11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@Nmew sorry to hear AF arrived! Enjoy your New Years then start again! 😘 x

@Nmew sorry to hear af came 😭 hope your ok.
@NicoleR14 really hope your doing alright too.
How is everyone else? I've been so busy over Christmas just reading bits every now and then. I'm currently in the fertile week so just dtd every other day and hoping for the best xxx

Thanks ladies the bleeding has stopped now I'm a bit concerned if it's only lasted 2 and a bit days! Good luck @dizzy85 hopefully next month is your month!
Sorry to hear about af coming @Nmew at least you can enjoy yourself over New year now!
@xxchlobo90xx how are you getting on? Have you spoken to the midwife yet!

@NicoleR14 that's good news if it's stopped isn't it? I'm calling tomorrow to book my first midwife appointment, and will mention on the phone about the spotting. I'm not that concerned at the min as I haven't had anything today, took another digital test and still says positive! X

Aww that's good @xxchlobo90xx hopefully everything goes okay for you and your still getting bfps! Good luck with the midwife🤞🏼xx

@NicoleR14 Thankyou. How are you feeling?do you have to go back to the doctors or anything?

@dizzy85 I'm feeling a bit better the bleeding stopped yesterday thank god still sore I'm not entirely sure I've got a number to phone for advice I'm going to give them a call tomorrow to see if they have any more info or advice on it how are you feeling? X

Sorry to also jump on the thread but I wanted to echo other posters advice about pain and getting checked out- I had an ectopic and the pain was more like bad period pain/ food poisoning even when my tube had ruptured and i was bleeding internally. Mine was central pain and I had no bleeding, fortunately i work in a hospital and went to get checked out (assuming a mc) when they found out what it was. I was in surgery within a couple of hours of presenting and nearly needed a transfusion. If id been at home i would have just used a hot water bottle and gone to bed with some paracetamol!
I understand not wanting to go in if it's not needed, but make sure you have someone with you over the next few days just incase and if you feel worse then please do go in.
And on a positive note I got pregnant the month after, so it's certainly still possible even after the heartbreak. I had a private scan at about 5 1/2 weeks and you could clearly see where the sac was (too early for a heart beat) so depending how far along you are they might give you an US if you do go in even if it's before 6 weeks x

@NicoleR14 I am doing ok Thankyou. Glad the bleeding has stopped but definitely give someone a call just to check what's happening and make sure your ok. Xx

Morning, how is everyone else doing? Is anyone near ovulation time? I'm predicting ovulation in the next two days so been busy dtd.

Thanks ladies, planning on enjoying tonight and then getting back on the ttc.

I have no idea when I’ll ovulate tbh, AF was only one day so I’m kind of thrown by that. But I’m trying to do BBT to help and will probably do opks from cd 8 ish. On Cd 4 atm.

Hey ladies, how you all had a good New Years! I was enjoying mine until I started bleeding heavily at 11 last night 😔 went to a and e this morning but they couldn't really do anything. Took my blood and told me my HCG level was low, but said that's expected as I'm still early.
Got a scan at 9am tomorrow to see if anything is still there. I don't think it is but I'm trying to be positive 🤞🏼

Hi all, so much seems to have happened. So sorry to hear about all the bleeds and scares etc. I can only imagine how hard it is.😔
@Bbutterfly @dizzy85 predicted ovulation is around the 7th or 8th Jan for me so I've started to test. Not holding out much hope. Hubby is offshore till the 7th 🙄.

@xxchlobo90xx I'm really sorry to hear about the bleeding hope your ok let us know how you get on with the scan.xx
@ArjaD oh I hope your hubby gets home in time for you, jump on him as soon as he gets back! I'm predicting ovulation for tomorrow but I'm not doing any opks or anything this month just dtd as hoping it's works out.

@dizzy85 yep, I'm prepared to jump him as soon as he walks through that door (if I can get the toddler to take a nap) 😂

@ArjaD haha I'm sure he will be happy with that as he returns 😆 I have ovulation pains today so I will be getting to it later.

@dizzy85 fingers crossed, good luck! Wish we were two weeks on already 😂😂

Hey ladies, I've had so much to catch up on our group. @xxchlobo90xx so sorry to read what's been happening How are you today? Keep us updated with the scan.
@ArjaD I'm the same 7th or 8th. Hopefully we will have some luck this time. And if he's back on the same day you never know! That's all you need.
@dizzy85 I thought about opks and not doing them too But I don't think I'll be able to resist! Xx

@ArjaD Thankyou and good luck to you too, oh I know if only we could fast forward and now Christmas is over there's less things to distract us this month too 🤣.
@Bbutterfly I'm usually testing with opks constantly but I just thought I really actually can't be bothered this time, which is very unlike me but it does feel good 😆 fingers crossed this is your month too.
We've gotta get some more bfps on here soon.

I'm really hoping we all get bfps within the next few months, and that those who already had them have healthy pregnancies. Fingers crossed for all!!!! I thought about not testing with the opks either but I can't help myself either. Too impatient...

Newbie needing some advice

Anyone experienced this ..

Lmp was the 13 nov

Been like clock work every 28 days this past 11 years ..
this week I have very light pink/brown spotting with light cramps on my right side only about 2 hours Monday eve and only when I wiped on Tuesday eve (tmi sorry ) , feel like someone has sucked the life out of me no energy at all to the point I'm actually crying with myself he fact of wakening up and still really tired but really bad insomnia at night 😭, runny nose , mood swings , sensitive nipples , thrush, sore teeth and gums .. feel faint but could be due to tiredness .. tested on Sunday but negative .. have a docs appointment on fri morn just wondering if anyone else has felt like this and not been pregnant ..

If I am pregnant I have obv ovulated late or maybe late implementation I'm not sure

@ArjaD that would be lovely if we all get our bfps soon I really hope so!

@beachlife321 I hope you get some answers from the doctors they should do a blood test to confirm. I have had many months of lots of symptoms before and not been pregnant but then I'd always come on the usual time so hopefully the lack of period and symptoms are a good sign for you. Fingers crossed 🤞🏻 keep us updated.

@dizzy85 hopefully, I've to bring wee with me tomorrow but I'm gonna ask for bloods as with my son it never showed up on a urine test until 8-9 weeks

@beachlife321 aw fingers crossed then if it's happened like that before then I hope it's the same for you again and just showing late. Yer definitely get bloods too. Good luck xx

Hi ladies,
Long post coming, I have no idea what's going on or what to think! Should be 5+5 going by LMP.
So New Year's Eve I passed a clot and bled for about and hour. Went to a and e on New Year's Day for a blood test and they referred me to EPU for a scan as my HCG was only 228. Had a scan yesterday, my uterus was empty. Said it could be because I'm still too early, but they want to rule out an ectopic or MC so sent me for another blood test. Had BT today, HCG levels have increased but barely, they are now 268. It's been 48 hours so they should have doubled. Just spoke to the doctor on the phone and they want me to go in again on Sunday for more bloods! This is so draining, i just want to know what's happening 😭. Anyone had a similar experience?