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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Shower tugging, implantation nosebleeds & a pocket full of rainbows🌈TTC bus 49

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Minster2012 · 19/10/2021 22:00

The weather has definitely turned chilly, so it’s time to hunker down on that Willy 🍆

Its Halloween time full of ghosts and ghouls 👻🎃but will our f*ck boy bodies make us into the fools?

Come on universe we’ve done our time, we’ve had lots of tricks so give us our treats 🐣.

Whether you are TTC “normally”, IUI/ivf or anything we are a crew that cling together to the bitter end & always ready to help a sister out.

It costs an embarrassing story for your ticket, doesn’t have to be TTC related as we know laughing when TTC is needed.

If you see mention of Instagram I have a public account where a lot of people are linked too:
Minstermusings, and a few people have created new anonymous accounts to record their TTC journey/life stupidities m/general annoyances on…just don’t mention TTC on a personal account please!

Bumps & babies who want to keep track of us from our other buses 👀
@clairey844
@blackcurrantqueen
@lucyrp
@Catherinettc
@Ltay2
@BlondePotter
@Clairey844
@Gem176
@kirky658
@justanothercyster
@DJmum83
@Thinkingandblinking
@2020mission
@Hopeful110
@madeoftea
@becarefuloutthere
@crazydoglady123
@tornados2Inc
@KiwiTTC1st
@Haiyaa
@lexber
@whatwonder
@bez91
@DKDK123
@minster2012

Story so far...

We’ve been around since March 2020 but @minster2012 took over in …
June 2020 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs
Jan 2021 7 BFPs
February 8 BFPs
March 5 BFPs
April 5 BFPs
May 4 BFPs
June 5 BFPs
July 1 BFP
Aug 2 BFPs
Sept 5 BFPs
October 1 BFP

Still time for some treats in October 🎃👻☠️💀

There will be more blog action coming up for my back story & life musings:
Minstermusings.co.uk

Buckle up & enjoy the ride!

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becarefuloutthere · 20/10/2021 15:28

@paintfairy the cold you speak of is awful! Dh had it n gave it to me about a week later. I didn't have it as bad as him thankfully tho, out the other end now with a stuffy nose still. Also had nosebleeds but think that's pregnancy related!
I know what you mean about the time flying for the pregnant ones on here. I used to think how are they having babies n I'm still trying! Thank god for ivf is all I say! Yay for starting stims and getting dates booked in. Wishing you all the luck n love in the world! Madness not getting a load of blue roll for the clean up 🙈 how annoying!

Juno231 · 20/10/2021 15:58

@becarefuloutthere i had half a dozen nosebleeds with my cold too! I thought maybe it was due to the nose spray. No laptop, they just use their own. New job is very chill so far which I'm happy about.

@paintfairy ooh how exciting! Could you just ask for tissues? I agree it's yuck otherwise. Will your scans be early morning btw? I do get worried about how to go about having so many appts without raising eyebrows at work...

Hopeful110 · 20/10/2021 16:07

Hi everyone! Gosh it's been ages since I posted!! But I do like to have a read and try to keep up every so often :)

Re introduction from me, I joined the bus back in June last year, I have pcos, very very irregular visits from AF, and a bicornuate uterus, had 1 mc end of June last year and these lovely ladies were a huge support and helped me get through it, I got my bfp in April this year and I'm now 29 +2 with another baby girl (my eldest DD is 4) and have just over 7 weeks til our little bump will arrive :)

I hope everyone is doing well! Half term begins for us now so trying to find ways to spend our half term haha any ideas welcome xx

bez91 · 20/10/2021 16:43

@becarefuloutthere nosebleeds could definitely be pregnancy related. I had them all the time when I was pregnant before.

@paintfairy that's a bit pants I'd be asking for some tissue! Or take some next Monday, good news things are moving!

Recap from me, think I've just hit a year on the bus. TTC #2, 3 MCs in the last 18 months. I'm now currently 10+4 and everything ok at the moment

MrsBiddy · 20/10/2021 16:52

Jumping on the Bus

I'm currently cycle 2, cd23 and still waiting for OvuSense to tell me if I've ovulated or not

Been Dtd every other day 🍆 and I'm flagging 😂🥱🥱🥱

Never had a nosebleed but there's always time yet lol

Good luck everyone 🤞🏻

Sunbird24 · 20/10/2021 17:06

Evening all, just checking back in as I’ve not been on for what feels like a long time!

I’m 43 and doing IVF solo, had 3 pregnancies with 5 embryos so far and miscarried 3 times, in Nov, Apr and Aug. Now waiting for results of genetic testing from the last one to try and help with moving forward as I’ve still got 3 embryos left in the freezer. AF finally came back last week after 7 weeks AWOL, so it won’t be this cycle, but 🤞 for November…

paintfairy · 20/10/2021 17:35

@becarefuloutthere thank you!
@Juno231 I thought last time was an oversight but clearly not. There was nothing visible i could help myself to. I guess I could ask but you really shouldn't have to? 🤷‍♀️ Today I was off work anyway. But they do ask you what time (open at 8.30am I think) and I'm hoping no one will miss me at work when I nip off for them. We usually have a meeting 10.30 ish some days, but I'll be back by then.
@bez91 yeah I'll just take my own! Or snaffle some from the toilet beforehand. I mean- this is an expensive game! Provide some bloody tissues! 🤣

DKDK123 · 20/10/2021 17:50

Taking my ticket for the new bus, thanks driver. 🚍
Quick re intro from me for the newbies. I'm 37, ttc #2 for 2 1/2years, 8 early losses all within the first 6 weeks, fertility clinic was as much use as a chocolate teapot and we'd totally given up any hope of having #2. However on the times ttc feels too shit and you feel like giving up I just want to give you hope as I'm now pregnant at nearly 9 weeks so touch wood this is our rainbow finally shining thru.

Franklydear · 20/10/2021 17:53

Recap from me, I've been here since before time, literally before we even started a rolling bus, TTC number 2 for nearly two years now, one loss last November, so another great anniversary there, have a wonderful boy, 11, and use this bus for anything and everything, cos where you gonna find more supportive sisters!

Franklydear · 20/10/2021 17:55

Ps: currently late but no bfp so far, I'll channel @DKDK123

Catherinettc · 20/10/2021 18:06

@Franklydear late u say?? Have u tested? Xx

MegAnne83 · 20/10/2021 18:43

Evening all, thanks @minster2012 for the tips on using the mn chat, I have the talk app on android and for some reason it does not let me do the cool tips you suggested, such as bringing up user names when I type @ or the ability to leave the message and return to the thread to remember what people have commented, what am I doing wrong! Anyone else have this issue?

Today text typo/error consists of me messaging a friend who has just had a c section and had a few complications, I asked her if her cathedral had been removed, I meant catheter but as she has not replied yet god knows what she is thinking!!

MegAnne83 · 20/10/2021 18:43

@Franklydear

Ps: currently late but no bfp so far, I'll channel *@DKDK123*
Keeping my fingers and nose crossed for you x
feliznavidad2 · 20/10/2021 19:22

Getting my seat...

Not sure how long I've been on, started TTC no. 2 in March, plagued by spotting in luteal phase each month so now undergoing investigations. 🕵🏻‍♀️ Got endo, so probably that related.

Nice to read everyone's stories. x

Franklydear · 20/10/2021 19:23

@Catherinettc yes, yesterday, bfn, o thought there was a faint hint of a line but DH said no way
@MegAnne83 thanks, nothing yet I'll test again eventually

McOrange · 20/10/2021 19:47

What a nice thread, you all seem so friendly, can I (tentatively) join you?

I had my first child in April 2020, and had an early miscarriage earlier this month. DH and I are 37 and 40 so think we want to get back on it ASAP.

As a result, I’m now educating myself on OPKs and all sorts. I’m on CD11 now (treating the start of MC as day 1) and going to track ovulation and see what happens.

I can well see how people get addicted to it and sucked right in. You get told when you’re younger how easy getting pregnant is but the reality is so different isn’t it.

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Catherinettc · 20/10/2021 21:05

@Franklydear everything crossed for you 🤞🤞 xx

paintfairy · 20/10/2021 21:18

@clolo I hope your scan goes well!
@Franklydear 🤞

JonSnowsCloak · 20/10/2021 22:33

Joining the new bus :) ttc#1, cycle 2, 8/9 dpo due on Monday...let's see how this goes! Anyone had symptoms at this stage?

bez91 · 21/10/2021 06:02

Come on @Franklydear 🤞🏼

Wishing you all the best for today @clolo

Sorry for the quietness, I've got the worst sinus infection and struggling to do much 🤦🏼‍♀️

Franklydear · 21/10/2021 06:32

Cd 30, never been this far in a cycle, I’ll wait a few days to test again, this might just be a fluke and af might be round the corner, anyway I am quite liking limbo, I am the Schregger woman
Good luck @clolo, so nice we are having so many good scans lately

Minster2012 · 21/10/2021 07:21

Morning ladies,

Allllllll the luck to @clolo this morning!

@Franklydear you must be the only person who likes the limbo 🤪

@JonSnowsCloak welcome! This cycle I got my BFP I didn't really have any symptoms til I didn't want to drink my wine at evening of 10dpo which is very unusual for me! How do you feel?

@bez91 I really hope it clears quickly, I've woken with the most horrendous headache and it's awful. Only got a full day with DS basically at home as the guy comes to fix the aga. Mint.

@McOrange hey welcome! There's a few of us TTC & with rainbow bumps after miscarriages, sorry for your loss. Did you track before?

@feliznavidad2 did you get the results of your latest scan?

@MegAnne83 no idea on the android app I'm afraid! Did your friend get back to you after her cathedral??

@Sunbird24 heyyyyy great to see you back and with AF too! That's great! Do you have any idea when you get the testing results back? 🤞🏻

@MrsBiddy welcome! I'm not surprised you are flagging at CD23 & no joy yet 😬this will be the important bit though so keep going!!

@Hopeful110 7 weeks!! And happy half term, how you feeling?

@Juno231 im really pleased the new job is more chilled, any progress with the house(s)?

@paintfairy they don't give you tissues?? What?? I'd def ask next time I'd be like "er do you have anything to help me clean up?" You are starting though that's fab! Come on follicles!! 🙌🏻

I hope I don't get this worse cold ever 😬, DH just narrowly avoided seeing his mate last night in the pub after his friend dropped into the phone call before "yeah I can do 8pm, just gotta take wife to get Covid test after DS has confirmed Covid" errrrrr what?? Nope no meeting him then thanks

So newbies we need some embarrassing stories please? @MrsBiddy @McOrange & @JonSnowsCloak please for your ticket!

Recap on me. TTC #2, DS born through surrogacy with my best friend. Been on bus since MMC last feb after 1st ivf, had 2 more failed ivfs then got natural BFP in April before next ivf, MC there then now trying to nurse a Sep BFP & currently 9+2 weeks taking it easy as I have a subchorionic hematoma so can bleed. 🌈

God my head is pounding 😩😖anyone want to entertain a 3 year old for me???

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McOrange · 21/10/2021 07:27

Thanks @Minster2012! No I never tracked before, we very luckily conceived on first go with child #1 so actually this miscarriage has thrown me a bit, fertility really isn’t a given is it.

I’ve taken my second day of clear blue ovulation tests and it’s given me a static smiley. How long after this am I likely to ovulate? husband is away with work today so hoping it can wait to shag until tonight!