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Hoping to get our BFPs in January - the story continues

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Shortmamashortcycles · 12/01/2022 17:31

Hi all, I have figured out how to create a thread on Mumsnet and here goes... my first one.

This is a continuation of the two (!) full Jan threads so far this month - we're a chatty bunch and happy to welcome new folks. There'll probably be a February thread starting up soon too.

Will tag everyone I can see below... please join if I missed you!

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contagioushippie · 12/01/2022 22:31

@Rebeccalin

Hi, joining from the previous thread. I think I'm 11dpo but have been getting negatives, unless anyone can see a magical line (I think there could be the faintest thing ever under certain light but my eyes are not trusted!)
I think I can see an indent line :(

I'm in the same boat. I'm 11-12 dpo and BFNs everywhere for me

Billymay · 12/01/2022 22:33

Thank you @madeleine85 xxx

miamom · 12/01/2022 22:33

8th - @chailatte28 @Sassy144 @Decaffe
9th - @Bringonbaby3 9dpo(assuming ovulation on time!)
10th - @SoTiredoftheStress
11th - @jazmine38, @Natalie2304, @MyloC
12th- @contagioushippie @Hopingforarainbow27
13th - @jadew88 @HelloNope
14th - @BH1926, @kizzy97 @Curlywurly3
15th - @Moonshine160
16th -
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18th - @miamom
19th - @Babybird20
20th - @Tinkerbell098
21st - @lottieb92
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27th - @Nikkic2123
28th - @DeviousImp17
29th -
30th - @BiscuitLover3678
31st - @arianasky

miamom · 12/01/2022 22:35

8th - @chailatte28 @Sassy144 @Decaffe
9th - @Bringonbaby3 9dpo(assuming ovulation on time!)
10th - @SoTiredoftheStress
11th - @jazmine38, @Natalie2304, @MyloC
12th- @contagioushippie @Hopingforarainbow27
13th - @jadew88 @HelloNope
14th - @BH1926, @kizzy97 @Curlywurly3
15th - @Moonshine160
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18th - @2019Mama @miamom
19th - @Babybird20
20th - @Tinkerbell098
21st - @lottieb92
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25th -
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27th - @Nikkic2123
28th - @DeviousImp17
29th -
30th - @BiscuitLover3678
31st - @arianasky

madeleine85 · 12/01/2022 22:40

@BecLJ welcome!! I’d recommend getting the cheap ovulation tests off Amazon and doing one a day for one cycle. The majority of people have a 28 day cycle and ovulate on day 14 or thereabouts. Adding a graph I found useful of days around ovulation most likely to conceive on. For this purpose it helps to confirm your ovulation date at least once with strips. I recommend it as I found out I have a 30 day cycle broken 20/10 rather than 14/14 and without the handy wee strips I’d be none the wiser. Good luck on the ttc journey x

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kizzy97 · 12/01/2022 22:51

I'm going to be slightly quiet next couple of days as I'm in work but will still post and keep up to date where I can! Good luck to anyone testing over the next couple of days!

Bundaberg84 · 12/01/2022 23:00

Hi all! I just read through the whole last thread. So many BFPs, wow! Congratulations to all of you and hoping to be a sticky bean and a healthy 9 months 🎉
I am pretty fed up with all honestly. A year TTC now, 1 chemical and an ectopic in summer that lead to losing one of my tubes. Additionally we have a friend staying with us for three months, so not much going on DTD wise 😆 but even though I knew it was so unlikely, AF hit me like a train this time. Well, here we go again. CD 3, trying to find out if my remaining tube is up for some work this month (or if we find a possibility to sneak in some DTD at all in the fertile week).
Good luck to all of you! 💐

lakejupiter · 12/01/2022 23:08

@miamom

8th - *@chailatte28* *@Sassy144* *@Decaffe* 9th - *@Bringonbaby3* 9dpo(assuming ovulation on time!) 10th - *@SoTiredoftheStress* 11th - *@jazmine38, @Natalie2304, @MyloC* 12th- *@contagioushippie* *@Hopingforarainbow27* 13th - *@jadew88* *@HelloNope* 14th - *@BH1926, @kizzy97* *@Curlywurly3* 15th - *@Moonshine160* 16th - 17th - 18th - *@2019Mama* *@miamom* 19th - *@Babybird20* 20th - *@Tinkerbell098* 21st - *@lottieb92* 22nd - 23rd - 24th - 25th - 26th - 27th - *@Nikkic2123* 28th - *@DeviousImp17* 29th - 30th - *@BiscuitLover3678* 31st - *@arianasky*
Could you add me? AF due 25th ❤️
IntergalacticP · 12/01/2022 23:15

Thanks for the new thread OP. Was lurking on the last one.

Still ttc number 1, two years in. Have been diagnosed with pcos and had two chemicals over the summer. This is our first cycle on clomid but I'm 5dpo and have 0 symptoms of anything so not feeling very hopeful. The BFPs are cheering me up though Smile

BH1926 · 12/01/2022 23:36

@Shortmamashortcycles thanks for starting new thread and tagging me 😊

@Sassy144 congratulations! ❤️

@ERachD hi! This is the new thread continuing on from previous as almost full up! I'm starting to struggle today.. temped to test but I've had two chemicals last year back to back so that definitely puts me off. How are you holding up on the test front? When you planning on testing? Xx

miamom · 13/01/2022 01:39

8th - @chailatte28 @Sassy144 @Decaffe
9th - @Bringonbaby3 9dpo(assuming ovulation on time!)
10th - @SoTiredoftheStress
11th - @jazmine38, @Natalie2304, @MyloC
12th- @contagioushippie @Hopingforarainbow27
13th - @jadew88 @HelloNope
14th - @BH1926, @kizzy97 @Curlywurly3
15th - @Moonshine160
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18th - @2019Mama @miamom
19th - @Babybird20
20th - @Tinkerbell098
21st - @lottieb92
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25th - @lakejupiter
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27th - @Nikkic2123
28th - @DeviousImp17
29th -
30th - @BiscuitLover3678
31st - @arianasky

CSR721 · 13/01/2022 06:51

No sign of AF but my bbt dropped this morning so I didn't even bother testing. So disappointed. I had it in my head this was going to be our cycle. I know its stupid but I'm gutted. ☹

Shortmamashortcycles · 13/01/2022 06:57

Well, I spent 3-4am stressing out about this cycle. I usually ovulate on cd15, but am now cd19 and still getting weird bits of what look like ewcm every so often. I think this might be an anovulatory cycle which really sucks. I had a more normal cycle last month when I had covid ffs!

Oh well, I shall live vicariously through your TWWs instead.

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Sassy144 · 13/01/2022 07:17

@Hopingforarainbow27 ah how exciting! My last period started 16 December

Hopingforarainbow27 · 13/01/2022 07:25

@Sassy144 mine was 15th !

Billymay · 13/01/2022 07:36

So couldn’t help myself.. I have rubbish will power but I got the faintest line. So faint that you can barely see it on a picture. Xx

Billymay · 13/01/2022 07:38

You have to zoom in 🙈

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Curlywurly3 · 13/01/2022 07:52

I can see it @Billymay! How many DPO are you?

Curlywurly3 · 13/01/2022 07:53

@Shortmamashortcycles do you use OPK’s? I ovulated a bit later this month too

Billymay · 13/01/2022 08:09

@Curlywurly3 I’m 9dpo… it’s a morning full of tests here my 6 year old dd has just tested positive for covid… I’m wondering if this will affect my test? Xx

Shortmamashortcycles · 13/01/2022 08:19

@Curlywurly3, I don't because when ttc #1 I went a bit nuts and drove my OH crazy with obsessing about hitting my peak. We caught quite quickly second time with me just using cm, but then I had a mc and since then things have been erratic. I might cave and use them next month.

@Billymay, oh no, I hope she's feeling ok. It shouldn't affect your test at all, and I've seen several folks on here get their BFP and covid at the same time with no issue with the pregnancy. Try not to worry! (She says, having literally been awake all night worrying... 🤦‍♀️)

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RMS0209 · 13/01/2022 08:31

I can see it too @billymay !!

Lillyofthevalley15 · 13/01/2022 08:51

@Mummy202102 I'm on 6/7 DPO so the same as you! No symptoms yet either and my temperature seems to be on a bit of a downward trend. When are you going to test? I am going to try and hold out until 12 DPO but just got a bit pack of cheap tests so not sure I'll be able to resist temptation!

LittleWins · 13/01/2022 09:01

8th - @chailatte28 @Sassy144 @Decaffe
9th - @Bringonbaby3 9dpo(assuming ovulation on time!)
10th - @SoTiredoftheStress
11th - @jazmine38, @Natalie2304, @MyloC
12th- @contagioushippie @Hopingforarainbow27
13th - @jadew88 @HelloNope
14th - @BH1926, @kizzy97 @Curlywurly3
15th - @Moonshine160
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18th - @2019Mama @miamom
19th - @Babybird20
20th - @Tinkerbell098
21st - @lottieb92
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25th - @lakejupiter
26th -
27th - @Nikkic2123
28th - @DeviousImp17 @LittleWins
29th -
30th - @BiscuitLover3678
31st - @arianasky

LittleWins · 13/01/2022 09:04

Hey everyone, I’m finally ovulating after a lot of flashing smiles. Hurrah! Might be able to squeeze another go in later before OH goes away for a few days. AF due 28th.

First baby and first proper TTC month.

Good luck everyone & congrats on the BFPs so far!