024 06:56

@Onthedouble123 I have everything crossed that it's a positive update for you today ❤️

@Ella31 best of luck with your procedure, I'm sure they'll take good care of you xx

Onthedouble123 · 23/07/2024 16:16

Thank you everyone for your kind messages and good luck wishes.
We saw a healthy looking baby. Heartbeat, brain and little hand.
Just the one- second had progressed slightly from the last scan but no heartbeat or anything (she did say she wasn't confident about that one at the last scan)
My dates have also caught up in line with when I thought I ovulated.
Still very anxious- still early days (though it doesn't feel like it!) but also very relieved that, for now, it's good news! 💕💕 Xx

ThelastRolo20 · 23/07/2024 16:18

@Onthedouble123 wonderful news, although sorry about baby 2 - you probably have a whole range of emotions!

How many weeks are you measuring now? X

Ella31 · 23/07/2024 17:01

Onthedouble123 · 23/07/2024 16:16

Thank you everyone for your kind messages and good luck wishes.
We saw a healthy looking baby. Heartbeat, brain and little hand.
Just the one- second had progressed slightly from the last scan but no heartbeat or anything (she did say she wasn't confident about that one at the last scan)
My dates have also caught up in line with when I thought I ovulated.
Still very anxious- still early days (though it doesn't feel like it!) but also very relieved that, for now, it's good news! 💕💕 Xx

Sorry about your baby's twin @Onthedouble123 but I'm really glad there's good news with baby 1. Keep the faith now

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Onthedouble123 · 23/07/2024 17:47

@ThelastRolo20 8+1 by today's measurements. It feels a bit like 8 months all the rollercoaster we've been on!
Thank you both. I mean the second wasn't matching the first at the initial scan so it would have been an ultra, ultra miracle if they had caught up.
How did you get on @Ella31? Hope it wasn't painful. Xx

Lovedatforme · 23/07/2024 18:01

@Onthedouble123 I'm sorry about baby no 2 but also so pleased you saw one healthy baby, that's great news.

@Ella31 How are you feeling today? Hope you got on okay xx

Ella31 · 23/07/2024 18:15

@Lovedatforme @Onthedouble123 tubes were perfect. Uterus was perfect. He said that all debris and gunk as he called it will flush out and might even aid getting pregnant. Pain wise was fine. It was like very intense period pain for 20 seconds. Over very quickly.

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ThelastRolo20 · 23/07/2024 20:14

Ella31 · 23/07/2024 18:15

@Lovedatforme @Onthedouble123 tubes were perfect. Uterus was perfect. He said that all debris and gunk as he called it will flush out and might even aid getting pregnant. Pain wise was fine. It was like very intense period pain for 20 seconds. Over very quickly.

Great that everything looks good - a good clear out can only help too ❤️

ThelastRolo20 · 23/07/2024 20:15

@Onthedouble123 8 weeks already! That's great, fingers crossed for a healthy pregnancy moving forward. You're in with a really good chance now ❤️

Lovedatforme · 23/07/2024 20:19

Ella31 · 23/07/2024 18:15

@Lovedatforme @Onthedouble123 tubes were perfect. Uterus was perfect. He said that all debris and gunk as he called it will flush out and might even aid getting pregnant. Pain wise was fine. It was like very intense period pain for 20 seconds. Over very quickly.

So glad it all went well, onwards and upwards now!

Ncl31 · 23/07/2024 20:51

@Onthedouble123 so sorry to hear about your baby’s twin, I hope this little one continues to progress well for you.

@Ella31 im pleased it’s all done - hopefully the clear out will help you.
when are you due to ovulate?

DonnaWhat · 23/07/2024 21:11

@Onthedouble123 sorry to hear about bambino 2. Bambino 1 seems like a little fighter. I have everything crossed for you.

@Ella31 Glad to hear everything is perfect. Fingers crossed for a bfp for you soon. Where are you in your cycle? You've yet to ovulate haven't you? Xx

Ella31 · 23/07/2024 22:05

@Ncl31 @DonnaWhat I'm.cycle day 8, so a bit to go. I've an ultrasound next Wednesday to see if ovulation is approaching

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CadoAvo · 23/07/2024 22:19

@Ella31 glad it all went well, fingers crossed for you!