11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@ArjaD did you enjoy your holiday? I'm surprised you got back without any bother especially with this virus they are supposed to be shutting down all airports they said it was the worst place to catch it! Glad your back though I'd love a holiday away somewhere nice just now 🥰

Sorry if this is a bit tmi ladies but I'm only on CD 12 and yesterday CD 11 I had alot of ewcm like I mean a lot and was there every time I wiped and serious cramps but I have a 31-34 day cycle I shouldnt be ovulating this early is my cycle there's none this morning is it just a one off or could I be ovulating early I tried to give opks a miss this month so I've none left to check 😂!

@NicoleR14 it was fab, we really had no issues at all flying. Italy is worse than Spain I think. We were good with hand washing and all that though, just to be safe! Sounds like you may be ovulating early!! Mind I sometimes get ewcm three or four days before ovulation, every month is different. I wouldn't worry, just dtd every other day if you can get hubby to!!!

@ArjaD aww that's great and good you could get loads of dtd in! You might get a wee Spain baby after all 😂! Better to be safe than sorry over here's been a nightmare with it all everyone's killing each other over toilet rolls ffs! Even down to bottle of juice they are severely stocking up for this virus but we've been told its only bad for older people who have lung diseases and heart problems but to the rest of us it'll just be like a bad flu but God knows! I hope it's just letting me know it's coming I hope I haven't missed it I'll need to drag hubby into the room like a cave man just incase 😂

Lmao I can jusr picture it 🤣 yeah it's like you say, you are ok if you don't have underlying health conditions etc. But people are being spooked by the media.

@ArjaD glad you had a lovely time! Hope you are all back relaxed now  it will help deffo!
@NicoleR14 how are you doing? Heard your hub accepted the challenge and gave it a try hahaha
@dizzy85 how are you doing?? Still crazy testing? Haha
I'm 8dpo today. I have been suuuuper tired this weekend... i have been sleeping 8h but wake up at 4ish in the morning to work so dead whole day haha

@Sungirl11 ahhh I always go crazy at 8po,testing etc 😂 can never stop myself!! How are you feeling?

@sungirl11 yep he was bitch slapped and made get in the bedroom 😂 were doing fine had loads of ewcm yesterday so getting the hubby to dtd every 2nd day until the 20th so we've covered the fertile week and a bit more lol how are you doing

@ArjaD i just feel normal haha very tired but due to work. Tomorrow last day and holidayss until the 26th yay yay for me it's still early but i will pass testing this month...
@NicoleR14 good good! Keep him working hahaha
I'm ok! Tired but will have a lot of relax on my holidays haha
Happy women's day to all girls! Let's keep up the hard work to being more of us into this beautiful world

Morning all hope everyone is good, I've just been getting one bfn after the other so I'm pretty sure that's me out now. Af is due Wednesday 🙄

@dizzy85 do you feel like af is on her way? Aw I'm sorry.. 😩 But I didn't get a bfp till the day my period was due with my son, so fingers crossed still! My opk was pos yesterday, neg today so pretty sure egg is there! One more dtd with hubby later on before he's off to work for 3 weeks. Can't do more than that.

Hi ladies me and dh was talking last night and he has decided to stop trying this month because he's quiet scared of this coronavirus and what it could possibly do to anyone pregnant if they caught it I did try to explain that it's mostly just a bad flu but he is insisting that it's not worth the risks atm, feeling really upset but can see his point has anyone else took a break for a while? I'm frightened incase we take a break from ttc and it takes even longer to have a baby!

I think the fear of Coronavirus is going too far tbh. It is like a flu epidemic, there is always the risk of catching something. But you can't force him i guess 🙁 so sorry @NicoleR14, I feel for you xxxx

@ArjaD thank you I did say this to him but because of the health problems I have he doesn't to risk anything but we've already considering putting this on hold because of other things we decided not to put our life on hold for other people but we're doing it because of this so I do feel upset but maybe it is for the best god knows lol I think I'm currently in my fertile week which is making me worse 😩

Aw you need to do what feels right for you @NicoleR14, things will work out. You'll not run out of time, you're still so young 😊

@ArjaD I'm not sure about that I feel about 90 😂 yeah it'll work out its maybe best we take a wee break this month maybe it will help with the stress of ttc!

@NicoleR14 sorry to hear that but I guess you've both got to do what's best for you .

I did consider this myself as although I'm not the sky is falling type of person this virus does worry me as we just don't know how it will affect people .

I'm still hoping for a BFP this month but I'm not feeling so stressed about it now I've resigned myself to the fact it will happen when it's meant to and stressing and getting upset about it and obsessing bout it isn't helping !

I am starting the TWW which I dread xxx

@Donnat89 same! Ovulation today so the tww commences. Hate it
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@ArjaD I cannot stand it I plan on keeping busy and praying work is busy too ! I'm usually ok for the first week but hate hate the second week !

Hey ladies, I've just caught up. @ArjaD so glad you enjoyed your holiday. The dreaded tww! You have done what you can! That's the main thing.
@NicoleR14 don't worry, you have so much time and yes do what's best for you both. It will happen when it's meant to. I understand why you are upset. Hope you can try and relax and not stress about ttc. @Donnat89 most of us are the same second week is a killer, I have the same thoughts it will happen when it happens yet I still do go over the top with stressing out haha. Xx

@NicoleR14 i'm sure it's all for good, who knows, maybe a detox works and you give us a surprise! 
@Bbutterfly i'm 9dpo today too... don't feel absolutely anything different so i'm quite calm. I believe going on holis helps me be more excited about that and less focused haha hope it continues like thisss

Thanks ladies we spoke about it some more and done some Googling lol according to most studies it shows its no more a risk to pregnant women than it is to the rest of us it may affect you bad in later stages of pregnancy but not in the first few months so I have showed dh and convinced him into continuing to ttc even though he's concerned about it its extremely worrying but we shouldn't need to put our life's on hold for this silly virus everyone's going a bit mad over it!

@ArjaD I have had some random bits of spotting but I don't really feel that periody at the moment. Did you test before with your son and get bfns before your bfp or just waited until the day af due to test? If that makes sense😄 I had a bfn again today so I do think I must be out, due tomorrow.
I hope it's a lucky month for you this month 🤞🏻

Hope everyone is doing good x

Hey @dizzy85 you're not out yet, I remember @ArjaD said to me with her boy she had no symptoms at all she didn't think she was pregnant but I'm not sure if testing was early? My fingers are crossed for you still hope af stays away xx