11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@dizzy85 I feel like my boobs have doubled in size over night they feel huge! I did last time but I got alot of cm the night before af arrived I've had this since 7dpo now so I'm hoping it's a good sign the cramps have calmed down again af due on the 25th but I think I'll wait until the 28th/29th to test if she doesn't arrive to make sure she's actually late! How are you feeling?

@dizzy85 I actually don't get much cm, I duno if that my be my problem uno. @NicoleR14 I'm thinking af is on its way too, I think she might even come before Tuesday 😩 x

@Bbutterfly I've been feeling like this too but she hasn't made an appearance yet! I hope she stays away for us both 🤞🏼

@NicoleR14 @Bbutterfly I don't know how you two haven't tested yet you've got some willpower. I only usually get more cm around ovulation. But I've read some people do get more cm before bfp but then some don't. I've got it all crossed for you both, except for my legs lol as I think I'm ovulating soon 😆 I'm doing ok just trying to get as many dtd sessions in as we can.

@dizzy85 😂definitely don't cross those! I'm doing better than I thought I almost caved yesterday but I've resisted! I've never had cm at all a tiny bit when ovulating and mostly white on my underwear but only now and again but it's barely noticeable when wiping but my underwear is soaking so I don't know if it's a good sign or not yet! When is your predicted ovulation?

@NicoleR14 it sounds really promising for you I really hope it is. I think in the next couple of days one app says 1 day and the other says 2 days. I've started getting more cm but no ovulation pains yet.

@dizzy85 hopefully it's soon for you 🤞🏼 13dpo and still haven't tested af due tomorrow but I hope she stays away and this is it for us!

You are all doing fab not testing, I could never resist lol. Keep us posted. Hoping for bfps for you all xxx

@NicoleR14 I'm excited for you testing 🤞🏻

@ArjaD it's been really hard 😂how are you doing? @dizzy85 I'm scared to get excited just incase there's no signs of her arrive just the sore boobs I've been peeing alot more as well it actually woke me up last night needing to go!

Hi ladies ?

Can I join so my AF is due tomorrow , I tested at 11DPO and got a BFN so thinking I'm out

However the cramps and back aches I had and usually have before AF have stopped pretty much for the last 3 days so I'm hoping is a positive sign as usually by now they are worse ?

I'm refusing to test unless AF doesn't arrive tomorrow .

Hoping you all get your BFPS XXX

@donnat89 welcome! I had that I don't usually get cramps before af but I have had cramps the last few days on and off and they stopped last night I still feel like af is coming though I agree with you I'm waiting until af is late before testing even though its so hard to resist but you can have implantation for 3 days and you can implant from 6dpo to 12dpo which I didn't know!

@NicoleR14 yes I recently learnt that too I always thought it happened earlier than that and takes less than a day so I was very wrong .

I do get cramps and back ache before AF usually is mild for up to a week before then gets worse the day before and goes when AF arrives has always been the same .

The symptoms seem to have gone completely so unsure what to make of it at the moment . So like
You I am just gonna wait and see ! Xxxx

@donnat89 it's maybe a good sign if they've disappeared will you be testing tomorrow morning or wait until she's late?

@NicoleR14 I would like to wait until she's late but will see how I feel in the morning .

I hope AF just comes right on time if she is going to come nothing worse than being late!

Cramps have come back mildly this afternoon and have had headache pretty much all day . So almost certain AF will arrive this month xxxx

@Donnat89 join the club! Aw hope it's good news for you though xx I'm out till next month 😔

@ArjaD thanks hun , sorry you are out but least you can move on to next month and are not stuck in this what seems like endless limbo .

I just want to know now ! Xxxx

Nothing worse than the tww eh!!! Away on holiday on Thurs, hopefully some de-stressing will help!

@ArjaD it's awful ! A holiday sounds wonderful and will be just what you need ! Xx

@NicoleR14 yer I understand that. How long are you gonna wait for if she doesn't show?

@Donnat89 welcome, good luck for when you test hope you get your bfp 🤞🏻

So I caved.. Please tell me im kidding myself and there's not a line on these tests I feel like I'm going crazy!

@NicoleR14 I think I can see a faint one on the FRER . But I'm not certain I can't see anything on the other one .

I would test again in the morning xxx

I'm deffo going crazy wouldn't the line be darker for 13dpo I only held it in for 2 hours!

@NicoleR14 I can't see anything on the ones you've just posted . These look negative to me I'm sorry hun . However someone else might be able to see something as I'm not the best at these xxxx

When the dye first started to run the line went white and then a slight touch of pink but I think its just a dodgy test I've got!