11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@NicoleR14 I've had this before it's soo annoying I now refuse to look at them until the full 3'mins or whatever have passed as sometimes you will see a second line as the test starts to work and then it just goes xxxx

@donnat89 I've seen that on other threads I thought the line would of stayed white but after 3 mins it had some pink to it but it's barely noticeable I'll test again in the morning but I think it'll be af soon enough and I'm just torturing myself

Hey girls, just caught up. Hey @Donnat89
Welcome to the group.
So I've had some spotting today so know af will come tomorrow bang on the day app said she's due. sad since I literally couldn't have done more. We've all been there.
@NicoleR14 wait till tomorrow everything is crossed for you you're not out yet. I can't see a line on the last ones but I would wait till tomorrow. Hope everyone is ok, @ArjaD just what you need a nice holiday to de stress xx

After looking at the test again there's nothing there if I was there would of been a line I'm being silly thinking we've done it this month it feels like it's never going to happen.

My cramps are back this evening and they are strong AF witch must be on her way ..... 😟

@NicoleR14 I know how you feel so big hugs . Remember though you are not out until AF arrives xxxx

@NicoleR14 I feel like I can see something faintly on the first pictures of the frer, I really hope it turns into a bfp. Your not out yet though so try to stay positive I know it's hard❤️ xx

@Bbutterfly oh no I really hope she stays away xx

@dizzy85 @donnat89 it is hard I've kept hold of the test and keep looking at it the line that was there well over 5 mins is now gone so I think I've had a dodgy batch my boobs are so sore and veiny and I've had a good cry about it and now I'm willing to accept it and move on ❤️xx

Hey @NicoleR14 I'm feeling the same as you. Hope you are ok. I did think the same I couldn't have done more this month you know. Everything will work out in the end. Just so stressful right now xxx

@Bbutterfly it's so true you feel like you do everything you can and it never feels good enough and you can't help but think what is wrong with me I guess it's just not our time yet I wish it was easier to just get on with it but it just hurts and all I can see on social media is people announcing their pregnancies and gender reveals it makes it so much worse xx

Aw keep your chins up ladies, it's not over till af shows her face. Some people don't get a bfp till af is well late. So don't despair xxx

Hi girls! I've been reading you all. We have to stay positive! It will happen, some day, but it will!
I read that some eggs choose the sperm they want, we have to think we have posh eggs that don't take the first lad that comes around! they are waiting for THE ONE which will be our beloved baby. ♥️
For the ones still in chance i have all my thoughts on you!! For the ones starting a new chance cmon' girls! Get those hubbys thin!
And the ones that are going on holiday... i'm jealous! Can't wait for my holidays which i much need haha

@NicoleR14 @Bbutterfly @Donnat89 good luck for you all today have everything crossed the witch stays away and you get your bfps.

@Sungirl11 that's a good way to look at it our fussy posh eggs lol

@ArjaD I'm definitely jealous of your holiday sun sea and sangria sounds perfect right now 😎

AF came right on time
For me this morning . I am gutted but was expecting it . On to next month !

Congrats all you that got your BFPS , fingers crossed for all those still waiting xxxx

Af hasn't arrived yet 🤞🏼 but negative frer this morning so I'm deffo out I think she'll arrive later or tomorrow both tests completely white not even a hint of a line!

@donnat89 sorry to hear af came for you! We just need to keep trying we will get our bfps soon x

Aw sorry to hear ladies. Oh well, drinks tonight then!

@NicoleR14 thanks hun as silly as it sounds I'm relived , I knew she was coming was dreading her coming late and throwing my cycles off which have been bang on for 3 months now !

I'm gonna try some different vitamins this month to see how I get on ! X

@NicoleR14 aw I'm sorry it was a bfn hope your ok xx

@Donnat89 sorry af came for you hope your ok too xx

@dizzy85 thanks hun , I am a gutted of course but I am ok .

I'm back on the TTC bus now and planning and getting ready for next month .

Xxx

@donnat89 she hasn't arrived yet and I've been sick all day I'm wondering if I have a bug and it's delaying her I've got a feeling she's on the way though @dizzy85 thanks hun i just wish af would come now to get it over with and try again!

@Donnat89 @NicoleR14 I totally understand, it just gets to that point after all the waiting you just want it to be there if it's not gonna be a bfp.

@dizzy85 it's true once you get that bfn all you want is for af to arrive so you can get on with it again still no sign of her yet having the odd twinge still got veiny boobs and ewcm now like full on so wondering she may be on her way soon 🤔

@NicoleR14 do you normally get ewcm before af?

@Bbutterfly how are you getting on?