11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@ArjaD we've all been there 😂. How you feeling? Problem is now you'll want to keep testing x

Hi girls! I have been reading for a few days around here haha.
I’m on the same boat, 12DPO and BFN on a first response. But have been having a brown discharge for 5 days that has me very confused
Anyone gone through something similar?
Thank you

@Bbutterfly i feel OK, i guess I know the chances are small. Will prob test every day now till af though 😂 how are you feeling?
@Sungirl11 I must say I never had that issue. I never even get spotting before af or nothing... Didn't with my first pregnancy either 🤔

@sungirl11 I've never had that I don't spot before af on the day of af but never before if its brown maybe implantation and you've calculated your ovulation days wrong I'd maybe wait a few days and test just to rule out being pregnant! @ArjaD have you tested yet I know I wouldn't be able to stop myself I'm 5dpo today and I keep checking to see if I'll have any implantation bleeding I doubt I will I know I'm out this month before I even test lol x

@NicoleR14 yeah I stupidly tested today... Bfn. What was I expecting 🙄

@NicoleR14 @ArjaD thanks for your responses. I'm just worried that something is not right as my last period lasted only 2 days. Which is all very weird on me as i have never had issues, always had 27/28days with 4/5day periods so all normal. And now that we are TTC it's all messed up!
Have you been trying for long? We started in April just before our wedding and no luck... first child for both and we are almost 32 and 36 my hubby. Xx

@ArjaD still really early though it only takes once! That one lucky sperm 😂I'm extremely emotional today the last time I was this emotional af was ready to appear but I'm only on CD22 my cycles last 31 days! No sore boobs or anything just extremely emotional I think I've cried 4 times already today! @sungirl11 we've been trying since October I had the implant in my arm I didn't get my first period until 23rd of November this is our first child me and my hubby is 20 lol I thought it would be so much more easier than this when we first started!

@Sungirl11 we're trying for baby 2 and we're 36 and 38. I honestly think the stress of ttc does silly things to the body. Everything goes haywire because of it, i really believe it does! It's such a stressy time!

Hi Ladies

sorry to hear of the bfn, plenty of time left before the witch though so fingers crossed for you!

Hope this cycle is the one @dizzy85 any plans on doing anything different this month?

How're you feeling now with the cramps/possible uti @NicoleR14

What DPO is everyone now?

@Nmew they've calmed down I'm getting the odd pinch here and there but nothing serious I think it was ovulation cramps I was having! How are you doing? X

@Sungirl11 welcome to the nutter group. Haha.
Yes I think maybe implantation bleeding? I've never had that myself but I would be positive if I were you..
@ArjaD I feel fine and all I'm worried about now is that I drank too much lol I know it's crazy but I can't help it just paranoid. Defo will struggle to sleep tonight with the Sunday terrors x

Oh and I'm 30 and my oh 38 ttc no 1 xx

@Bbutterfly i'm quite sure it's not implantation as it's lasting for over 5 days. Implantation only is 1-3 days max. I wrote about it and another lady answered saying she has that every period from 3-7 days before and it's just the beginning of it... but she is being tested for it so i will go to the GP and check too as it's not normal.
Have you been ttc for long? Xx

Morning all, I just had a few days break from mumsnet whilst af was in town. How is everyone getting on? Good luck if anyone's testing today.
@Nmew Thankyou, I'm not sure this month what to try was thinking pregnacare again or preseed, but I might just try focus all my energy on losing a few pounds and try not to think too much just dtd.hope your well.
@Sungirl11 welcome to the thread, I get spotting every month before af sometimes up to a week before it's very frustrating I've not always had it I'd say it started within the last few years. I'm 34 and OH 32 we're trying for our first. Hopefully yours leads to a bfp🤞🏻

Morning girls @Sungirl11 I've been off my pill for about 6 months but been doing opks for the last 3 months and going crazy at the same time, what about you? Yes see what the other lady says and also go to the gp keep us posted x

@Bbutterfly yeah i've been doing them since July. Some months i haven't seen the peak but this month i did get it on the 3rd, which was a few days before the app was saying. Even thought it hasn't worked haha. I haven't been on contraception for over two years now, and it was all good until we started TTC, now i'm all messed up! It might be the stress of wanting a baby

@Sungirl11 I have heard that before my friend recently got pregnant after over a year of trying doing opks and charting everything, the month she fell pregnant was the month she didn't buy opks and deleted her apps. We can't help but overthink everything and I think the stress of it Defo has something to do with it.. Have you heard anything from gp or the lady who had the same spotting as you? Nice to hear from you @dizzy85 how are you? When you going to start opk? @ArjaD have you tested anymore how are you? X

@Bbutterfly we will go to gp when my hub is off work. I know obsessing about it is the worst, but i can't help it! I believe most of us are same...
I have wanted a baby for so long and now that it can be possible it's not happening hahah lord! And my inlaw keeps asking if i'm pregnant (she wants a grandchild like mad) and friends keep asking what we are waiting for... and i'm like... humm idk it's not happening...

@Bbutterfly yup, POAS addict here with nothing to report 😑😑😑

So I have been keeping myself busy in my tww currently 6dpo and I have way too much time on my hands my niece's birthday is on the 23rd of March and this is what I have made for her feeling quiet proud of it and needed to share it with you's lovely ladies as we share things more tmi than this 😂! What do you's think?! Making myself more broody while I'm here!

How are you doing?

It's not finished yet this is just a preview before it gets sewn it's needing a collar and some bows also!

@NicoleR14 omg that's amazing!!!! 😍😍

@ArjaD thank you lol I deffo think it's the best I've made yet!

Oh @Sungirl11 that's so annoying I really hate the 'what you waiting for' comment. @NicoleR14 that's gorgeous! That hasn't taken you long! Make sure you send a pic when it's finished. @ArjaD oh god when's your af due? You're not out yet. I'm only 7dpo now and this is the second half where I start losing the plot x