TTC May 2023 💖 Previous MC March 2023 (thread 3)

[Sez281]

New thread for 2024 ladies 💓

For those of us still waiting on our BFPs 🙏and those of you that want to come back and update us with all of your lovely news 🌈 🥰

@Westy22
@Jadeypie
@xxcxdonxx
@SnookyPook
@Supertrooper101
@Hankthehonk
@HopeAndStrength
@DmcinT
@Strawb28
@Paws4thought

So sorry if I've forgotten anyone please add them or jump on board if you see this xx

@Supertrooper101 glad all is looking well. Just turn up next week and every week after that and they'll have to see you 🤷‍♀️😂

@Paws4thought I don't think OHs realise that our love language is simply coming home to a clean house. Like give me that over affection or presents any day 🤷‍♀️ hopefully he has it nice for you when you get home xx

@Sez281 I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels like that 🤣

@Supertrooper101 glad all was well 🥰

@Sez281 hope your flight was good and that you're settling into a lovely holiday ❤️

@Paws4thought will be thinking of you tomorrow. Hope all goes ok (and hope your OH takes the hint about cleaning the house!!) xx

Glad your scan went well today @Supertrooper101 ❤️ Yes so everything seems to be normal, I've had a nosey at the OHs results and don't really understand them 🤣 but I've googled a few things and they look alright. As much as its good that nothings been identified as an issue, its annoying as I'll fall in the "unexplained" category....feel like my eggs are telling his sperm to f×ck off 🤣 so nothing more I can do now but till wait till June which feels so far away. Also I'm taking iron and vitamin c and it's playing havoc with my stomach...I've never been so bloated 😫 like literally full of gas all day everyday 🙈

6dpo and still so slowwww 🤣 I'm tired grumpy and full of air 🤣🤣

Good luck tomorrow @Paws4thought I will be thinking of you and hope it goes OK xx

@Westy22 thats the thing, its sometimes better if there is a fixable problem. Did you know our eggs actually do reject sperm sometimes 🤣. Have you read it starts with the egg? Heard alot of good things about it for helping
@Sez281 the place is that busy at clinic i dont think showing up will work lol back to to -1 here. Whats the temp there 🤔 lol
@Paws4thought 🤞the last scan was wrong if not , i hope it goes as smooth as it can x

Thinking of you today @Paws4thought and hoping everything goes as well
as it can xx

Thinking of you today as well @Paws4thought 💕

Thanks all, think it all went fine, the sonographer did say the sac looked slightly misshapen so potentially might have started naturally if I'd left it long enough. Got the letters today about the bloods, not that I actually understand what they'll be testing even from rrading it haha. Feel a bit more crampy than last time but hoping it'll settle overnight 🤞 hope everyone else is good 😊

@Paws4thought so glad it all went ok. Hope the cramping doesn't go on too long for you. Is that bloods to check for a cause of the MC? Hope you can get some answers and hopefully a plan in place for helping the next one to stick for you. Sending a big hug. Hope you've got something nice for dinner and a chance for some tlc from your loved ones this weekend. 💗

@Paws4thought leave the paperwork for the weekend and just do what makes you smile over the weekend and relax 🙂

@SnookyPook yeah I think they're to check for any issues that could be causing miscarriage like thyroid etc have to decide if wanna risk trying again before they're done as I could have just been unlucky. Thank you.
@Supertrooper101 I'll definitely just be relaxing :)

Glad you okay @Paws4thought xx

I don't learn and I've been testing...obvs it's my hobby now. I got my first little glimmer of hope this morning (new name for a faint lol) I'm only 8/9 dpo tho so yeah I'm super cautious that it's veryyyy early. Told myself wait 2 days or possibly longer as I'm working all weekend and can't buy anymore tests 🤣🙈

Ohhh @Westy22, I love that ‘glimmer of hope’ 🤞🏻
It is early but I’ll be quietly optimistic for you! We are still on holiday and it’s a been a great distraction. I think i’m about the same dpo you and I did bring some tests with me but I’ll hold off for a few days yet I think.

@Westy22 that's exciting, hopefully It'll be more definite in a couple of days :)

@Westy22 lets hope that glimmer of hope gets darker 🙂🤞...will work stop you buying more though🤔 lol

@Westy22 ooh keeping everything crossed for your glimmer of hope 🥰💗

Oooh @Westy22 that's exciting! I'm crossing everything for you! 🙏 xx

@xxcxdonxx so glad your holiday has been a good distraction. Will you wait till you're home to test then? X

@Supertrooper101 Its my last day today, I heard it's been cold at home too. The Realfeel is -15 here this morning 🥶 How are you doing?

@SnookyPook Hope you're doing ok? You must be around 14/15 weeks now? I'd imagine as each day passes you can breathe a little easier 💝

@Paws4thought Im glad to hear that it all went well. I hope you had a comfortable weekend and relaxed as much as you could xx

I have to say the few days away have done me the world of good. Even just not logging onto MN I'm so proud of myself 😂 Every now and then I actually forget I'm pregnant but then the tiredness and cramps remind me! I'm going to book a private scan for next weekend (my OH thinks it's stupid as we have the EPAU the following Wednesday) but it's too long to wait 🙈

@Sez281 -15....my god i couldnt do that. But saying that, its been low figures here but the suns been hot so been really nice, am imagining its the same scenario there 🤔... plsd you have relaxed. And dont blame you for booking a private scan. If it gives you peace of mind then its worth it 🙂

Glad you had a lovely break @Sez281 I don't think your silly if you want the reassurance book it ha

I feel awful today, dunno if I've given myself some form of supplement overdose 🤣 but I've felt sick since yesterday and this morning when I leaned over sick came up and actually tasted like soap 😷 should be getting some more tests delivered today so will probably try again tomorrow lol @Supertrooper101 but I've told myself to prepare that it's negative tbh x

@Westy22 ooh I hope that's good signs for you! 🤞🏼

@Sez281 so glad you've had a nice break! Safe travels back. Also don't blame you on the scan at all! I'm 16wks tomorrow!! 😯 It feels like the pregnancy has suddenly sped up a bit now which is quite nice tbh! I have had a couple of slightly nervy moments again but got my 16wk midwife appointment on Friday and they will listen in with a Doppler so hoping that provides some comfort..!

Hope everyone else is doing ok 💕

So obvs I had to test out my new tests lol its still very early as my apps are saying 9dpo, it's the first line I've had that I've not had to squint at and this was a weak wee this afternoon 🙈 pray for me 🙏 it's going to be a longggg week

@Westy22 oh I definitely see that too! 9dpo is super early so everything crossed that it gets stronger for you over the next few days! 🥰💕

@Sez281 glad that you had a lovely time away, getting away is always nice for a break in routine. I’ve never had a private scan before but if I ever get far enough along again I know if will just for the reassurance between that routine scans.

@SnookyPook oooh 16 weeks! That does seem quick! Any little signs of a bump
as yet?

@Westy22 definitely see something there!
We aren’t home until Wednesday and I only brought 4 strip tests with me so I’m trying to be a bit strategic as to when I do the first as I know I’ll want to keep doing them. Maybe I’ll do tomorrow when I’ll be 10dpo. I’ve had zero cramps or anything else symptom wise so I’m not holding out much hope.

@xxcxdonxx pic from this morning! Bump has started to pop! Also cracked out the maternity jeans as my normal ones were getting uncomfortable. Definitely helps to make it feel more real!