TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

[FfayeN]

Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

Catching up now the little one is asleep. @RaliaMusca good luck with your scan tomorrow.
@Everythingzrosie sending lots of love. Annoying that they find it so hard to be on top of everything.
Interested to see how people get on with the Ava bracelet. I don’t temp as my ds is unpredictable with sleep, so don’t think a reading in the morning would be accurate. Af started today, so should not be bleeding for scan 🎉, looking forward to being able to try again this cycle.

@mummatara I think it’s accurate as the pattern looks similar to when I take it myself but the temperature will be lower because it’s skin temperature vs oral. So you can input it into other apps it will just be lower (but the pattern should be the same if you see what I mean). I also don’t understand the toddler attraction to thermometers 😂

@mummatara I ordered one a year ago from eBay. It looked uh-maz-ing. The seller decided to not send it to my actual address but the address my eBay account was 1st registered to which is drum roll my ex boyfriend 🤦‍♀️ jeezus knows how she did that. Even eBay was miffed. But I never did get to use it and thank god ex boyf never contacted me asking if I'd recently bought an unusual new watch. (In all seriousness, I think they are supposed to be good but ££££)

Any of you ladies that have had implantation bleeding before, how many dpo were you??
I had it last pregnancy at either 8/9dpo, I’m 12dpo (poss 11) today and have had the tiniest bit of watery pink when I’ve wiped. I’m thinking it might be my period coming annoying early as it seems a bit late for implantation?
I’m annoyed at myself for even asking this as I really did not want to symptom spot this cycle😡🤣

@ChloeN I had it just once. Had a lot of cramps back and front but only a tiny pink bit of cm. Thought no more about it (we weren't ttc at the time) but I thought it was weird because cramps got a lot less so did a test and it was very positive. I can't remember when in my cycle though xx

@ChloeN i had it in my last pregnancy and I was cycle day 26. I think they say you can expect it around the same time of your period :)

@HJA87 yes I totally understand what you mean pattern is all you look at anyway

@bunnykins123 omg could you imagine if he did 😳😆 how awful and so odd 🤷🏼‍♀️ I've seen a few on Fb marketplace around the £100 mark so I've made enquiries I don't fancy paying full price 😳

@ChloeN oh lovely I can't help as never had implantation bleeding but I hope it is and not AF. I always get AF by 11/12dpo but they says it's def possible to implant late

@ChloeN it happened to me for the first time ever last cycle when I was pg. Specks of blood in the CM at 10 DPO and I had a positive on 11 DPO.

@MrsCristianoX @HalWin2221 @HJA87 thanks ladies, all sounds quite similar to me but perhaps a few days later than it should be? I’ve wiped again and nothing, now thinking did I actually see it at all🤣

@mummatara I had a bit of an af back ache this morning too so could well be🙄 never come on this early before but could all still be messed up from the mc!

Just had my scan and saw a tiny blob with a flicker of a heartbeat. So relieved!
I did measure a bit behind though but then again, can't be entirely sure when I conceived as I wasn't tracking O.
I'm still worried about the progress a bit especially due to my lack of pregnancy symptoms (apart from nausea). But just taking it one day at a time now.

Oh and they found a reason for my bleeding! Subchorionic hematoma. Looks like most of it has already gone so should resolve itself soon.

@ChloeN could be lovely 😢 i hope it's not good thats it's buggered off now

@RaliaMusca so happy you had a little blob and HB 💕 I think that's the best take each day as it comes

@RaliaMusca so pleased everything looked okay, congratulations lovely☺️

@mummatara I stupidly googled implantation at 12dpo and it said the risk of mc is increased by 80%😑 so either way I look at it it’s probably not going to be a great outcome🤦🏻‍♀️

@ChloeN ok step away from Google missy I'm giving you tough love now ❤️ just because there was spotting at 12dpo doesn't mean implantation happened then could have been a couple of days ago and it's just taken it's time to work it's way out there is no way to know so you have to stop torturing your poor self and just trust that at some point your body will do it's magical thing and you will get a beautiful little bubba ❤️ if that isn't this month then we will be here to help you through the next cycle and if it is your month we will also be here to get you through the whole thing. I know it's so so hard when you want it so badly but Google doesn't help trust me I've done a major amount of googling myself it was torture and you can't change your outcome xxx ps I hope I wasn't too hard please still talk to me 🙈

@RaliaMusca So pleased for you :D Congratulations!

@RaliaMusca glad your scan went well and they found a reason for the bleeding

@mummatara thanks lovely I think I needed to hear that🤣 I would honestly rather someone tell me straight than beat around the bush so I appreciate it❤️ you’re right there is literally no way of knowing, it probably wasn’t even implantation bleeding anyway so I guess all i need to do is wait to see if AF turns up Friday or not! Only a few days to go🤣xxx

@ChloeN ahhh phew 😂 some people don't like hearing it but I like to hear it straight too 🙊

@mummatara well said, @ChloeN it really is this but inbetween that gets us all I think! Especially if you're not used to spotting before AF. I never did before my MC and it's hard to adjust when you don't know what your body is doing.
I really hope it is implantation for you! 🤞🏼.
@RaliaMusca glad the scan went well and hope it's given you a little reassurance for now, have they scheduled you in for another? xx

Thank you all!

@FfayeN no, they said they're happy to hand me over to midwife care now.

I'm driving myself a bit mad over measuring behind because it was the same with my mmc. I know I could have ovulated late but then I would have gotten a bfp a week after conception. Surely that's impossible.
Why oh why does the anxiety never end?

@mummatara youre all good☺️🤣 I’m just annoyed at myself because I’ve tried so hard not to symptom spot this cycle at all then this happens🤣

@FfayeN I always used to spot the day before af but since the mc I haven’t, so I wouldn’t be surprised if it is that and my periods just coming early!

@RaliaMusca congrats on the little job. How far out were you we from what you predicted. I think early days can be quite hard to measure when it’s small as well. But I’ve always been told 5 days either side they are no concerned at all. Entirely normal. And earlier on can sometimes be small ish to measure.

@RaliaMusca no idea why that says job. It’s meant to say blob. This is what multitasking with a 4 year old DD does lol!

@Indianna2006 yeah, it would be roughly 5-6 days behind.
Thing is, it could be totally normal because I had the exact same thing last time. Obviously I lost that one. But with my DD I only had a scan at 12 weeks (how did I cope?!) so no idea how she measured at 6-7 weeks. Maybe my babies just grow slowly to start with?

@RaliaMusca yes I was specifically told by EPU and the private clinic 5 days either side is fine. So as it’s only 5 days ish and not like a week plus. I wouldn’t be concerned. Ovulation could not be an exact science. And when you implant can make a big difference. 6dpo implanted compared to 11dpo is 5 days difference so there goes to the difference for people.

i think i with successful pregnancies anyway implant quite early. Like 6/7dpo. As I get quite positive tests on frer by like 11/12dpo. And whenever I got for early scans and dating scans I always measure ahead of my dates. When I feel ovulation so I know the day I conceived. This pregnancy I’m 5 days ahead. So it must be implantation which moves the dates when your certain on Ovulation I think