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Getting my hopes up again.. ttc sucks!!

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Mich2020 · 15/05/2020 12:08

Morning, I'm now 11dpo, been trying to conceive for 15 months now.. I feel like It's never going to happen. On the waiting list for a lap and dye for endometriosis and possible pcos. I've taken a frer this morning and a cheapie. I'm sure there's a hint of a second line on the frer and the cheapie has been left for a while so counting it as an evap line. I don't know how many more months I can feel like this. I thought this month was it. Anyone see a line on my frer??

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Mich2020 · 16/05/2020 16:10

@Pawsin thank you. I have had a couple in the past too so I know not to get excited. I've just felt very off this last week which makes me wonder x

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Mich2020 · 16/05/2020 16:45

Frer I've done just a minute ago. I can see the faintest line.. it's pink 🤔 I don't want to get excited. Does anyone else see it??

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Lexie365 · 16/05/2020 17:07

i can definitely see a faint line! really hope you get your bfpSmile keep us updated plzGrin

Mich2020 · 16/05/2020 17:09

Thanks @Lexie365 do you think I should wait to do my other frer tomorrow morning or evening or Monday now? I think I'm too impatient to wait until Monday x

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NoCallerID · 16/05/2020 17:33

Yup! I can see it without zooming in!!

Mich2020 · 16/05/2020 17:36

Eeeek @NoCallerID thank you. Trying not to get excited though. It's still not a great line for 12dpo x

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Tabithha · 16/05/2020 17:38

Echoing a previous poster saying not to get your hopes up. Obviously I hope it’s a bfp but I’d expect a visible line at 12dpo

Mich2020 · 16/05/2020 17:42

@Tabithha thanks, I thought the same but know that implantation could be later etc so just hoping that's the case. Will try again with fmu and see what result I get x

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Tabithha · 16/05/2020 17:45

@Mich2020 really hope it’s a bfp. I’ve got everything crossed for you Smile

Mich2020 · 16/05/2020 17:47

@Tabithha thank you 😊

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Lexie365 · 16/05/2020 17:56

i would advise you to wait until monday...but i would never be able to waitGrin i agree with other posters though that you shouldn't get your hopes up to much as similar has happened to me. really hope it is your bfpSmileSmile

niki26 · 16/05/2020 19:06

Ooh I can still see the line on the FRER. How many tests do you have left? I would say wait till Monday but I really wouldn't be able to myself!

PinkFlamingoGirl · 16/05/2020 19:14

I can see it @mich2020! 🤞

PinkFlamingoGirl · 16/05/2020 19:17

Eeeeek I'm going to send positive vibes your way and I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for that line to keep getting darker for you🤞🤞

Sammyclaire22 · 16/05/2020 19:37

Hiya, my cheap ones and frer look exactly like yours and I'm 10dpo. They look like mine did last time I was pregnant too- I didn't get a dark frer until about 14 15dpo if I remember rightly. It all depends on when you implanted but if there is pink in the line then it's positive x

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Mich2020 · 16/05/2020 19:51

@niki26 I have one frer left and about 6-7 ics. I don't think I'll be able to hold on until Monday but I can order some more to be delivered Monday if the one tomorrow morning is stronger xx

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Mich2020 · 16/05/2020 19:51

Eeek @PinkFlamingoGirl I shall keep you posted xx

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Mich2020 · 16/05/2020 19:52

@Sammyclaire22 how exciting. Are you testing again tomorrow? Xx

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Mich2020 · 17/05/2020 08:18

Morning. I couldn't resist and had to do my last frer this morning. Another line.. can't work out it it's darker than yesterday's though..x

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Mich2020 · 17/05/2020 08:27

Just realise those photos do it no justice at all. I'll try get a better one in a min x

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Mich2020 · 17/05/2020 08:45

Today's..

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Mich2020 · 17/05/2020 08:46

Yesterday's..

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Sammyclaire22 · 17/05/2020 08:54

I will test every day until its dark (I can see a faint but definite line on my cheap one now so will mainly use those) then probably once a week until my early scan- I had a chemical early march so little bit worried of the line going away!

Don't worry if there isn't a huge change in colour yet between subsequent days, different urine concentrations affect it and hcg doubles every few days so there might not be a big response early on. A line is a line! Maybe compare every 3rd day?

Mich2020 · 17/05/2020 08:57

Sorry to hear about that. Let's hope this one sticks. Have you got a pic of yours today? I've stupider just ordered a triple check clearblue pack from amazon. Arriving tomorrow 🙈 can't help myself xx

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Sammyclaire22 · 17/05/2020 09:17

It's OK, I was just glad I got to the point of implanting as that's a hard enough hurdle to reach and it gave me hope that it can happen again.

Haha don't worry I make excuses to myself all the time when testing. First time ttc I bought about 3 different brands just to be sure! And I will still buy 1 more pack of frer this time lol. In the grand scheme if it makes me relax more, then a tenner or two is nothing. How are you feeling today? I've got proper af due cramps but I don't normally get them this early so assuming it's bubs settling in I hope.

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