TTC after miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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@Ella31 i agree with @bringmearainbow, you could possibly gearing to o early.

Im only CD 8 and got flashing smiley and lots of EWCM today, although we haven’t dtd yet as the cp was only last weekend it feels so soon. Flo predicts I’ll O in 3 days, but with all this EWCM I think it could be tomorrow or Monday, hoping it’ll be a bit longer to give egg a chance to mature a bit more and actually get some sessions in!

Hope you’re getting on alright @MrsC2018

Did a preg test today. Negative. I'm cycle day 6.

@Mannymoomin I'm ok, just trying to relax and take one day at a time. Today at least, I'm pregnant. Not that simple though is it! According to LMP I'm 4+1 but as I tracked this month, I know I'm really 3+6. Tests are getting darker, but I'm not going to test after tomorrow (I hope!) how are you doing? Amazing how quickly your gearing up to ovulating again

Thanks @Babydustmamma I'm driving myself mad, doing more tests is not giving me peace of mind so I'm going to try and stop. I know I can survive miscarriage so not sure why I'm allowing this to take over at the moment

I got my peak this morning 🥳 @Mannymoomin looks like we could be heading into the TWW together again!

@Ella31 gosh very odd best get BD just incase. Is your cm looking fertile?

@MrsC2018 keeping g everything crossed for you that this 1 sticks ❤

We've ended up feeling too ill to TTC this cycle.at least I won't be going through another TWW with all the anxiety etc. That's goes with it

eveninggggg - wanting to join if poss🥹

sadly had an mmc 2 weeks ago, should have been 9+5 but was measuring 7w no heartbeat and nature took course pretty quickly after finding out!2 weeks ago was my full bleed and have been tracking - got a solid smiley this morning and a nice strong like on LH - tested negative hcg wise on Friday so we are all systems go!!! DTD a few times this week but then this morning after solid and hopefully tonight…. If I can stay awake🤣🤣. If nothing else I’m going to take the positive that my body has bounced back and ovulated so soon xxx

sending lots of sticky baby dust !!!!

i do have a question - (sorry if this hAs been specifically covered on the thread already)… but is anyone going to so anything ‘differently’ after BFP ?? Cxx

@LMM91x sorry to see you on this thread lovely, the ladies on here are so supportive and really helped me through my loss! Really good your ovulating again I didn’t until after I had a period so seems a really good sign ☺️ I did nothing differently this time compared to the first time, although have seen a lot about aspirin being good lately xx

@ChloeN hey girllll!!! I miss you guys! Hope everything is going well💕

yes im plesantly suprised to be honest , gotta find the positives eh xxxxx

@LMM91x Ive been thinking of you so I’m pleased to see you here🥹 I miss you too🥲 yes definitely, I found the waiting to ovulate again so hard because I was just stuck there and couldn’t move on. I hope you got loads of support, did you not end up having surgery? Xxxx

@ChloeN thank you💕🥹. Nope no surgery needed my body just sprung into action literally 2 days after finding out - it was awful :( but it was quick at least!!

agree - trying to focus on anything else is pretty hard atm , and I wasn’t super ‘obsessive’ last time ttc but after mc i feel like an overwhelming NEED to be pregnant again, it’s yuck I hate it, I don’t want to feel disappointed etc and spiral….. we’ve booked a holiday in March though so of I don’t fall at least I’ll indulge innsome cocktails and if I do it might be a week where I’m not totally panicking about early pregnancy🤣

how are you getting on though!!! I hope well and symptoms are absolutely debilitating 🤣😜 only joking xxx

@LMM91x sorry you're here ❤️ welcome to the shit club but everyone is super supportive. I've now had 2 so EPU have said they will monitor me closely and go through options re aspirin and progesterone with the doctor when the time comes. Mine were both mmc so I don't think low progesterone is an issue for me I might consider baby aspirin before I speak to the doc since it doesn't hurt anyway but I think it will be a wait and see how I feel at the time. Looks like we're on the same timeline I got peak yesterday too!

Oh hi cycle buddy @bringmearainbow ❤️ So sorry for your losses :(. Were they consectutive? So glad EPU are watching you carefully though - I feel like it’s crazy that we have to go through it numerous times in order for them to look into thing… especially if it is somerhing like aspirin that would help etc. mine was MMC so I came to the same conclusion regarding progesterone…. So i think that likely leaves an abnormality in the embryo or something to do with getting what it needs?! I’m not sure. I think i’m goojngto grab some baby aspirin today, i’ll kick myself if I don’t and then it happens again (even if not related…) so hard xxx

what cycle are you post mc?xxx

@bringmearainbow @LMM91x ladies just be careful when you start aspirin, it's known to stop implantation apparently. I start it at 8 weeks under the advice from my rainbow clinic as it's use is around ensuring the placenta gets enough nutrients to baby but a lot of clinics only advise starting from 12 weeks. No idea why mine is 8 though! It's 150mg and at night as well

@MrsC2018 oh thats interesting thank you!!!!! I’ll hold off until after bfp perhaps…. Not sure. Will do more research and speak to GP anyway xxx

@MrsC2018 thanks lovely I had heard that about implantation so would do it until a BFP but I hadn't heard about not doing it until later on. Tbh I will probably just speak to the doctor first

@LMM91x hey cycle buddy 👋🏼 yes they were back to back which was a bit of a kick in the teeth 🤦🏼‍♀️ I already have a DS but I am 37 so I think that mine could possible just due to bad luck with egg quality. my second has been a very long drawn out MC I actually miscarried in September but didn't get the surgery until 2/11 as tried to wait for mother nature 🙄 she didn't do what she was supposed to. I did ovulate New Year's Eve and I got my first period at the beginning of jan which I actually passed a big bit of tissue so suspect I had retained products. So to answer your question this is technically cycle 1 where I might actually be able to conceive a baby 🙈

@bringmearainbow oh my god!you have been through it :( ! The waiting is the worst part… not being aboe to move forward and get back tottc (at least for me I’ve found its good to be able to focus on something…).

whilst I had my peak and solid smiley yesterday, i’ve not had any ovu pains today which I do normally get…. which is strange but I guess can’t expect ‘normal’ straight away… will see how we go and just dtd for luck anyway🤣. I read somewhere about retained coming out in next period which my body might need to so to ‘clear out’… 🤢

we will see…. I’m not going to early test (she says…….). Well I reallt don’t want to anyway and want to wait and just let the next two weeks ride out! I’m sure my body will indicate to me either way and time will tell! Are you an early tester?! xxxx

@LMM91x yes I felt the need to be pregnant I couldn’t get away from it! That sounds lovely where are you off too?☺️ yeah all good here thanks🥰xx

@bringmearainbow hope you’re okay lovely, hopefully this is the cycle for you now you’ve got rid of the retained🤞🏻

@LMM91x haha yes I'm usually a serial tester 😳🙈 I'm going to try super hard to not test until 12dpo but that's today at 1dpo who knows what kind of impulse testing I'll be doing at 10dpo 😂 waiting is just the worst bit it all takes so long 🙄 are you TTC no1 or do you have any already?

@ChloeN im all good just so happy to actually ovulate 🙊 feels like it took forever 🙄

@LMM91x i had 2 Mc back to back and after my second one I never ovulated straight after. I never got any fertile cm or ov pain. I should have ov from the right side as with the Mc they told me my egg came from the left from the scan. After af I got pregnant that cycle and it was an egg from right side. So don’t be disheartened if it doesn’t happen this cycle. My cycles were always erratic and could be 6 weeks long but the cycle I fell pregnant I actually ov on cd15ish which is very unusual for me. I’m now 9 weeks had one scan last week and have another here on Friday but so far so good. Fingers crossed for you and a bfp soon!

@bringmearainbow ttc for number 1! I do have a fur baby though so that keeps me busy for now 🤣 (god i sound like a weird dog person i swear i’m not)!

it’s a weird one isn’t it this, mmc on my first pregnancy ahich is something outside what I ever imagined happening really…..its shocking to realise how common it all is. I knew in my gut aomething was up - I am a worrier so I put it down to ‘i bet everyone feels like that’ but as soon as I started spotting I just knew I wasn’t going to be one of those ‘its normal to bleed during pregnancy’ outcomes… you search day and might seeing so much positive outcomes but that just prolongs the inevitable for me!

don’t even get me started on serial testing……. i bulk bought to ‘test out’ the miscarriage and it went quicker than I thought so I now have a full blown stash to test 637382 times a day no doubt. Ffs OH is going to have to hide them I think or I will actually go crazy!

@LMM91x nope not weird I'm a fur baby mama too 🙊 though I lost one last year so down to one dog now ☹️ it def is a shock I think it just doesn't enter your head even though you know it's common that it will be you 🤷🏼‍♀️ how long did it take you to conceive? Ahhh no well you won't get any judgement here if you do serial test ❤️ I have quite a few in the house too but I'm going to really try and hold off as they are mostly expensive ones 🙄

@Luna57 sorry just saw your post xxx thank you and you are so right, I’m nor convinced I have ovulated now so will just see. Have to try to force myself not to put too much pressure or get inside my head carried away !!!

ermm so we were not preventing for a couple of months (ivviously expecting i’d be that girl who just fell that you hear about 🤣). Then was tracking for 3/4 months when we did fall, so thankfully it wasn’t a really long time but long enough in the same way❤️

i’m starting to get a bit shakey now as my 12w scan would have been tomorrow. God it’s so shit, I should he happy to start sharing the news and instead i’m pissing on bloody sticks again!! 😕

@bringmearainbow meant to tag you too!❤️

Going to start BD tonight now hopefully ovulating in next few days

How's everyone doing?

@LMM91x sorry I missed your message 🙈 the dates are hard esp when you think about where you should be 😩 hope it wasn't too awful for you lovely xxx