11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@ArjaD I tested today and my peak has gone so I literally was bang on. I've pretty much dtd two days before peak and when I got my peak morning and night. I literally couldn't have tried harder but last month I was so annoyed with oh having to go away for work we only dtd once so I made the most of this month! I hope it pays off!
@Nmew that's so good you will have to keep us updated in March when you have your appointment 😀 do you think you'll find out the sex? X

Sorry to keep you all hanging😆 well I did test but I'm still none the wiser, it basically looks the same as this morning I could see it bit more though without opening it up but it's weird it's like it's pink at the top darker than earlier but then the line starts to fade or is barely visible the rest of the way down I'm confused. Starting to wonder if their faulty even though their from 2 different packs 🤷‍♀️

I can't get a good picture of it in this light so I'll have to send one tomorrow.

Morning all, well there was nothing on this mornings test 😭😭😭 the one on last nights test definitely had some pink on aswell so I'm guessing it might of been a chemical pregnancy what do you think? I think my periods gonna come today I wanna cry.

@dizzy85 aw no, but remember you're not out till the witch shows. I never got a positive till the first day of my missed period the first time xx

@ArjaD I just think I'd at least of had another faint line this morning if I did yesterday if anything was there. So not very hopeful at all now. Af Is due today I normally wake up with her there but not so far.

Oh no @dizzy85. @ArjaD is right you could still be in with a chance as long as she stays away. I think this is the issue so many people get with testing early. Just upsets you more when there's evaps and dodgy tests but it's so hard not to. I spoke to someone yesterday and she said to never take the tests apart because she was seeing lines and all sorts even on opks they were negative but she'd pull it apart and there would be a line making her even more confused. I hope you are ok ♥️ x

Thanks @Bbutterfly I'm ok just gonna have to wait and see now such an emotional rollercoaster. Yer I've heard that loads too I don't ever normally take them out of the case it was only the one from yesterday morning coz I thought am I imagining this but the one last night had a clear bit of pink in it and I could see it more so I didn't bother to open that one.

It is such a roller-coaster isn't it 😔 you've been trying for a while haven't you? But as long as af isn't here, it's a good sign xx

@ArjaD it really is, yesterday I was feeling more positive and today I'm complete opposite it can't be healthy all these up and down feelings. Yer we have been trying quite a while now, we started casually the year before last for about 4 months then stopped then last year 6 months then got pregnant then lost it and had a few months off and now this is the 4th cycle feels like forever. It is strange that my periods not here yet. I dunno whether to bother testing again or not,

Hm, maybe hold off till tomorrow morning? Just save you the stress today x

Oh im sorry about this mornings test @dizzy85 fingers are still crossed for you that AF stays away!

Sounds like youve had perfect timing this month @Bbutterfly lets hope this is your cycle! I always thought i'd want it to be a surprise, but I'm starting to think I might not be able to wait to find out lol DH said he would be keen to know.

@dizzy85 how are you feeling? Hope you're ok?
@Nmew fingers crossed, I've been here before thinking I've timed it right but it's not worked out but I might be lucky this month! Haha you'll have to keep us updated if you can resist finding out or not xxx

Thanks all, I'm doing ok just confused completely with what's going on still no signs of af which is weird, I'll test again in the morning but I've only got cheap ones as didn't wanna spend out on more frers.
How are you all doing? How many DPO or anything are you?

@dizzy85 still à good chance for you in my opinion! I'll even be crossing my fingers in my sleep for you! 🤞🤞 I'm 5 dpo now. Hate the tww. And still getting stingy pains and peeing all the time so I hope this uti buggers off soon.

@ArjaD I'm not too sure at this point now but hopefully a miracle happens🤞🏻 almost in the second week for you I always find the first week I can handle then come week two the madness slowly kicks in 😂 hope the uti goes soon they are painful I feel for you there.

I'm sure I'll be going insane in the next few days 😂 thankfully I have a lot of work on, so some distraction at least. Got little hope though, since our 1 dtd was prob too late.

@ArjaD well at least we've all got each other here to let out the madness to aswell.

Another bfn for me today just used a cheap test still no af yet 2 days late now. What is everyone's theories? Do you think dodgy tests or chemical pregnancy? It's hard to tell, but this has definitely been an odd cycle for me.

@dizzy85 I think it's still a possible pregnancy! Stay positive xx yeah this is a great wee community to vent to 😊

@6dpo and the absurd urge to test is nagging me 😂😂

@ArjaD I'd love to hope so but I really don't think it's possible now if there was anything I'd surely have had a real positive by now.
Haha don't do it 😂😂

I'm quite chilled about it since the chance is so low. Like I have sorted accepted it won't happen this month. But next month we'll be in Spain to dtd 😂 so going by all these celebrities, if we hit the jackpot on holiday, we may need to name it Alicante or something 😂😂

Morning, @ArjaD I'm lol-ing hard at this 😂😂 don't count yourself out but I was the same as you last month. I think I will be pretty upset if this month doesn't work out for me I literally couldn't have done more you know. But I'm not getting my hopes up at all because I've thought before I've timed it perfect and not worked. @dizzy85 this is a weird one, I guess it's just even more of a waiting game for you. Hope it's just dodgy tests maybe give it another day to see if af turns you xxx

@Bbutterfly yeah I know what you mean. It's so unreal to think even if you try your best, your chance of getting pregnant is only 35%. Makes me Jealous of all those who fall pregnant by accident!

@ArjaD baby Alicante 😂😂😂
@Bbutterfly def weird, yes the wait continues coz 2 weeks just wasn't enough for me apparently 😂 gotta laugh or ill cry. How many DPO are you now?