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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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Bbutterfly · 25/02/2020 17:34

Hey @dizzy85 af came full force this afternoon. As expected after the spotting I tend to get. So depressing. But ready to try again this month. How you getting on you still not doing opks? Xx

NicoleR14 · 25/02/2020 17:35

@dizzy85 no not usually I did get white cm last time the night before but I've been getting white cm since 9dpo and today I got ewcm when wiping

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ArjaD · 25/02/2020 17:59

Aw sorry she showed up @Bbutterfly. Maybe we'll all get lucky next month!!!

ttc999 · 25/02/2020 18:09

Hi guys, I’m new here I’m on clomid cycle 4. No ovulation first cycle, ovulated second cycle but no bfp, no ovulation third cycle. I think this cycle I ovulated as I got a static smiley on clear blue ovulation test on 22nd. Husband and I tried on Wednesday 19th, Friday 21st, sun 23rd and Monday 24th. Do we still need to keep trying this cycle? I’m getting a bit tired of bfns

Bbutterfly · 25/02/2020 18:38

Yes @ArjaD you ready for holiday yet? Hopefully this time we will be lucky. I don't know what else to do differently this time round xxx

Bbutterfly · 25/02/2020 18:41

Hey @ttc999 I think you've done really well. If you want one more go tonight for luck then it can't hurt haha. But I think you've already ovulated by now since you had static smiley on 22nd! I really hope the tww goes quick for you and you get your bfp! X

ArjaD · 25/02/2020 19:17

@ttc999 sounds like you've done great! Not sure you can do any more xxx good luck! @Bbutterfly not even packed yet, but flying on Thursday. Thankfully the wee guy is at nursery tomorrow so that will give me time to get organised! How are you doing, you OK?

Bbutterfly · 25/02/2020 19:50

Yeah you still have time @ArjaD so jealous!
I'm sad but ok, just all that trying you know. Feel so deflated.
Nice to have you girls we have all been there. Back in the game. What date you ovulating? X

ttc999 · 25/02/2020 20:27

Thanks for your reply, yeah always stressful xx

ArjaD · 25/02/2020 20:34

@Bbutterfly should be ovulating around the 9th. Back from Spain on the 6th so should already be in the fertile week in Spain! You?

ttc999 · 25/02/2020 20:35

I’ve tried everything that I know has no evidence this time- conceive plus, legs in the air etc. Blush @ArjaD have a lovely holiday x

ArjaD · 25/02/2020 20:52

@ttc999 aw thanks xx it's stressful. I think luck is what we need eh 😕

Donnat89 · 25/02/2020 23:31

I'm ovulating around the 8th this cycle . So let's hope for good news this month xxx

Sungirl11 · 25/02/2020 23:32

Night girls! Have read some af has shown around Sad
Well, big hugs and start all over again with the same desire as always.
According to my app i've just started my fertile week, so will see, can't be bothered in controlling this time, just will let it flow.
Jel about those holidays in Spain, that is where i'm from tbh! Haha love the food Wine
Welcome to the new ones! I am quite new here too. But together this sounds easier to me. And when the first one gets pregnant it will be a positive push fo all! Grin

dizzy85 · 26/02/2020 09:52

@Bbutterfly oh I'm sorry af came hope your ok it is bloody depressing. I'm doing ok Thankyou predicted ovulation day today I did end up doing one opk on Monday and it was darkish but not positive then I thought I'd do one yesterday and it was even lighter so I'm guessing I had a peak somewhere in between.

dizzy85 · 26/02/2020 09:54

@NicoleR14 how are you doing? Any more cm or signs of af?

dizzy85 · 26/02/2020 09:56

@ttc999 welcome, wishing you luck. We are around similar times in our cycle I think. I did the legs in the air thing this cycle aswell 😂

NicoleR14 · 26/02/2020 12:00

@dizzy85 af arrived this morning so it didn't wait to long to make an appearance on to cycle 4! I'm not even overly disappointed I knew yesterday with my bfn and nightmares she was on her way lol how are you doing?

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Donnat89 · 26/02/2020 12:11

@NicoleR14 sorry AF arrived , I'm on cycle 11 now . I get what you mean by not overly disappointed but it is still disheartening! Me and OH are gonna try some new supplements this month and see if that helps . And just keep hoping that this month is our month . I'm due to ovulate around the 8th so a while yet xxx

dizzy85 · 26/02/2020 12:48

@NicoleR14 oh I'm sorry to hear that hope your ok. I'm on ovulation day I think so I'll just count tomorrow as 1dpo and go from there.

ttc999 · 26/02/2020 13:50

Thanks @dizzy85! You too... Fingers crossed eh... sorry that af arrived, it’s always upsetting. Although sometimes I feel more upset when it doesn’t arrive as I get my hopes up! The clear blue ovulation tests are quite good as they identify your fertile days beforehand, so you can be ready for ovulation...

dizzy85 · 26/02/2020 15:08

Well I just decided to do another random opk and I got a strong positive it's funny coz Monday it was medium colour line then yesterday really faint so I thought I'd had the peak already but looks like anytime now, more dtd tonight it is then😆 I'm quite glad I did the opk now as I was concerned I'd have a messed up cycle after the CP but so far seems normal.

ArjaD · 26/02/2020 15:28

Good luck girls! @Nmew How's the pregnancy? How far along now? ❤️❤️

Nmew · 26/02/2020 15:36

Hi @ArjaD I’m doing ok, lots of nausea, appetite has disappeared and always tired lol but grateful all the same that everything is fine so far! I had an early scan and all was well. Currently at 8+4.

Sorry to hear of the bfn and the witch returning for you ladies. Fingers crossed this cycle has some baby dust floating around for you all! I’m a little quiet in the chat but I keep an eye in hopes I hear of some lovely bfp soon!

Bbutterfly · 26/02/2020 16:15

@Nmew that's lovely and has gone so quick! I hope the nausea wears off for you soon. Hopefully we will all be joining you soon with our bfp!
@dizzy85 you've definitely caught it then! Go get busy 😂 @NicoleR14 sorry you're af turned up, I'm already waiting for ovulation day lol only on cd2. Here we go again xxx

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