11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@Sungirl11 it's always good to have someone to go mental at the same time with 😂 how you feeling? I'll be about 8dpo tomorrow and I'm going to test because I cannot bare to wait any longer 😄

Hi ladies! Beginning of fertile week here so we're dtding every 36 to 48 hours, then once we have a pos opk we'll try every day till about 2dpo. Fingers crossed. Flying home on Friday, not looking fwd to the cold weather! How are we all?

@dizzy85 haha it is isn't it!! I feel the same... for some reason my hopes are quite low.. a bit of sure something is wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️
But maybe 2-3 days before af i do get my hopes up as always and then start trying to avoid testing for nothing!
Still have 10 days to go until af is due.. so loads to go crazy 🤪

@ArjaD hope the holiday brings you lots of luck. Oh it's hideous over here in England weather wise please bring the sun back with you 😆 I'm about 8dpo today tested and bfn which I expected.

@Sungirl11 my af is due in 6 days now, I did test and bfn but still early, now I've just entered the mad symptom spotting stage no matter how much I distract myself the slightest feeling in my body and I'm thinking this has to be it 😂 will you be testing early or waiting?

Hi ladies how is everyone doing? Just can't get rid of the feeling of being pregnant I know I'm not because it would be impossible after having my af and having no symptoms I think it's just my mind playing trick on me! Currently can't leave the house I have sprained my ankle and ligmaments so can't get dtd either as dh is refusing while my ankle is sore 🙄😂

@dizzy85 i will try to wait... haha i'm also going to Thailand on the 11th so that will be like -3days to af. Don't fancy going crazy at my dads haha
And if she doesn't come... it would be the best surprise and holiday ever! Haha
@NicoleR14 isn't that better! You can just do the legs up thing and he can do the job hahaha who knows? Maybe it's the key 🙃

@sungirl11 you would think so if I could get dh to dtd 😂

@NicoleR14 aw I hope your ok how rubbish. I'd say kick DH up the arse but probably not a good idea 😂 are you near ovulation?

@Sungirl11 oh I love Thailand! I'm very jealous. That would be great news whilst you were away!

@dizzy85 I'm on CD10 so I think my fertile week will start on Monday but with hurting my foot dh won't come near me he's a very clumsy person so if he touches you the wrong way and you make a noise he thinks he's hurt you so he won't come near you! So I told him he was getting bitch slapped last night 😂 how are you getting on?

Ahh @NicoleR14 I totally relate, I convinced myself my AF wasn’t a proper one and I was actually pregnant. Didn’t help that it sort of stopped on day 3 then kicked off again. Did a test though and it was negative.

I’m CD8 today, started on the clearblue fertility monitor as it says to do for my length of cycle. Blank face but as expected should start to see something in a couple of days.

In the meantime I’ve continued with the various vitamins recommended for egg quality and have told DP the regime for next week trying to SMEP as it seems to be pretty foolproof! Will be starting the dreaded TWW this time next week!

@yoomoo we did the exact same only this time af was quiet bad for me but I've still got tingly nipples and they have darkened which made me think but I've told myself it can't be it must be due to hormones we tried the smep on 2 cycles and did nothing for us so last cycle we took it easy and only dtd twice in fertile week but going to try actively trying this month!

@NicoleR14 when you did your tests last month were they def negative and no faint lines? Haha yes a good bitch slap sounds like it's needed! I'm doing ok Thankyou 9dpo today started testing yesterday and both bfn so far.

@dizzy85 a line came up straight away on my frer and had disappeared after 3 mins even after the dye had ran and dried a bit and then tested again the next day it was neg so I thought I had a faulty test but I did have full on af and really painful which I haven't had for a while lol its still early days though you could still get your bfp! Have you been using the cheapies or frer I think the frers cost far too much especially when your buying them every month if af doesn't arrive or if your crazy like me before af arrives!

Hey @yoomoo, if you’re going to Thailand are you not worried about zika as the guidelines say not to try fit 3 months if the male partner is going?

I think it is hormones tricking us @NicoleR14 not good is it! I would try not to buy anymore tests, I have one FRER and I will only use it if AF doesn’t arrive on 27th March as I’ll drive myself mad otherwise doing a test then telling myself it just hasn’t implanted yet for my period to then arrive bang on time. If we don’t manage it in March think I’m going to pay for some private fertility testing, I’m 33 so the months rolling on really concerns me.

@ttc999 not me with the trip to Thailand! Think it’s @Sungirl11

@yoomoo I agree I tested a day or 2 before af last time our hormones like to mess with our heads especially when ttc I turned 21 last Thursday and we started ttc in October 2019 I thought both of us being 20 and young we'd manage to fall quickly but it's been 6 months so I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me but many have told me it's normal to take up to 2 years even being as young as we are I do ovulate each month and have af each month it varies between 31-34 days but she does arrive so I guess it is just a matter of waiting! But I do agree I'm scared if we don't start now we will be too old to deal with babies (coming from a travelling family majority of couples tend to get pregnant young ages 15 up) so at our age we feel like we need to hurry up lol

I tested 14dpo bfn. So fed up, I’m actually a doctor so I know these things take time but still disheartening. @Sungirl11 if you’re going to Thailand are you not worried re zika as the guidelines suggest abstinence for 3 months? X

@NicoleR14 perhaps it was an evap line last time if it disappeared as with my cp the lines stayed and were still there when I threw them out a few days later. I've have used 1 frer and then brought 2 boxes of boots early ones they're buy one get one pk half price at the moment so thought I'd try them they look just like frers actually, but another bfn for me today. How's your ankle doing? Did you slap dh into shape yet?

@ttc999 oh Im really sorry for your bfn hope your ok, it is so disheartening. I had a bfn today too and it's made me lose hope a bit this morning.

Hi all ! I've been busy last few days we decided to redecorate the living room ! I'm due to ovulate tomorrow ! The I will be entering the TWW we plan to DTD everyday right up until day after ovulation if we can ! We will see !

Hope you all get your BFPS ! I'm gonna try not to test early but I doubt that will happen ! X

@ttc999 hiya! Nope, i travel all over the world for work. And my hubs joins very often. My dr never said anything about it because obviously i have risk of getting anything really... and my dad lives there with his Thai wife and in 24 years he hasn't known one single case...

@dizzy85 I think it was a bad evap as well yes I slapped him into shape we've been dtd today I had alot of ewcm around 8pm so I made it clear we had to dtd then also 😂 ankle is still killing me I thought it was getting better but had a few malibus tonight and got a bit tipsy and went over it again so I think it'll take a while for it to heal 😂 how many dpo are you now have you been checking for any implantation signs?

Hi all, got back from Spain two days ago. Been dtd on hols but got positive opk this morning so currently lying with my legs up 😂😂😂 sorry tmi! Hubby back to work on Tue for 3 weeks so we'll dtd once more tomorrow and hope we'll catch a good sticky egg 🥚. How are we all? @Bbutterfly near ovulation for you too?