11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@ttc999 ah getting close for you then, I'm 3/4 DPO now. Will you test early or try wait it out? I'm usually ok till about 7/8 DPO that's when the obsessing starts for me.

@ArjaD I'm sooo jealous of your sunbathing 😎🌞😆 I need to book a holiday!

I'm telling you right now though, ladies. Not much sunbathing or all that when the wee one arrives! Naptimes are the only time to yourself you will get 😂

Hey ladies happy Sunday, @ArjaD hope you're having a great time so jealous. @dizzy85 how's the wait going? Give it another couple of days and you'll start going mental again haha. Do you think you'll test early? Or you going to try hold out.
Hoping lots of ya get our bfps this month! @NicoleR14 how are you? xx

@Bbutterfly morning, it's going ok so far I'm about 4 or 5 DPO so the madness hasn't quite started but I can feel it creeping in 😂 I will be testing early this month just incase I had another cp I'd like to know so can tell dr. How are you getting on?

Hey, I’m feeling okay, for some reason this time I’m not even like feeling like I want my testing day yet... it’s weird... Oh sorry you had a chemical @dizzy85, have you been trying for long?

@ttc999 when is testing day for you? I think I'll start to test Thursday or Friday. Hopefully you get your bfp this month. Thankyou, I've been trying quite a while, the year before last we tried for 4 months casually, then had a break and then last year after 6 months I got pregnant but lost it at 3 months then had another break now I think I'm on cycle 5 of trying this time round but had a CP last cycle. Hopefully some good news is on the way. How about you?

Oh I’m sorry, hopefully this month though!! We’ve been casually trying for 1 year, but to be honest with my pcos my cycles we’re all over the place so nothing was timed. Started clomid 4 months ago so cycle 4 at the moment...

Happy Monday ladies !

How are you all doing ? I'm in my fertile week now with ovulation predicted Sunday so lots of baby dancing this week , I really don't want this week to go too quick as the. Il be back in THE dreaded TWW !

like most of you I'm fine for the first week following ovulation but that second week kills me every time !

Lots of baby dust to you all xxxx

Glad to hear everyone is doing well! @dizzy85 I agree your best testing early to make sure you don't have another cp! I'm doing well I'm on CD6 predicted o is 13th but we're going to try dtd every 2nd day or so throughout the month to make sure we cover it all and do as much as we can how are you doing?

@NicoleR14 our plan is the same
As yours every second day up until day before ovulation then try everyday day of ovulation and day after hoping we
Manage is this month xxx

@donnat89 my fingers is crossed for you's hope we have some bfp this month I'm sick of seeing all these negative tests!

@NicoleR14 same to you and yes me too I want to see a BFP this month pleaseee ! I'm
Keeping positive I feel good about this month ! X

Aww fingers tightly crossed... I have a fertility f/u today, I’m going to discuss if I can Start letrozole or metformin with the consultant...

@donnat89 Me too this is our 4th cycle of trying but we've been trying for around 5/6 months now so I'm going to buy some pree seed and see how that goes!

I have that stuff already and I can't say I like it you only need a small amount of it ! It hasn't done anything for us but may work for you xxx

@ttc999 hopefully they do something to help! Fingers crossed for you! @donnat89 I've herd good things about it but I don't want to fork out loads for it if it doesn't do much good either x

@ttc999 how many DPO are you now? How are you feeling?

@NicoleR14 good idea to try do it every other day, are you gonna use opks? I was doing ok until last night I wiped and had a random bit of light blood I usually get pre af spotting that starts around cd24 ish and last night was cd19 so my heads thinking could it be implantation or just the spotting starting early...and so now the madness has begun 🤪😂

Hey I’m still feeling like I’m not fussed about checking I dunno what’s going on...

Oo that sounds like ? Bleeding due to trophoblast implanting? Fingers tightly crossed

@ttc999 aw I hope you get your bfp soon. I'm hoping that's what it is but won't get my hopes up just yet as could just be anything, I'm gonna test at the end of the week

Hi all, can I join please?
Just finishing my final day of brown spotting (TMI) so AF is nearly over and done with. Bloody hell its been painful, either I’ve totally misremembered after years of being on birth control or the hormones have made it worse! Came off the pill mid December, we were loosely trying but not properly as didn’t really know how long my cycle was etc to be able to track ovulation. Think I ovulated around 13th last month and going by that we bloody missed it the good thing is I know I have a 28 day cycle so should make things easier to track.
Anyway I’ve got a few apps and they are predicting 13th ovulation so I’ve been preparing myself with this lot this is the first month where I’ve persuaded DP to take it seriously. He’s very chilled and it will happen when it happens mentality, me not so much! I’ve downloaded the SMEP book and think we’re going to try that along with all the other shit I’ve spent a fortune on 😂

@yoomoo hey welcome to the group, wow looks like your nice and prepared hopefully it leads to a bfp for you, I've heard good things about the coq10 I actually always forget to try it. I'm currently in the delightful tww 😂

Thank you @dizzy85! I realised the other day that this is our last chance at having a baby in 2020 so I’ve just decided to throw everything at it currently reading SMEP and marking the dates that we need to get in it. My DP works shifts which is going to make things tricky but I’m determined to try properly this month!
COQ10 is meant to improve fertilisation rates but we will see! The DHA improves egg quality, figured I’d try both.
Really couldn’t get on with the cheapie OPKs so throwing money at the problem with the clearblue one, hoping it gives clearer answers.
How far into your TWW are you?

@yoomoo oh yer I didn't think of that being the last time for a 2020 baby. There's no harm in trying these things you never know, I will definitely up my game next month if it comes to it, the only thing I did any different this month is the classic legs in the air after dtd a few times😂🤷‍♀️ ive read some stuff about SMEP too it's meant to be good. I'm currently about 6dpo atm getting there!

@dizzy85 i'm 3dpo (according to the app as i didn't test it). So not far from you... we will be sort of going mental at same time haha
Hope it is implantation 👀🔝
@yoomoo wow you look well prepared! Haha i didn't even know what all that is!! I just take pregnacare which the GP recommended for the acid folic.