16 DPO, high temp, AF due tomorrow

[RCARB]

Hi All,

Got myself in a bit if a tiz - this TWW as been awful.

Have been trying on and off for a very stressful 18 months, all without a sniff of a BFP.

But this month I have felt so different. After O (tested with CB O test and temping). Had soooo many symptoms; nausea, cramps, bad taste in mouth, headaches, creamy cm and dizziness all varying from 5DPO until today (16 DPO). As I have never normally experienced any of this during the TWW I have been convinced I would be seeing BFP soon. Temp has been measuring high (and still is today) but after getting a BFN today when I tested, im worried I've just imagined all of it. I used CB early detection and It wasn't with my first urine of the day (I was trying to hold out until Tuesday if no AF Tomorrow....I failed!).
As Im slowly driving myself mad, I was just wondering if anyone got BFN at this point and went onto the see BFP? Could it be that I didn't use first urine of the day??

Clutching at straws I guess, but there is always hope until AF arrives

Rebecca x x x

12 DPO Bfn Fmu and 2nd MU.

Hope is now dwindling 😔

How are we all doing? Xxx

@RCARB I'm sorry hun.. you still never know... fingers crossed for you.
Have been trying anything different this month?

Still showing faint positives on the wondfos and Boots tests.
No progression

Period was due yesterday
A but Craig

Cramping that should say 🤦🏻‍♀️
(I don't know how to delete comments 🙈)

So I guess it's just a waiting game for me 🥺 xx

So strange! Keep testing you never know dear. If AF is not here you are definitely not out yet. I have everything crossed for you.

Not really, I just felt differently during this TWW. I cant explain really, after trying for so long I just feel pregnant. Think I'm just a bit crazy!

I have a splitting headache this morning though so im feeling quite sorry for myself.

Hope you are okay dear xx

@RCARB I know so so strange and bloody gut wrenching.. still no sign of AF... waves of nausea like I had when I was pregnant before so it's even more of a kick in the gut

Gone and bought another few tests but I should probably just be patient and let nature run its course but I just want to know one way or another... don't think patience is a thing when you're trying to conceive!!

Oh I feel for you, if only It was a 1WW 2 weeks just takes forever and completely takes over your life xx

@Bluebella27 I know, its horrible. If I was in your shoes I would be the same. There is no way I could stop testing either.
Just do whats best for you. I know testing helps me feel like I'm atleast doing something. I would be more anxious waiting to test.
It really does, feel like I've spent the majority of the last 2 years in limbo. Surely its our turn? 🤞🏻💛 xx

TMI but....I have light pink CM when I've just been to the loo.

That teamed with my horrific headache today im worried i may be out now. Im 12DPO so too late for implantation bleeding, I think. More likely the start if AF due on 15/16 DPO. 😔

Xxx

Aw hun 💔
Is that how you normally come on with the headaches too?

Keeping everything crossed for you x

Tbh honest, I used to suffer terribly with headaches and migraines running up to AF but since starting weekly accupunture about 5 month ago, I've not suffered the same. My appointment was cancelled this week so I don't know if thats got something to do with it? Spotting is a weird one for me and only started a few months ago but its not a regular accurance for me. It seems to have stopped now, only present on one trip to the bathroom (sorry TMI), when usually if AF on the way would be constant until it arrived.Feel like my body is just insane.

I really hope my AF doesn't come early tomorrow. Feels like its coming 😩 x x x

BFN again this morning. Think I'm out 😔 xx

Ps....ignore my manky, bruised thumb nail.....trapped it in a door! Xx

@RCARB I feel like theres a squint of a line 👀what does it look like in real life? Xx

Sorry I've been away for a few days! @RCARB I also see a squint of a line, can you see it in real life? Xxx

Yes, I swe it and saw it in real life too but terrified to admit it incase its in my head. Feeling really odd this morning. An stomachache with wierd cramps. With the spotting last night I'm worried AF will come early.

Currently watching "Sort your life out" and having a massive cry 🤣 Emotional much?

That was my last FRER so have ordered some more that will come tomorrow so can test again Tuesday morning if AF not here by then.

Sorry for the spam 🙈. Have you had a nice weekend is DPs back better? x x x

Keep on taking the day to relax, and stay nice and warm and keep your feet nice and warm, maybe a bath later could be a good idea (not too hot and not too long!). Hopefully the spotting stops and doesn't turn into AF 😊

That's good you got some more FRERs! I'll be keeping everything crossed that that hint of a line turns into something stronger 🤗

It's definitely not in your head, we could both see it on here too!!

I've had a cold the last few days but actually ended up having a nice weekend doing some painting, and today I've been making a nose balm (bloody hayfever 🤧) and a rosemary scalp tonic! Going to have a bath in a bit! Half thinking about doing a big batch of cooking but I find it very hard to be bothered cooking when I'm not hungry 😂

DPs back isn't better, it's unfortunately looking like he's going to need surgery 😔 poor lad, he's in quite a lot of pain. I'm hoping the painkillers aren't doing damage to his swimmers 🤣 (that's a joke, I'm of course much more concerned with the fact that he's in so much pain!)

Xxxxx

@mushroomushroom Oh that sounds like a very productive weekend dear. See im permanently hungry, I dont know any other state of mind so it doesn't bother me that much haha.

Ahhhh no, thats rubbish. I feel your pain. DH broke his leg last year and I felt so helpless when he was in so much pain. 🤣🤣🤣 no, god forbid!!! Hope they are doing the trick for the pain though. What a nightmare!! X x x

Still in complete limbo over here... still getting the faint lines but not getting any stronger and not positive on every brand... It's just rubbish 😔
These are T's you

Todays Tess I'll

Today’s tests that’s supposed to say.. my phones having the same meltdown as me!!

@Bluebella27 oh no! How awful. Its just horrible being stuck there. You either just want AF or a positive, not in-between!!

I suppose the fact that you are getting some BFPs is a good thing and AF isn't here.

How are you feeling today? Xxx

@mushroomushroom I don't have any Frer's left hoping some will arrive today but I did a Easy at home and its negative.....Well actually I feel like there is the start of something on it but think I actually see lines in everything now 🤣🙈. Wondering if maybe yesterday's was am indent maybe? Booooo!!

Xxx

@RCARB yep exactly either come or please let me know what's happening! This is day 3 late although of course could come on today ... but I've only ever been late about 7 times in 22 years 2 of those times I was actually pregnant... I feel pregnant,

This stupid phone 🙈🙈

So yeah.. no idea. I've read some people show these faint positives for 2 weeks then bleed heavily.. I've also read a story where it took 11 days after her period was due to show up clear on any tests and that for some the HCG levels rise super slow... but I might be clutching at straws

Was hoping not to test today and have an emotional break but I've got some easy at homes arriving today so I probably won't have the willpower not to 🙈

sigh xx

@mushroomushroom sorry to hear about your partners back! What a nightmare... wishing for a speedy recovery xx

@RCARB send us the photo of the FRER when you get it! I think I can see a line too but I am also a very strong sufferer of line eyes as well 🤣

Xxxx