11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

Good morning ladies! @dizzy85 sorry to hear your bfn! If af hasn't arrived yet then I'd take that to be a good sign you might have a chance! @ArjaD I think you've deffo got a chance as well even though the egg sits for 24-36 hours after ovulation it can wait in there somewhere for a bit longer before dying or being implanted so there's still hope! @Bbutterfly I'm deffo there with you you feel like you've did everything right but our bodies don't agree with us I'm hoping this is our month if not there's always next!

@NicoleR14 how are you feeling?

@ArjaD I'm 2dpo today so trying my best not to go crazy I am refusing to test until af is due I haven't bought any tests what so ever so much going on and stressing me out at the moment but I'm trying my best to relax my dh bought me domino's because I've never played them before and it did help release some of the stress i did have a good laugh at him he's 20 but more like 5 😂 how are you doing?

Hey all, my af has arrived! I actually feel alright about it I feel relieved that I'm no longer having to wait and find out what's happening so now I know I can move on coz it really did bring me right down this month. Do you think it was possibly a chemical pregnancy or faulty tests? if it's CP I should probably mention to the dr shouldn't I ? coz of having the mmc before if these things keep happening then obviously there's a problem. It's so hard to tell what it is where the lines were weird.
Anyway @NicoleR14 I think that's a good idea to not test early if you can if I'd waited a day longer to test I'd have saved myself all this stress by not seeing those lines. Ooh dominos are they fun? I have no idea how to play them I used to just line them all up and knock them down 😂

@dizzy85 I'm 3 dpo now, I'm sorry you got af but it's nice to have that relief? I have no idea how do you tell if it's 100% cp? Or just faulty tests or whatever?
@NicoleR14 I'm with you on this one I'm not testing early at all noway not bought tests because I can't lose the plot again. We will be testing around the same time so fingers crossed for us. I really laughed at your message about dominos because I thought you was talking about pizza and thought that fixes everything how have you never had a dominos lol but it was the game 😂 @ArjaD don't worry you still are in so hopefully we will have some bfp this month! X

@dizzy85 aw I'm so sorry, but you're right, better than having to wait even longer. All focus on next month!
@Bbutterfly I thought the same Exact thing about domino's 😂😂😂 aw @NicoleR14
I didn't realise you guys were so young lol, no wonder he's behaving like he is, he's still so young 🤣🤣 they mature though, mine is 38 and really getting there 😂😂😂

@Bbutterfly I don't know I have no idea either the other things that push me towards CP is that I didn't get my usual spotting and that weird intense pain I had on Monday🤷‍♀️, I think they might be able to do a blood test, I'm gonna call the drs tomorrow and see if I can ask someone about it.
Got everything crossed for all of you, it's nice your gonna be testing around the same time.
I did think that about the dominos first I saw the word and thought oooh i want pizza tonight then read it properly 😂

@ArjaD haha mines 38 too. I keep winding him up saying he's basically 40 😂 @dizzy85 that's a good idea let us know what the doctor says. I hope he can give you some answers. Is anyone doing anything nice for valentines tomorrow? X

@Bbutterfly how spooky eh 🤣 they defo do get better with age though 😜 how are you feeling? I'm still thinking i have a UTI because of the weird pains in my lower abdomen. And peeing so much! Hubby sent me flowers for valentine's but I'll be spending it working and then with my wee boy in the evening. You?

@dizzy85 I agree with @Bbutterfly deffo call the Dr's and see if you can speak to someone about it if it keeps happening there must be something underlying but saying that there has been a few ladies who's had multiple mmc and having no problems and finally conceiving! @ArjaD yes we're 20 I'm 21 on the 27th of this month we got married at 19 it was a very spur of the moment thing we had been dating for 6 years before we got married lol but yes I thought he bought me pizza too until I seen a tiny box with domino's on it 😂😂he really has a way of cheering me up I'd never played it before today I loved it he's such a sore loser it's funny to watch him playing it 😂! Deffo not be testing until af is due or just after I've had too many false hopes so if it's left until af is due I might not get as upset! Having quiet bad cramps today though I'm thinking maybe a possible UTI with all this cold!

@ArjaD I'm feeling normal lol I think in a few days I'll be doing the usual non existent symptom spotting. Oh no you're still feeling it?! Drink lots of water and take cranberry/cherry vitamins. Tomorrow I will be working and we are going to walk to our little Italian place we love for dinner. We don't have any babies yet so that is lovely you are spending with your boy ♥️. @NicoleR14 that's really sweet hopefully we will have some luck this month. X

I just thought this wee face could bring some lcck to us ladies ❤️ it's what it's all about, my wee guy.

@Bbutterfly that sounds lovely I love italian food but since I've moved I can never find one as good! @ArjaD awww he's handsome looks like a wee cutie too! X

My wee chipmunk ♥️😂

@ArjaD what a lovely little face to wake up to this morning! I hope he brings me some luck this month 🤞🏻 @dizzy85 let us know what the drs say good luck x

Good luck @dizzy85, I agree, defo chat to the gp. Hormones may be a bit all over the place. But hopefully there's an innocent explanation xxx
7dpo for me today and the wait is getting to me 😂. Got a whole day's work though, from 9am till 9pm. So that will keep me away from the tests!!

Anyone in the tww willing to own up to symptom spotting? 🙈 8dpo and going mental here...

I am 4dpo today and I just want to find anything tbh 😂! Would love a good malibu tonight but I've read that drinking when in the tww can have a big affect on not implanting so I'd rather have the hope of a baby instead of alcohol 😂!

@NicoleR14 I had a wee rum two nights ago. Just the one. I read it's excessive alcohol drinking that can affect it 🤔 but I guess better safe than sorry!

Omg seriously! I had no idea I drank pretty much a whole bottle of prosecco last night 😩 I bet ive ruined all that hard work. Gutted x

@Bbutterfly it doesn't mean at all that the egg can't implant! Don't lose hope, i think there's just a slight percentage difference. And who know who conducts these tests anyway!

Yeah you're right. I did go a bit over the top last night I've hardly drank at all the last 5 months so just guna take it easy from now on! X

I'm too greedy not to overly drink! I like to see who I can out drink maybe 1 or 10 can't hurt.. 😂 I read it could affect it but if its only a small percent there shouldn't be any harm in it I suppose!

I have always liked a wee rum here and there, never stopped me getting pregnant the first time!! I'm getting some pains left and right side of abdomen today, really stingy. wonder if UTI's also cause those.

9dpo BFN. I'm officially a numpty 🙄🙄