TTC May 2023 💖 Previous MC March 2023 (thread 3)

[Sez281]

New thread for 2024 ladies 💓

For those of us still waiting on our BFPs 🙏and those of you that want to come back and update us with all of your lovely news 🌈 🥰

@Westy22
@Jadeypie
@xxcxdonxx
@SnookyPook
@Supertrooper101
@Hankthehonk
@HopeAndStrength
@DmcinT
@Strawb28
@Paws4thought

So sorry if I've forgotten anyone please add them or jump on board if you see this xx

Thanks @Sez281 !

Thanks @Sez281 may this thread be our lucky one 🥰 xx

Morning 🙂.... ooo new thread, arnt we the chatty lot lol clinic soon for biospy results and to see why t f none of them follow thr what they say they will do.
@Sez281 does your OH agree on laying of google then lol? How does he feel about ivf? U could literally have a baby for christmas ! 🙂

Aww that's a nice way of looking at it @Supertrooper101 I'd be delighted with any month once I manage to get my BFP 🤞 pmsl give them hell in your appointment and let us know what they say. How you feeling? Any symptoms?

My opk rose a lot today so think it will peak this evening then into the tww🙈 Definitely not feeling confident at all this cycle but at least I know as soon as AF arrives it's all systems go with the meds and scans etc

Thanks for the new thread @Sez281 ! 🥰

@Sez281 maybe knowing ivf tests are happening soon will spur your body to catch naturally. I assume once you've done the tests you could still chose to try a few more times naturally if you wanted? @Supertrooper101 I agree with the no googling although it's so hard and Dr's always seem to word things in such a complex way it tempts you to research haha.

@Sez281 tbh i feel shite every morning so cant tell no difference 🤣 clinic went ok. Saw someone who knows am, erm, persistant lol she fine with the progesterone but only if its a viable pregnancy.. which is fair enough. Biospy was fine. She was suprised i hadnt heard anything, said i wasnt haha just had some more bloods done. Sooooo 🤞 🙂.... well look at @SnookyPook , she avoided her fertile window and shes now 10wks 😁 so dont be so sure. But if not...who cares lol bet its a nice feeling that it dosent matter this time round cos u know nxt mth alot can happen x

Thanks @Sez281 - wishing everyone lots of luck for this new thread x

@Supertrooper101 when can they say it's a viable pregnancy? When there's a heartbeat? I would have assumed you'd be able to get progesterone now that bloods have confirmed 🤔 hopefully after the next ones 🤞 xx

And yes you're right it is good to know what's happening next month so I don't need to stress to much this one... although I'd love nothing more than to be one of those people like @Paws4thought talks about that get BFP just before they start treatment but don't think I'd be that lucky😂 What cd are you at @Paws4thought?

@Supertrooper101 I don't understand why they can't just give u it because your bloods prove it! Don't some people get it and be told to take it soon as they get a positive? I feel like drs just like to piss you off 🤣 good your bloods are all done!!

@Paws4thought totally agree about not having a clue about drs lingo so you have no choice to go down the google rabbit hole haha

@Sez281 I really hope it happens that way for you but if not you've got your back up plan x

Well my smears come back all fine just checked the ap so am happy with that. My ovaries look fine and womb so it's got to be hormones messing me up which can be fixed so feeling avit more positive about the whole thing, even my aps don't even no where to put ovulation anymore!! Flo didn't even put one for last cycle ffs. I'm due on in three days no sore boobs this cycle either. Or maybe these vitimins are pushing my cycle abit long xx

Pot luck who you see and what they give you. My clinic says it can feed an ectopic so like to see whats what 🤷‍♀️. Love there positivity! When i was there earlyer i saw a lady come out from the scan room crying really bad. We can guess what the outcome of her 12wk scan was cant we 🙁.

@Jadeypie what new vits did you start? Am weary of pre natals, my periods were normal only when u was on normal multivatmins. Might be that my body needed the vitamin a, and tbf, alot says its good for egg quality lol so is that everything done for you body wise now then, just the appointment to go with the hormones?

@Supertrooper101 aww that's really sad!!
I'm just on tescos womens health multi vitimins. None of the fancy stuff it's got all the vitimins that the others have in and it's the first time I've took anything like this I o ly took vitimin c and folic acid beforehand. And yeh body wise done I'm assuming they will just talk a out history and take a load of new bloods. But these 20 day cycles just come round too quick feel like I'm constantly on af I didn't even realise I was due af because the days are.gping so quick till I looked at flo xx

@Jadeypie so whay day would you ovulate then normally?. If they say 20days is normal dont except it. You know its not lol...

@Sez281 I'm 3 dpo so these 2 weeks will drag, trying to ignore anything that might be a symptom and determined not to test early. Im keeping everything crossed for you.
@Jadeypie I always come out and think of a hundred questions I wish I'd asked too so naturally go straight to Google 😂before mmc I always had sore boobs before AF but since I get nothing, it's odd. 20day cycle must fly round, not nice.
@Supertrooper101 that's sad, I wish someone would do more research as it seems so common and there's no explanation.

@Supertrooper101 oh its 100% not normal. I've always from a kid been 34 to 36 day cycles with the one 49 one in the year ive been tracking since 2017 so im very aware of my cycle patterns ovulate from cd 19 or a couple days later. And that's when I conceived my son around them cds and my last pregnancy. then I think it was June it starts going pear shaped each cycle got shorter then spotting and now my last three cycles have been 20 and I don't think I've ovulated on these cycles at all I'm only 31 so I know I shouldn't be hitting the menopause but part of me thinks maybe xx

@Paws4thought I'm going armed with a list with my appointment haha but yeh 20 day cycle is shit!! It comes round so quick I even said to my dp earlier af will be ere again soon better make the most of it hahaha x

Also I don't no if this is a weird question 🤣🤣 but how old was use when starting af?? I was only ten do you think that could lead to a earlier menopause? Or am I just being dramatic and think stupid stuff haha xx

Thanks for making the new thread @Sez281 ❤️ Just catching up, like @Paws4thought said it could happen before the ivf, but the ball is rolling so that's positive either way ❤️

Good luck with the next bloods @Supertrooper101 🙏🤞 then hopefully you'll get your progesterone.

@Jadeypie think I was like 14, 10 is young or maybe I was late ha?

Good luck for your scan @SnookyPook ❤️

CD 11 and I've been having crystal clear ewcm since yesterday, seems early but I'm rolling with it 🤣 so weird when we were packing to go yesterday in the bottom of a bag I pulled out the cupboard to put food in was a little seed love heart that the hospital gave me when I miscarried, it was the strangest thing as it just made me smile like it was a little sign from somewhere. Or I'm going mad ha I'm taking it as a sign 🤞🤣

@Westy22 aw that's a lovely sign 🙏🏼

@Jadeypie I was 13 when AF started but I don't think it works like that... My Mum started aged 9 and started menopause in her early 50s I believe...

@SnookyPook well that's reassuring!!! Suppose I will just assume all kinds until I get a result on what's going on xx

@SnookyPook good luck at the scan today, thinking of you!

@Jadeypie its defo a hormone thing, and should be a fixable one. Even if there is a link between early periods and early menopause...ur 31.... barely out your 20s, i wouldnt think it could be that at all. Us youve had your fsh done havent you? Your minds raceing cos your appointments getting closer lol
@Westy22 am just as crazy as you then, i was seeing orbs on the tv yesterday, or so i thought, so hoped it was a good sign from the other side , like, wtf is your brain doing 🤷‍♀️..... and i rekon our bodys know more than a piss stick so i would get on it lol
@Paws4thought i wish there was more they could do, advise to give. I feel the midwifes are far too relaxed too. When i rang with concerns, they was like, meh, we treat everyone the same 🤔.... cheers mate 👍. Meant to be ringing them friday to book in but aint gona bother till next week.
@SnookyPook what times your scan 🙂

@Jadeypie that's great that smear was normal. I don't blame you for being pissed off getting AF every 20 days, I've only had a couple of short cycles like that and it's driven me mad 😣 I was 11 starting mine but I agree that I definitely think you're too young for meno so try not to worry. Hopefully your appointment gives some answers xx

@Paws4thought ugh you're in proper no man's land. Hope the next week or so flies in for you! X

@SnookyPook good luck with the scan today, will be thinking of you xx

@Westy22 Aww I'd 100% be taking that as a sign 🥺💓 Also I agree that you should listen to your body and absolutely roll with it. It's great that you're on a break away and can enjoy each others company properly 👌 xx

@Supertrooper101 that poor woman 😢 I'd say it brought it all back to you too 😞 Fingers crossed for your blood results today 🙏 xx

Hey everyone, wowzers I have missed a lot and going to have a read through everyone’s updates.

Thanks for the new thread @Sez281
Had a hectic few days; birthday parties, school enrolment and a leaking boiler so it’s been all go 🫠

Welcome @Paws4thought 💜

No update from me, I think I’m 9/10 dpo and only a few more days of the pessaries for this month.

Thinking of you @Supertrooper101 and @SnookyPook for your results and scan today xx