TTC after early miscarriage part 2

[RaisingCornishWildlings]

Hi guys, I've made a new thread! @ThelastRolo20 @bluebunny2 @Blueskies4 @miamiamia869 @Claudiasaz @mumsince2021 @Holly0609

@Ella31 I know not the outcome you necessarily wanted but I'm glad AF has arrived to bring an end to this cycle. Hopefully this cycle calms down a bit and is the one 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@141mum I'm sorry for what your daughter in law has gone through, it can feel very lonely and there's a lot of support here if she felt she could gain something from joining our little group.

I hope you're okay too, it's sad for all involved.

I'm actually so relieved @ThelastRolo20 , it means my luteal phase is now back to 11 days. Can I definitely presume this is my period and not from the smear.

@Ella31 I would think so, smears don't usually cause period type bleeding - maybe it just encouraged cervix to open and get things going ❤️

Figtree it took nearly 9 weeks for my ovulation to come back in my first two miscarriages but it did. Xxxx

Thank you so much, you sound like an amazing mother in law and dont forget about yourself. You have lost a grandchild and its utterly heartbreaking so I hope you are ok. Your DIL will recover and there will be more. She's all the luckier to have you on her side

@miamiamia869 thanks so much. I had been having better days the past few weeks but today I have just been down again. I’ve just poured myself a gin & tonic! I’m sorry to hear you had a bad start to the week x

@Ella31 thank you, hopefully I’ll get into some sort of regular cycle soon.
I’m sorry to read that you have been having a tough time too x

@Figtree11 well deserved enjoy. It seems to be taking a while for all us to level out hormonal wise.

@Ella31 oh bless you what a day. But like rolo said atleast you know and it brings a whole new cycle of possibilities.

@141mum thank you and sorry about the loss of your grandchild x

@RaisingCornishWildlings sorry for the BFN, I got a BFN today too. 12DPO - I got a faint positive last cycle right now.
just waiting for AF to come and go now.

Completely I'm relieved to be honest. I'd take af any day over worrying that my cycle is messed up.

@Ncl31 sorry about the BFN, any weekend plans to try and pick you back up? X

@ThelastRolo20 I’m working every day between now and next Sunday, so that’s enough to keep me busy hopefully right through AF.
I know we’re not out until AF arrives but I just feel out, only time will tell I guess.

@Ncl31 absolutely, everything crossed for a positive for you, 12DPO is certainly not completely out by any means!🤞🏻🤞🏻

Hi there, could I join you? 🙂 this was our first month TTC again after our MMC in December and I got a BFN today at 12DPO 😕 (so many acronyms, sorry!)

Been feeling pretty low today and had a big cry but I’ll dust myself off and we’ll try again in a couple of weeks 🙂 I’ve ordered the purple Clear Blue ovulation OPKs and a basal body thermometer for next time, I’m keen to get to know my body/cycle a bit better. I also splurged on a Hertility kit 🤦🏻‍♀️ which tests certain hormones and your thyroid as well. Just want to feel like I’m doing something.

@Ella31 that sounds like quite a day, take care of yourself. It must be a relief in a way to see AF.

Can I ask you ladies how you switch off from end of period to the two week wait, so i can stop being consumed by wanting to conceive. I think this is my biggest issue at the moment

@meepthebeep ooh I looked at hertility earlier today & was wondering about ordering it. Would be great to know how beneficial you find it

@Ella31 I haven’t yet mastered switching off either. I try to keep busy as much as I can, and getting out of the house. It’s when I’m sat at home with nothing to do that I spiral

@meepthebeep sorry about the negative, I hope the kit helps! Do let us know if you find it gives some reassurance/ answers 🙂

@Ella31 it's hard because everything is broken down into two week windows, no advice just solidarity.

Oh ladies, all these stupid
BFN's.
Still maybe a couple of days to go for us all before we are totally out of the running this cycle but saying that, I feel like I'm clutching at straws!

@Ella31 For me it was the fact we were trying for so long when I stopped being so obsessive over the tww. I honestly thought it was never gonna happen so at least now I know we can get pregnant and so far I’m pretty relaxed about ttc again.

That's so true. My doctor hugged me today and said " Ella, you do realise you've been pregnant 3 times in the last 9 months and lost 4 babies" you need to acknowledge the trauma you've been through. But you CAN get pregnant"

And that has grounded me.

@Ella31 aww what a lovely doctor you have. That's so very true though. Allot of trauma. You truerly deserve your happy ending xx

In regards to 2ww no advice as they totally consume me these days.

Tested yesterday at 12dpo. The vvvvvvv faintest line came up but just after the window I think so was pretty sure it was evap . However being as obsessed as I am clung on to hope for today and big fat negative.

I tested on lh strips too as they picked up.my pregnancy stronger than the hcg tests before. They were high yesterday so had hope, but today thays dropped. Funny thing is beginning of the week I feel so pmt then It dropped and now I feel nothing.

Part of me things atleast My luteral phase is a good legnth but I feel like it's gna take ages now for af to actually start.

Officially had enough but I'm not giving anotjer day to the ugly negative tests today and I'm gonna get on with my day and enjoy it. I start again with my "not gonna be as obsessed this cycle" lol. After ovulation I'm going to give my tests over to my husband and try and stay of Google ect. X

Happy weekend all xx

Also so sorry for my trying. I rush through it. My phone changes words to something totally dfferant as I spell it so awfully and never makes sense when I read it back. After I posted lol x

@miamiamia869 it's so hard when there's a bit of hope with a faint line, sorry it was negative this morning. Hope you have a lovely weekend regardless ❤️

Thank you @ThelastRolo20 you too.

I'm gonna try and take the positive that after I'm gonna start working on me. Running, eating healthy and plan to get fit for my holiday (try anyway lol)

This week pancake day, valentines couple meals out planned and will probably be af time so will start towards end of the week lol.