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TTC after MC - May 2021 thread 19

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bez91 · 08/05/2021 10:53

Here we are again... thread 19. Not sure if any of you ladies are here from thread 1. I think I've been around since about thread 5.

@SLCxxx
@justwant2beamum
@Canadadarling
@Marvellouslymadmum
@SamBass
@bubblybrit
@elsimo
@Loulou237
@Fingerscrossedfor2021HK
@susiebluebell
@Mamat90
@Lollipop25
@TheDaydreamBelievers

Tagged everyone I can find/think of.

A very new tag list from the last one I did in February, a lot of ladies got BFPs 🤰 Hopefully some good news for us in the coming months... 🤞🏼

Any recaps on journey so far welcome...

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Marvellouslymadmum · 25/05/2021 22:12

@SLCxxx we've been dtd every couple of days since Thursday as oh has his sa that day but who knows what's going on!

bez91 · 26/05/2021 19:33

@SLCxxx when I first called the GP I got a male receptionist, I don't think I've ever spoke to a male GP receptionist 🙈 I just blurted out about vaginal bleeding, this that and the other and he felt really uncomfortable 😆 I felt ok, I'm past caring now 😂

Hope everyone is doing ok, either 8 or 10 dpo here, testing Friday I think if I can resist tomorrow x

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Marvellouslymadmum · 26/05/2021 23:36

@bez91 😂 that made me lol it is like that though, you start off all shy about everything and after a while you don't care who you're talking to or whoever wants to take a look as long as it gets you one step closer to the bfp!! I've no idea where I am my cycles gone haywire again lol

bez91 · 27/05/2021 15:53

@Marvellouslymadmum absolutely! When I had DD every student nurse, student doctor and what not was in the room just to spectate... more the merrier I say 😂 has your husband had his SA? My DH has got his Tuesday, I'm testing tomorrow. He thinks he's got away with it if a get a BFP, I've said he's still having it as with my track record BFP means nada so he's a bit put out 🙈 plus it's already paid for!

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Capricorn8990 · 27/05/2021 16:11

Heya ladies,

This morning I took a pregnancy test and I thought I could see a VVFL. I don't have anymore pregnancy tests so I took a ovulation test and I've got two lines.

What's going on? X

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Capricorn8990 · 27/05/2021 16:20

@davidrosejumper thanks for your lovely reply! Sorry I'm only just replying to you as well I didn't see it yesterday. I'll definitely be like that on the phone and just give the details that I feel comfortable with xx

Loulou237 · 27/05/2021 16:42

@Capricorn8990 ovulation tests can pick up hcg so best do another preg test in the morning to see what’s going on! Exciting, fingers crossed for you xxx

Canadadarlingg · 27/05/2021 19:36

@Capricorn8990 that sounds promising, hoping this is your BFP

Unfortunately I think ttc is being put on hold for me. I have just got a new job which I'll be starting soon so we decided to wait until I've settled in there before we try again (hopefully not too long😔), but I get the feeling that my OH is changing his mind about the idea of ttc.. and I'm worried by that time he will have decided he actually doesn't want to and push it further into the future. I hope everyone here is doing well though and I'll still try and keep up with this page, hopefully I'll be back to it soon🤞🏻

susiebluebell · 27/05/2021 20:47

Best of luck with it all @Canadadarlingg! Maybe we won't see you, and it'll be for all the right reasons! Smile

RichmondLady1981 · 27/05/2021 21:38

Hi lovely ladies.

I post today to give you all hope. I joined this thread around a year ago after finding out at my 12 week scan there was no HB. I had previously seen a heartbeat at 7.5 week scan. We were heartbroken.

After a few changes to supplements, even a round of failed IVF, we fell pregnant naturally. I know you’ll cringe at hearing this but it was the month we didn’t track, didn’t use extra lubricant and I didn’t lay on my back after sex for 20 mins. We had sex once that month just to be close. This was the month we fell lucky!

Something I really believe did make a difference was a daily supplement of co-q 10 (600) and high quality dose Vitamin D daily. I am 39 years old. Will be 40 (just) when I give birth.

Today we had our genetic testing blood tests back and our 12 week scan and everything (so far) is well. I know we still have a journey ahead of us but we are grateful for this milestone.

I know how hard it is, the pain, the tears.
anger and jealousy. I felt it too. Never give up and most importantly, keep living your lives. Go out for that run. Have a cup of coffee. Enjoy the wine. It will happen 💕

@HappyVibes @susiebluebell. thanks for being such great support and words of wisdom.

Good luck everyone. 💕

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MammaJ21 · 27/05/2021 22:07

@RichmondLady1981 huge congratulations. So glad your scan has gone well...so excited for you. Take it easy now and enjoy every moment xx

bez91 · 27/05/2021 22:17

Congratulations @RichmondLady1981 that's fantastic. I hope you enjoy the rest of your pregnancy and all is plain sailing for you 💕

Keep living your lives is such great advice, I've been stuck in a rut for so long thinking I better not do this, that etc but its clearly made no difference so I think I'll heed that advice 😊

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Marvellouslymadmum · 27/05/2021 23:50

@bez91 that's exactly it!! He had his sa last Thursday so we are just waiting for the results at the moment. I'd definitely still make him do it! Mine was like you best be grateful for this, I just laughed. I really don't think they realise everything we are doing!

@Capricorn8990 yes as lou lou said try another test in the morning as Lh can mean positive hcg! 🤞🏻

@Canadadarlingg aww hopefully he'll be ok and you can get back to it soon

@RichmondLady1981 thank you so much for sharing! So lovely that it's all going well for you, would you mind sharing which brand of co-q10 you were taking please? I don't feel
Like the ones I had did anything so looking for some new ones. Was it 600mg you were taking?

Wishingfornumber2 · 28/05/2021 00:00

@RichmondLady1981 that’s so lovely to hear and does show it just takes that one lucky time to work! Hope the next 6 months goes ok for you ❤️

Canadadarlingg · 28/05/2021 00:04

@RichmondLady1981 that's such great news I'm so happy that it's all going well for you. It really gives me hope that things can work out even if you've suffered complications/ losses. Wishing you the best with the rest of your pregnancy!

@Marvellouslymadmum @susiebluebell thank you I hope that he won't change his mind in the next few months and after I'm settled we can start trying again

bez91 · 28/05/2021 05:39

@Marvellouslymadmum ahh when will you find out results do you you?

Tested this morning at 10 or 12dpo and BFN. I'm looking forward to not tracking anything next month tbh

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Capricorn8990 · 28/05/2021 07:36

Took another test and it’s negative I hate tests sometimes, they give you such false hope. X

Marvellouslymadmum · 28/05/2021 08:52

@bez91 they said 1-2 weeks, I rang the gp yesterday but they said not in yet so I'm guessing will be after the bank Holiday now

@Capricorn8990 so sorry I hate the false hope it's so hard to take!

Lollipop25 · 28/05/2021 09:25

Ah sorry @Capricorn8990 that's so frustrating and disappointing. How many DPO are you ?

Capricorn8990 · 28/05/2021 09:30

@Marvellouslymadmum I guess it's just life! Xx

@Lollipop25 I am at least 10DPO xx

Lollipop25 · 28/05/2021 11:24

Was spotting Monday so thought AF was on the way but had nothing since. Just took this 🙈

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Capricorn8990 · 28/05/2021 11:29

@Lollipop25 oh my gosh!!! Amazing 🤩

RichmondLady1981 · 28/05/2021 12:57

Here is the brand. It’s pricey but it’s good!

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RichmondLady1981 · 28/05/2021 12:58

Sorry it’s not clear... SOLGAR

bez91 · 28/05/2021 13:02

Thanks @RichmondLady1981 I'll take a look. Did you take these with anything else? I'm taking proceive but noticed they only have 25mg of the CoQ-10. Is it the 200mg you went for? 😊 hope you're doing well and still buzzing after yesterday x

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