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BBTing our way to a BFP in August 🎉

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Hotmalibu94 · 27/07/2023 20:35

Hi all!
My body has begun a new cycle in its quest to torture me with cycles that are getting a day longer at a time 😅 so I thought I'd see if anyone wants to join me in BBT charting this month!

DH and I are currently TTC #1, we started in June so are on CD1 of cycle #3 now and I wanted to start doing something a bit more to track without feeling like I'm constantly peeing on some kind of stick 😂 I've previously tried charting in April and May to prevent pregnancy but I hadn't quite got the hang of it yet so the charts were a bit all over the place. My chart since restarting BBT on Sunday already seems a lot more stable than it was last time so hopefully it'll give me some more info this time!

Please feel free to say hi below and introduce yourselves 😊 looking for as many friends as possible in this crazy world of TTC 💕

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Hotmalibu94 · 23/08/2023 19:47

@Ncl31 oh sorry to hear they were so shitty at the doctor's. That looks like EWCM so worth BDing just in case and seeing what happens!

@Myna13 @CatiaR @pinkmarshmalloww @ginny93 @MorningsideMaisie how are yous all going with your TWW? When's everyone planning to test now? 😁

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CatiaR · 23/08/2023 20:45

@Hotmalibu94 only 1dpo now so planning to test sometime around the 2/3 September although DH will be going to his parents all that weekend so might have to wait till he is back. So about 11-12dpo otherwise will have to be 13dpo. Or could be adventurous and try 10dpo before he goes 😂

Huriya · 23/08/2023 21:11

Wow so many messages to catch up on!
Hope everyones had a good evening, I finishing work at 6.30. Ended up surprising the DH today... he was totally shocked and over the moon and he loved my way of suprising him🙈

@Ncl31 Im so sorry to hear your experience with the GP. It deffo does look like ewcm but u could also do ovulation test? Everyone has there own preferance but I do find them alot easier to use. This is the first cycle I used ovulation strips and it actually worked for me 🥹🥹.

@CatiaR You could always test whilst hes gone and have a suprise ready for him when hes back. Its the hardest thing keeping it a secret but honestly so worth it to see there reactions.

@Myna13 When are you going to testing, im really excited to see many more BFPs. 💖

Ncl31 · 23/08/2023 21:16

@Huriya i done one at that time of the EWCM and it showed as high. So I’m not sure, they’re not great with PCOS though as you get false highs. I’ve been doing BBT with Ovusense and there was a drop this morning so it’ll be interesting to see what happens tomorrow.

CatiaR · 23/08/2023 21:18

@Huriya aww how sweet 🥰 you guys must be excited!

might do! I think he wanted to be there with me and check together but I may have to check again and see if he would rather be surprised 😊

ginny93 · 23/08/2023 21:51

Such a busy thread 😅 @thejollytrolleydolly sorry to hear about AF, but nice to know you have some good things in the horizon 😊
@Ncl31 that sounds beyond useless, I’m so annoyed for you!
@Hotmalibu94 aw sad you’re out for last cycle but fingers crossed for this one!
@Huriya congrats on the bfp! Such a cute way of telling your DH too ☺️
I did a pregnancy test yesterday and still have a very faint positive- I’m going to take another on Friday and hope that will be a proper negative! BBT has been back down consistently below the cover line for 5 days now though so that’s a good sign, and there was possibly the beginning of EWCM today so hopefully this cycle is finally getting going!

CatiaR · 23/08/2023 21:58

@ginny93 we’re such chatterboxes 😂 its going to get full in no time I bet !

glad to hear that your cycle is trying to get back to normal, fingers crossed for you 🤞

MorningsideMaisie · 24/08/2023 07:56

Morning everyone. @Hotmalibu94 sorry you’re out this month. I don’t have any symptoms to speak of and cervix feels low at 11dpo. AF due tomorrow so will test at the weekend if still no AF. Not expecting to get a BFP, but not feeling too disappointed (yet). I’d also love a June/summer baby and I know the odds for each month are only about 30% at best. I’ll keep you all updated, but full expect we’ll be onto the next cycle.

Good luck to the rest of you!

pinkmarshmalloww · 24/08/2023 08:12

@Hotmalibu94 9DPO and neg at the moment 😮‍💨

Myna13 · 24/08/2023 09:23

@MorningsideMaisie you're coming to the end of the wait! Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

@Huriya aww! I bet your DH loved the surprise! ❤
7dpo today, and I'm feeling a little crampy - like how I get on my period. Could that be implantation? Who knows!
@Hotmalibu94 Last cycle I started to test around now and it really disappointed me. So going to try and hold off on testing as long as possible! Ideally, I'm going to wait until 14dpo, but if I just can't wait any longer I might end up testing over the weekend (9/10dpo)😅

Biscuitbeann · 24/08/2023 10:28

Hi everyone!

What a busy thread we have!

@Ncl31 so sorry about your experience with the GP! But well done you for handling it well and using your frustration as motivation!

@Huriya CONGRATS!! SO happy for you!

@Hotmalibu94 @thejollytrolleydolly gutted to hear you guys are out this cycle but keeping everything crossed for you both for next month!

Im 8dpo today temp still high but I can’t say I’ve had any symptoms, the last few months I convinced myself of symptoms that I don’t even know were real symptoms! Going to test at 10DPO or 11DPO just to check. I have had a few cramps but nothing out of the ordinary. If this month isn’t my month we are going to pause for a month and try again in October!

Who all is testing over the weekend?

CatiaR · 24/08/2023 11:04

Hi @Biscuitbeann !

I heard a lot of people don't have much symptoms and some do so who knows! fingers crossed for you 😄I think @Myna13 might test at the weekend too?

I'm about a week behind you all, at 2DPO. Still a bit crampy off the back of ovulation so wouldn't say its anything this early but temps confirmed O-day and increased again today so hopefully it stays that way.

Biscuitbeann · 24/08/2023 11:08

@CatiaR That sound’s super positive that your temp has stayed up! I was also a bit crampy at 2 & 3 DPO but assuming it was ovulation related, was hoping for more cramps so I could maybe guess implantation day! Fingers crossed for you!

CatiaR · 24/08/2023 11:40

@Biscuitbeann thank you! and to you too, sending baby dust 🌟

Myna13 · 24/08/2023 14:53

@Biscuitbeann very close to me! I'm 7dpo today. I'm going to try and hold off testing until AF is due (30/08), but I might end up testing over the weekend if I can't help myself 😂

Biscuitbeann · 24/08/2023 16:43

@Myna13 so my AF Iis due Monday, my cycle is usually 27/28 days and I usually get AF on 12DPO. I always worry that because my luteal phase is on the shorter end of normal that I’m less likely to get an early BFP? Not sure if that is how it works though

Myna13 · 24/08/2023 19:21

@Biscuitbeann I don't think your BFP depends on the length of your luteal phase. It's basically whenever you make enough HcG for it to show up on a test. So it really depends on when you implant. Implantation can happen anytime between 6-12dpo. So possibly earlier than later for you because you have a shorter luteal phase. A few days after implantation you should ideally be able to get a BFP. Sorry I don't really have a definite answer for you. But I don't think having a short luteal phase affects anything.

Ncl31 · 24/08/2023 20:47

So today I’ve had really bad backache, got a breakout on my face and I want to eat all of the carbs in the world! no idea what is going on in my uterus right now!

CatLadyH · 24/08/2023 21:23

Hey @Hotmalibu94 & co sorry been a bit MIA on mumsnet atm. Been trying to not stress so much about TTC in general. Been BBT-ing alongside doing SMEP on cycle day 24 atm and having all of my fingers and toes crossed. BBT seems to have risen and stable atm. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Ncl31 · 24/08/2023 21:38

@CatLadyH welcome back. Sometimes we just need that time away to relax a little. Fingers crossed something sticks this cycle for you.

Biscuitbeann · 25/08/2023 07:18

Caved this morning and done an internet cheapie- stark white BFN.. don’t know why I choose to test so early it always gets me down when I see a negative! Already telling myself that’s me out for this cycle!

Ncl31 · 25/08/2023 07:54

@Biscuitbeann that temptation to test is so difficult to resist isn’t it. How many DPO are you? As I’m sure you’re fully aware. You’re not out until AF is here

Biscuitbeann · 25/08/2023 08:01

@Ncl31 Im 9DPO, I know I might not even have implanted yet or late yesterday. We found out a friend of a friend was pregnant yesterday and I was so shocked when I felt a bit jealous, obviously super happy for them but just hoping it’ll be my turn soon 🤍

Myna13 · 25/08/2023 08:09

@CatLadyH welcome back! Sometimes you need to take some time off and do what's right for you. I hope you've been well. Good luck! Hoping for a lovely BFP for you this cycle.

@Biscuitbeann you're not out until AF is here! Don't let the bfn get to you. Also, it's normal to feel a tiny bit of jealousy when you hear someone else has got the thing you've been trying so hard to get. The fact that you were shocked by it is a good thing. Because it means that isn't your usual response to situations like that. So feeling a little bit jealous this time doesn't make you a bad person. Hoping you get your BFP sooner rather than later. It'll be your turn soon!

Biscuitbeann · 25/08/2023 08:29

@Myna13 thank you! It’s not my usual reaction to these things at all, and I really don’t want that to be the case going forward as I expect a lot of our friendship group will be having baby’s soon and I can’t wait to be an auntie to all their little ones!The other half was quick to remind me “you could be pregnant right now, and when our time is right our bundle of joy will come”

Hoping my emotional outburst was a symptom and not just PMS.. we shall find out on Monday! How are you feeling? Your 8DPO today right?

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