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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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dizzy85 · 23/12/2019 21:24

Sorry for any bfns aswell hope everyone is ok. And good luck to those still waiting 🤞🏻xxx

NicoleR14 · 23/12/2019 21:33

Will do @ArjaD!

Welcome @Elmlee!

@dizzy85 no I've just got the one step tests I'm going to take another tomorrow and if the second lines darker I will give the docs a call see if they can do a blood test! I forgot to get a frer so we'll see what tomorrow brings I hope it's the start of a BFP! So excited but getting cramps so I'm starting to doubt it scared to get my hopes up but can't help it at the same time haven't told DH yet but bursting to tell him but don't want to upset him if it's negative either! I'm going crazy here 😂!

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Nmew · 23/12/2019 22:12

Aww @NicoleR14 I see something! I really hope this is it for you, baby dust to everyone!!

Welcome @Elmlee I hope those are good signs for you!

Hope you are doing well @dizzy85 x

Here’s hoping for a relaxing Christmas for us all @everpessimistic

AF is still a no show for me tonight, I’m on work early so I’ll be up doing a frer first thing!

dizzy85 · 23/12/2019 22:35

@NicoleR14 I can understand how you feel, if you can get to the shops tomorrow maybe grab a frer coz I've had a faded line on a cheapie but the frer shows darker so might put your mind at rest. I have everything crossed this is it for you ❤️ just try to relax, easier said than done I know but it's out of your control so just try to chill and be positive 🥰

dizzy85 · 23/12/2019 22:36

@Nmew I am good Thankyou hope your doing well, where are you at are you waiting or late?

Nmew · 23/12/2019 22:39

Af is 2 days late, tomorrow will be 3. I’ve done a frer and to the naked eye it’s a bfn but I swear I can see something, probably just wishful thinking lol but I’ll hold onto hope since AF hasn’t shown up yet.

NicoleR14 · 23/12/2019 23:01

@dizzy85 I'm scared incase it's a bfn but I know I need to know I'm terrified and DH keeps asking what's wrong with me I need to get one tomorrow Im trying to keep my cool I don't think it's working though 😂 I'm having cramps in my lower belly and lower back and I'm wondering if it's a fake positive and af is on the way I don't think I'll sleep tonight over it lol x

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dizzy85 · 23/12/2019 23:33

@Nmew really hoping it's a bfp for you❤️ are you gonna test again tomorrow? X

@NicoleR14 yer I understand that must be nerve wracking but I think it's quite rare to get a false positive though unless the tests are dodgy but I very much doubt it as so many people use those tests. Another thread I'm on someone just got a bfp on those tests and it looks the same faintness as yours and then did the frer and it was darker so really hoping it's the same for you. The cramp feelings are normal in early pregnancy too. Maybe just try to go to sleep if you can then it'll go quicker till tomorrow so you can get another test. Or if you can't sleep get in bed and pretend your sleeping so you don't have to look suspicious to DH 😊 sending you positive vibes for tomorrow x

xxchlobo90xx · 23/12/2019 23:45

Hey ladies, sorry for hijacking this post. I haven't commented on here for a couple of days as AF appeared early! Still only 2 days into AF, but just took a test and I have 2 lines! Is this even possible whilest I'm still on?! I've attached a pic, please tell me I'm not going crazy 😂

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Nmew · 24/12/2019 06:27

@dizzy85 tested again this morning and still bfn by the looks of it, tested on both frer and cb early. Getting discouraged now so don’t think I’ll test for a while. Feel like AF is just late.

@xxchlobo90xx I definitely see a second line, be worth asking for a dr appointment to see if they’ll do bloods or something to see whats going on. x

Nmew · 24/12/2019 06:27

Any news today @NicoleR14

NicoleR14 · 24/12/2019 07:22

I can't see any lines on the 2 I did this morning if it was there last night wouldn't it be stronger today? so I think that one I took last night could of been an evap or something I'm not sure can anyone else see lines on any of the tests?

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ArjaD · 24/12/2019 08:09

I see a line on the top one!

NicoleR14 · 24/12/2019 08:10

I'm not sure this is a clearer photo I'm trying not to get my hopes up! Thanks @ArjaD

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NicoleR14 · 24/12/2019 08:32

Just phoned the gp got an appointment so fingers crossed they might be able to confirm it 🤞🏼

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Bexy1393 · 24/12/2019 08:36

My amazon cheapies only started to get darker at about 14 Dpo even though I had a clear positive with FRER at 9dpo. Yours look like faint positives to me x

ArjaD · 24/12/2019 08:51

@NicoleR14 yes that last pic is really clear, honestly when i got pregnant two years ago it was so faint i nearly put my test in the bin, but when i took a clearblue digital the same day it said 2-3 weeks. So CONGRATULATIONS ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

NicoleR14 · 24/12/2019 08:58

Ahh I hope sooo!🤞🏼 I'm hoping the doctors can confirm it today! Thank yous!

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NicoleR14 · 24/12/2019 10:34

Been to the docs and they have had a look at the tests and confirmed it is a bfp! Told me to wait a week and take a test again to make sure and give the midwife a call! I'm so happy!

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ArjaD · 24/12/2019 10:36

❤️❤️❤️❤️ Awwww I'm elated for you @NicoleR14 xxxx merry Christmas xxxxx

NicoleR14 · 24/12/2019 10:38

@ArjaD thank you!! Merry Christmas to you too! I think this is the best Christmas present I could ever get!❤️❤️

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xxchlobo90xx · 24/12/2019 10:40

Congratulations @NicoleR14 !! The most perfect Christmas present 😬

NicoleR14 · 24/12/2019 10:54

@xxchlobo90xx thank you! And congratulations 🥳 on your bfp too! It's so exciting!

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xxchlobo90xx · 24/12/2019 11:15

@NicoleR14 thank you! Took a digital this morning and it says 1-2 weeks! So exciting. Now both of us just have to try keep it a secret over Xmas and NY! 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

Nmew · 24/12/2019 12:54

Aw I’m so so happy for you both! @NicoleR14 @xxchlobo90xx what a wonderful Christmas gift for you both, a happy healthy pregnancy to you! xx

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