TTC after ectopic Part 2

[DoctorBambino]

Looks like we need a new thread!
I've added everyone who has posted recently 😊

@Sammyclaire22 @that90sgirl @ActonBell @NigellasMicrowave @Kate105 @Hlump1980 @ScottishStardust @littleeggcup @MrsB2019x @Chica1990 @Mumlili9 @Ivybutterfly @yesitcould @BasalGanglia

@Lililou congratulations that's a wonderful line!! I know you were having a hard time and that you were feeling low about ttc recently so that's fab news !!
@HereIfYouNeedMe big hugs to you - I know the feeling of disappointment all too well I'm afraid - the 06th June will be exactly a year since the ectopic was confirmed at A&E, so a big milestone for me- also taking my first IVF injection this evening so it's exciting and really feels like I've come full circle ❤️

[quote Luan82]@Lililou congratulations that's a wonderful line!! I know you were having a hard time and that you were feeling low about ttc recently so that's fab news !!
@HereIfYouNeedMe big hugs to you - I know the feeling of disappointment all too well I'm afraid - the 06th June will be exactly a year since the ectopic was confirmed at A&E, so a big milestone for me- also taking my first IVF injection this evening so it's exciting and really feels like I've come full circle ❤️[/quote]
Ooh you have lovely!!! So excited for you, good luck for tonight!! Xx

Wonderful news @Lililou - it’s so pleasing to see that line!

I hear you @HereIfYouNeedMe My period was due tomorrow and I’ve started spotting this afternoon. I’ve had high BBTs all week and something on an IC today.

I’m not so much sad as frustrated this month. It’s only been three cycles of trying again, but my due date will roll around in a couple of months and it’s looming ahead of me. @Luan82 it’s funny how these dates and anniversaries matter in situations like these, I completely understand. Good look for that first jab tonight - there’s so many of us willing you on.

@NigellasMicrowave have you really 😀 Do you have a picture?xx

I do, but as I’m pretty sure AF has started, I think it is a dud (or my bad eyesight) so I won’t share. I need better patience to wait until the day my
period is actually due next month! May throw the internet tests out to make myself wait.

@NigellasMicrowave

I do, but as I’m pretty sure AF has started, I think it is a dud (or my bad eyesight) so I won’t share. I need better patience to wait until the day my period is actually due next month! May throw the internet tests out to make myself wait.

I can't wait either 🙈 it could be implantation bleeding which can happen around the time AF is due! But I don't want to get your hopes up. It's unusual for it to be a false positive though, IME I've always got on with IC

Bit worried today, I did a FRER and IC this morning. Just looked at them, both have faint lines (v v faint). AF due Sunday, I'm hoping it arrives as worried it's another ectopic. A positive should be really strong by now shouldn't it?
I had a clear positive 6 days before my missed period with DS... any experiences with different HCG levels? I don't know why I keep testing 🤦🏻‍♀️

What do you think?

@HereIfYouNeedMe

What do you think?

Ah my pictures haven't uploaded

@NigellasMicrowave I had spotting the day before this BFP, I know it’s hard but you’re not out yet, unless the bleeding has got heavier now?

@HereIfYouNeedMe Not necessarily, my BFP with my ectopic was quite strong so doesn’t necessarily have a correlation. Hope your pics can upload! You gonna test again tomorrow?

@coffeewithmilk @DoctorBambino How are you both getting on?

@MrsB2019x every time I go to upload it says 'you have no photos to upload' and my camera roll doesn't come up! 🙄 I just took the second FRER in the pack and watched it develop into a BFP. I'm just concerned it's taken so long to pick up HCG...
How are you getting on?

Aha! Here we go, first pic was this morning and second is just now

@MrsB2019x all going well thanks! Anxiety through the roof. First scan next Saturday when I'll be 6w. Let's hope it's in the right place this time 🤞🏻 xx

It’s definitely my period, unfortunately. Some sobs this morning - just fed up!

So good to have you check in @coffeewithmilk - fingers still crossed for you.

@NigellasMicrowave

It’s definitely my period, unfortunately. Some sobs this morning - just fed up!

So good to have you check in @coffeewithmilk - fingers still crossed for you.

So sorry to hear that ☹️

Thanks for checking in @MrsB2019x all good here I think I'm about 5w3d and have a scan on Saturday 12th to check all ok. I fluctuate between extreme anxiety and extreme hopefulness!

Sorry AF came @NigellasMicrowave it's so tough when you go through this month after month xx

I’m sorry @NigellasMicrowave 😔 good to have a big fat sob when you need to x

@HereIfYouNeedMe There’s a definite line on that FRER! How many DPO do you think you are? Exciting 😁😁

Glad to hear you’re both doing well @coffeewithmilk @DoctorBambino, can’t wait for updates after your scans!

@MrsB2019x 12dpo I think, was getting BFNs up until today so I'm not confident it'll stick ☹️

@emsperk123 saw your post on the pregnancy board and thought you might like to join us here. We are all at differing stages but have all been through an ectopic too so lots of people to ask for advice. I'm sorry for your loss xx

Sorry to hear that @NigellasMicrowave. Sometimes a big sob is much needed.

@HereIfYouNeedMe 12 DPO isn't much, I didn't get mine until 12 DPO either. And it was longer last time (although that was ectopic). Have you done any more tests since? I have everything crossed that it does stick 🤞

@coffeewithmilk @DoctorBambino best of luck with your scans! Ive booked my 6 week scan a for the 18th. I've been feeling cautious but also strangely calm about the whole thing. I can't quite imagine what it will be like going back into that hospital and in to that waiting room again.

@Lililou thanks for checking in lovely, AF arrived today on schedule. Must have been a chemical x

That’s rotten @HereIfYouNeedMe Your emotions must have been all over the place, these past
few days. Big hugs for you.

@NigellasMicrowave

That’s rotten *@HereIfYouNeedMe* Your emotions must have been all over the place, these past few days. Big hugs for you.

Thank you, and to you ❤️ I was 90% sure it wasn't right, strange how you just know these things sometimes. It was the same with the ectopic! Good luck for the TWW ahead 😊

I am downplaying it, have a habit of just wanting to move forward and look ahead. I did get my hopes up I'm going to lie! At least it was only for a day x

So sorry @HereIfYouNeedMe 😔 x