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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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Sungirl11 · 17/02/2020 21:44

@NicoleR14 OMG it's amazing! You are a star!

dizzy85 · 17/02/2020 22:00

@Bbutterfly I'm doing ok Thankyou, I'm still not sure if I'm gonna do opks this month yet. Ooh 7dpo for you..getting close, are you gonna test early or wait?

@NicoleR14 oh wow that dress is amazing! Definitely show us pics when it's finished.

@ArjaD hope you get a bfp soon 🤞🏻

ArjaD · 18/02/2020 13:17

Well ladies, 11 dpo and used a Sainsbury's blue dye test this morning. Odd thin, faint line came up within the time frame, but now I'm reading all these comments online about how awful these specific tests are for false readings. Especially the slightly off centre lines like the one I got! Heading out to get FRER, I'm defo not getting my hopes up since we only dtd 1 day past ov and that was it. I think some tests are just designed to make you insane...

NicoleR14 · 18/02/2020 14:15

Thanks ladies! How is everyone feeling today? @ArjaD ahh you need to show us as soon as you do it I've got my fingers crossed for you i hope it's a bfp!!

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Bbutterfly · 18/02/2020 14:53

Yes this is the problem with testing early @ArjaD if you see no lines you keep testing and if you see a tiny faint one you drive yourself mad and keep testing anyway. I have heard those tests are buggers but like I said before you never know, you told me the same when I only dtd once too! Everything is crossed for you. Let us know how you get on with the frer ♥️ x @dizzy85 I think I'm going to wait and see if af comes first (if I can!) otherwise I will be in the same boat at @ArjaD again lol x

ArjaD · 18/02/2020 15:47

Well bfn on a FRER. Sod's law I get one of those evap tests eh 🙄

Bbutterfly · 18/02/2020 16:01

🙄 so annoying. You still have time @ArjaD x

ArjaD · 18/02/2020 18:22

@Bbutterfly af due in 2 days. Getting the usual cramping so I'm sort of accepting it all. Next month in Spain may be our lucky month 😂😂😂

NicoleR14 · 18/02/2020 18:57

@ArjaD ahh maybe wait till morning and do another just to be on the safe side? I'd love another holiday I hate this weather I'd love to be back in the gran canaria 😍

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ArjaD · 18/02/2020 19:36

@NicoleR14 yeah I will do. Better be sure... How are you feeling?

Bbutterfly · 18/02/2020 21:05

Haha maybe baby Alicante is fate @ArjaD 😂 at least being on holiday will make it less stressful. Xx

ArjaD · 18/02/2020 21:09

@Bbutterfly not too sure about that with a toddler to entertain and getting him used to sleeping in a strange bed etc 😂😂😂

NicoleR14 · 18/02/2020 21:39

@ArjaD having sever cramps like af but not due for another week 10 days I've been checking my underwear but no signs of implantation or af! How are you feeling

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ArjaD · 18/02/2020 22:12

@NicoleR14 aw wonder what may be causing that 🤔 I'm crampy too but af due in 2 days so no surprise.

NicoleR14 · 18/02/2020 22:52

@ArjaD I was very emotional on Sunday the cramps have been very af type and very sore I'm wondering if af could be early this month but my boobs haven't been sore in the slightest! I'm on cd24 it's far too early for af but God knows lol I hope that witch doesn't make an appearance for you I'm sick of her now I just want my bfp🙄😂

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ArjaD · 19/02/2020 09:04

Same here! Bfps for all, I say 🤣🤣

Sungirl11 · 19/02/2020 09:28

Good luck to all of you! Hope you get all super good news! 🤞🏼🤞🏼
For me in the end it has been af at day 24 of my cycle, it has played me up this month. But it is what it is!
Next month new chance 🔝

ArjaD · 19/02/2020 11:15

@Sungirl11 aw not to worry, we've all been there and your time will come!!!! 👍👍👍 Have a wee drink tonight!

Bbutterfly · 19/02/2020 12:49

Ohhh @Sungirl11 sorry af turned up. We are all sick of her trust me. Yes next month fingers crossed ♥️ xx

NicoleR14 · 19/02/2020 18:38

@sungirl11 sorry to hear af arrived! I feel like she's on the way I'm getting quiet bad cramping on my right side and back I'm on CD 25 its far to early for her to show! How's everyone doing? @ArjaD did you test again?

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dizzy85 · 19/02/2020 19:34

@Bbutterfly have you managed to hold out testing?
@ArjaD sorry you had an evap they really need to stop that from happening it's such a headf**k!!
@Sungirl11 really sorry your af arrived hope your ok.
@NicoleR14 how many DPO are you now? I hope the cramps are bfp related 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

ArjaD · 19/02/2020 19:38

@NicoleR14 no, haven't done one since my negative FRER yesterday. Af due tomorrow but I'm cramping so she may be here tonight. Ugh. Guess that's me out!

NicoleR14 · 19/02/2020 19:40

@dizzy85 I am 8dpo today I've been checking for cm and bleeding but nothing yet I've had the odd white discharge but nothing major so I'm thinking it's just af on the way but my nipples have changed colour which are making me think twice! How are You getting on? X

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NicoleR14 · 19/02/2020 19:42

@ArjaD we only dtd twice this month on ovulation week but that was it no more so I think I'm deffo there with you the witch is on the way!

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Bbutterfly · 19/02/2020 19:53

@dizzy85 Im 9dpo today I haven't tested, I'm holding out to the weekend at least and I'll see how I feel. Really don't wana drive myself mad but I'm feeling the same as I do every month which makes me feel like nothings happening and af will turn up again. Have you started opks? Or did you manage to hold out doing them? @NicoleR14 when's your af due? I think We are near eachother. My 32/33 day cycles just feels like forever 😩 @ArjaD don't worry if she comes tonight tomorrow just think of the lovely holiday you have coming up xxxx

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