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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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dizzy85 · 24/12/2019 15:34

@NicoleR14 @xxchlobo90xx aww congratulations both of you how lovely ❤️ best Christmas ever! Are you gonna surprise dh tomorrow or have you already told them? Xxx

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NicoleR14 · 24/12/2019 18:44

Thanks everyone! Yes DH knows! Hoping the lines still there in a week then I can get phoning the midwife! So happy I'm bursting to tell the parents but can't just yet until we know for sure!

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dizzy85 · 25/12/2019 09:43

Merry Christmas ladies 🎅🏻🥳xxx

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NicoleR14 · 25/12/2019 18:28

Merry Christmas ladies! Hope you've all had a wonderful day and been spoiled!

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Nmew · 26/12/2019 10:07

Merry Christmas ladies, hope you all had a lovely relaxing day!

Still no AF (4days late now) and bfn again this morning again. My af has never been this late before so I reckon maybe if it hasnt come by the time I’d be a week late maybe I should make an appointment with the doctor, what do you think?

How’s everyone doing?

xxchlobo90xx · 26/12/2019 10:57

Merry Christmas all! Had a relaxing day and ate my body weight in food haha. Hope you all had a lush day.

@Nmew how frustrating for you! I would def make an appoint it AF still hasn't come.

Update from me, still bleeding daily, even after my BFP! Only very lightly and when I wipe. Not sure if I should be concerned or not. Going to leave it a few days and then go the docs of it hasn't stopped x

Nmew · 26/12/2019 12:36

Hopefully it’s all ok for you @xxchlobo90xx I’m sure a docs appointment would def help relive your mind a little.

Keep us posted xx

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NicoleR14 · 26/12/2019 16:01

I have one of the most weirdest questions to ask and it is very tmi! I've had yellow spots on my nipples since they started getting sore 5dpo and now have them down there also on the inner lips has anyone ever had this I'm starting to freak out I do not know enough about my body!

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Nmew · 26/12/2019 20:32

I don't recall it being something I have experienced myself, maybe it's a pregnancy thing, what with hormones being all out of whack. I'm sure its something the midwife can help with when you go see them, could maybe give them a call to ask if you can talk about it over the phone to give you peace of mind before your appointment.

Nmew · 27/12/2019 00:25

Let me preface this by saying, late af and bfn everyday is making me lose my marbles lol so forgive the following madness! (Af is 5days late)

I don’t have anything except ic and this evening I just couldn’t stop myself using one, and there was this weird little pink mark on the edge where a second line would show.. so I took a photo and played about with it to see if they looked the same or different.

Original and edited photo attached.

I am grasping at straws lol am I actually losing my mind or can any of you see something? Confused

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dizzy85 · 27/12/2019 01:27

@Nmew I can definitely see something on the edited photo but it's harder to tell on the original, but then I have had some Boxing Day drinks so my eyes may not be their best right now lol. Definitely test again fmu and see what happens. Fingers crossed for you xxx

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NicoleR14 · 27/12/2019 08:44

I can definitely see a line! Mines were similar to that one!

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Nmew · 27/12/2019 09:15

Done another ic this morning and it looks pretty much the same as last nights. Maybe I’m just seeing evaps but I’ll try get a frer later to use tomorrow morning.

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NicoleR14 · 27/12/2019 12:01

Been to the gp I started bleeding this morning she thinks it may be an ectopic pregnancy I'm heartbroken 😢

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xxchlobo90xx · 27/12/2019 12:39

Oh I'm so sorry Nicole 😔 was it heavy bleeding and they are 100% or are they giving you a scan to confirm?

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NicoleR14 · 27/12/2019 13:38

It's basically af type of bleeding but getting no serious cramps! they've told me because I'm so early they can't confirm it and have told me to wait a week and retest but there wasn't much else she could do and gave me the number for the early pregnancy department at the hospital to ask for advice 😢

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xxchlobo90xx · 27/12/2019 14:22

Oh bless you, don't assume it's an ectopic pregnancy just yet though as there is no way of knowing! Surely having no cramps is a good sign? I know it's horrible, it's the waiting game all over again isn't it! Put your feet up for a few days and hopefully the bleeding will stop x

Nmew · 27/12/2019 17:36

Oh @NicoleR14 I’m so sorry, I really hope it turns out ok for you. I’m sure you are beside yourself, rest up xx

dizzy85 · 27/12/2019 23:10

@NicoleR14 oh no I'm so sorry to read that. I really hope that's not the case. Have you contacted the early pregnancy unit? Hopefully they can scan you and see what's going on. Xxx

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NicoleR14 · 28/12/2019 11:08

Thank you ladies, I've been trying to rest up but I am heartbroken because I would of only been 4 weeks they won't determine if its a mmc or ectopic pregnancy they've told me to watch out for the bleeding getting heavier and any sharp pains they won't take me for a scan as they believe it will pass itself its been hard to deal with but once it's all over with we will just try again and see how it goes at least now we know we can fall pregnant x

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Beau2019 · 28/12/2019 12:19

@NicoleR14 sorry I am jumping on this thread - if it is an ectopic pregnancy you MUST go back to the hospital, they almost never pass by themselves and will need removing. I don't mean to scare you but they can be very worrying so please please go to A&E if you get any serious pains on one side 💞

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NicoleR14 · 28/12/2019 15:42

I will I've not had too much pain my left side is quiet sore but nothing unbareable thank you i wasn't told about that the doctors I'm with aren't great she had told me to wait a week see how the bleeding goes and retest but I don't think I'll bother it's upsetting enough as it as I'm just going to keep an eye on everything and try again x

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Sunshinexx95 · 28/12/2019 17:51

@NicoleR14
If it is ectopic pregnancy then u would have pain in ur left shoulder I think so keep an eye

Nmew · 28/12/2019 21:57

Take care of yourself @NicoleR14 I'm so sorry you are going through this, it's heartbreaking for sure.

My update is that unfortunately I also started bleeding this morning. 7days after I should have which has never happened to me before, the latest I've ever been is 2days. So I'm not sure if it's just a weird cycle or a chemical or what. But either way I'm out this month.

Hope everyone else is doing ok. x

xxchlobo90xx · 29/12/2019 18:13

How are you feeling @NicoleR14 ? Has the bleeding stopped? Xx

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