11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

It's ok. A bit sad when it came as it surprised me with the discharge from day 20cicle and day 24 bang there she was! Never had such a short cycle. But a bit better now looking forward to the next disappointment while all my friends get pregnant hahahah

@Bbutterfly I am due af on the 25th so 6 days away last month my cycle went from 34 days to 31 so I'm thinking it'll be the 31 days this one too but who knows! I think she's coming early but I'm hoping it's implantation cramps tbh🤞🏼

@Sungirl11 haha I know The feeling. We had a dinner party for my friends birthday Saturday and she announced she's pregnant. @NicoleR14 I'm due 25th too so I hope she doesn't come for the both of us!! X

@Bbutterfly hopefully she doesn't! When do you plan on testing?

Well af arrived nice and early this morning. Joy oh joy. At least i will be able to have some cocktails on holiday.... Fingers crossed for those of you still in the tww xxx 🤞🤞🤞

@NicoleR14 I really hope they're implantation cramps for you. Are you gonna wait to test? I've been really all over the place this last week emotionally up and down headaches feeling sick and tired and no appetite I had enough today and spoke to the dr and he said it's most likely my hormones trying to settle from the cp and if no change in 3-5days go in for a blood test to check nothing else is going on😭 can't wait to feel normal again. But still starting to dtd ovulation predicted in 6dsys.
@Bbutterfly hopefully the lack of symptoms is a good sign🤞🏻 good idea to hold out as long as possible. I'm not gonna bother with opks this month I can't be bothered I'm just gonna try to enjoy dtd again and try to do it as much as possible when I feel like it and see what happens.
@ArjaD sorry your af came, at least you got a lovely holiday to look forward to and hopefully make baby Alicante 😆

@dizzy85 I hope it is too! I'm 9dpo today and it feels like forever I just want to know! But I'm wondering if it's possibly a urine infection and I'm getting my hopes up for nothing pain in my breasts started today so I'm thinking af is deffo on the way but it started alot later than usual I usually have sore boobs from before ovulation but I haven't gotten them till today 5 days till af due! I hope the gp does something about it its horrible especially when it's all you want me and my dh was talking about it earlier and it's the first time I've seen him get so emotional over it when it's something you depserately want and can't have yet it hurts!

@NicoleR14 just try to stay positive if you can, I've got everything crossed for you. It is such an emotional time I sometimes think it's just me going through the hard times but when I speak to my OH he says he just has to try to put it out of his mind coz if he thinks too much about it like how long it's taking etc he gets really stressed and upset so it is nice to see they care as much as we do isn't it. We will all get there eventually. I really do hope this is your month.

@dizzy85 ur right! I believe it's harder for us because we are the one who really feel the carrying it, but they too are excited about it and ofc suffer in silence. I cry to my hub sometimes and he does say he wants a baby too, and i do feel him.
We will get there! I have spoken to a lady from Jersey and i'm going to try a natural detox ritual, with some natural oils. Try to relax and cleanse my body from stress and daily impurity. I'm not into herbs or anything but i do think i need a bit of detox. Specially mind detox. Haha
Holidays always come in good, so baby Alicante sounds about right to me haha 😊 good luck!!!

I need some help being talked out of getting a test 😂!

@Sungirl11 yer the men are just better at hiding their emotions I think, I think they kind of have to be to balance out us when we are all emotional and hormonal 😂
I feel you on the mind detox, I've had so much stress in life recently I'm not surprised I'm not having luck with ttc. What does this detox involve?

@NicoleR14 oooh how many DPO are you? I'd say step away from the tests and wait as long as you can. But then I know how hard it is.

Hey girls, happy Friday.
I would like to know about the detox too @Sungirl11
Everyone ok? I have noticed Ive been my irritated snappy self which always happens a few days before af I can quickly get irritated and I have no patience, that's a sign she is coming and I tried so hard this month. I know I'm not out yet but I'm feeling the pressure of it all, as we all are. @NicoleR14 how you feeling? X

Omg i totally missed the below @NicoleR14 haha now I know how you're doing! Wait at least till tomorrow or even Sunday if you can hold out!

@dizzy85 I'm 10dpo I'm so tempted as the cramps has calmed down but my sore boobs are back they do feel heavier than usual but I thought that before and it was a bfn! @Bbutterfly I'm trying my best to keep holding off until the 25th! Feeling the urge to poas is getting ridiculous 😂

@NicoleR14 @dizzy85 i have to speak to the lady and will let you know. It's a bit of diet and some relaxing oils to use before bed (wrist rubbing, in baths etc) she is a recommendation of a friend who uses the oils. I also fly a lot so tips to eliminate radiation from my body.
When i get the info i will let you girls know. Her name is Mamma Jones if you want to have a look on facebook.

Wellness with Mamma Jones *

@NicoleR14 morning, did you decide about testing? Got absolutely everything crossed for you.

@Sungirl11 morning, thankyou I will have a look into her too. I definitely need to make some changes to combat stress etc. I've made small changes to my diet and managed to lose half a stone in 3 weeks, but also looking at ways to calm my mind too, I'm gonna try swimming tomorrow see if that helps aswell.

@Bbutterfly how are you getting on?
@ArjaD hope your doing ok

@dizzy85 not yet I'm scared to test incase it's a bfn! My boobs are crazy sore like can't move with them sore and I've got a sharp pain coming from my belly button down I'm on cd28 today and should be 11dpo but I think I'll just need to wait to see if af will arrive! How are you getting on?

Doing ok, just worried aout the river here, it has burst its banks and coming ever closer! Not worrying about dtd for a bit till af has buggered off 😂

@NicoleR14 ooh sounds like good signs, I'm excited for when you test. When is af due?
I'm actually feeling good today the first time I've woke up feeling back to myself again, I'm guessing my hormones have settled back down coz the last few weeks were horrendous. I'm cd10 now already started dtd the only thing I'm really doing is just logging when we dtd just incase, no opks this month. I do understand the pain of testing early and it is upsetting but for me personally now I've changed my mind and will start testing from 10dpo only because I've had the mmc and then cp and they've both been logged at the drs now so if I do have another they investigate after the 3rd so now I'm gonna do it just to check if that makes sense.

@ArjaD omg how scary is that! What a worry, hopefully they can stop it getting even closer? This weathers been a nightmare lately luckily where I live hasn't been too bad but I've seen terrible floods and stuff on the news it's scary.

@dizzy85 I think I'll get a first response and some strip tests today while I'm out getting birthday cards I'll do the frer later if I hold it long enough I can't wait any longer I need to poas! I can almost guarantee its a bfn though so not trying to get my hopes up 🙄 it's good your feeling better now I would deffo be checking early if I was you too after having those surely the gp should take some more tests now knowing you've had 3 happen now?

@NicoleR14 oooh I'm excited for you🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 really hope it's bfp. If it isn't yet though still keep positive as it is early and there's still plenty of time.
It's only been 2 for me so if it happens again at least I know they'll look into it but hopefully that's it now.

Afternoon everyone, hope all is ok. I've resisted testing but have convinced myself af on the way lol. @NicoleR14 yours sounds promising I hope you get your bfp! @dizzy85 that's really good you're not doing opks and glad both have been logged for you. Let's hope this month is your month! @ArjaD I hope it doesn't get any closer, and you can go on holiday without the worry!! Xxx

I think af is arriving early I'm cramping bad now and I've had to put on a pad because of the cm! It feels like I'm peeing myself so I think af may be on the way haven't bought a test and don't see a point in it! 😭

@Bbutterfly @NicoleR14 how you both doing today? When is afs due?
Do you usually get more cm before af @NicoleR14