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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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ArjaD · 11/02/2020 16:16

@dizzy85 I can see a line too! Omg could this be it?? 🤩🤩🤩
@NicoleR14 it does just take one dtd, and you've still got more chance than me as we only dtd on ovulation day or could even have been 1dpo.... So your chances are way better 😂

dizzy85 · 11/02/2020 16:38

@ArjaD I do hope so but I'm still scared it's gonna be an evap hopefully not. How long do you thinks good to hold pee for? I'm gonna try for 4 hours I'm only about 20mins in.

Nmew · 11/02/2020 16:48

Ohh I definitely see a line there too, I so hope it’s the start of your bfp!! I think 4 hours would be probably be enough so long as you don’t drink anything else.

ArjaD · 11/02/2020 17:16

Yeah 4 hrs seems OK!
How are you feeling @Nmew?☺️

dizzy85 · 11/02/2020 17:16

Thanks @Nmew I hope so.

NicoleR14 · 11/02/2020 18:24

Ladies am I still ovulating I've got a really high positive just now but low earlier this is the most positive opk I've ever had! I'm so confused I'm having some serious cramps as well!

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dizzy85 · 11/02/2020 18:37

@NicoleR14 that's good, I'd jump on the hubby tonight!

NicoleR14 · 11/02/2020 18:40

I'm hoping to it's the most positive I've ever had one of those! @dizzy85 did you retest? X

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Bbutterfly · 11/02/2020 18:48

@NicoleR14 I reckon that's your peak! Defo dtd tonight! Maybe previously you thought you ovulated earlier and really it was later? X

NicoleR14 · 11/02/2020 18:52

@dizzy85 I thought it maybe passed 2 days ago but it seems to be today's my peak! I didn't plan on using opks this month I've only done 4 I can't believe I've caught my peak without tracking! Deffo going to dtd later😂

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dizzy85 · 11/02/2020 19:11

@NicoleR14 luckily you did the opk😊 I've not yet I'm still holding my pee and not drinking I'm sooo thirsty now! I'll probably test around half8

NicoleR14 · 11/02/2020 19:16

@dizzy85 You deffo need to let us see when you've taken the test I'm getting excited and nervous for you! And deffo need to jump him! I'm really cramping though I don't think I've ever had ovulating cramps before they are quiet sore!

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dizzy85 · 11/02/2020 19:21

@NicoleR14 I will do, still feeling periody though so not feeling overly hopeful. Oh I get ovulation pain most months it's surprising how painful they can be isn't it.

NicoleR14 · 11/02/2020 19:25

@dizzy85 I hope the witch stays away for you! It is I haven't had them before but tonight it's like full blown af cramps it's really sore but it must be a good sign that everything's working when my opk was so bright! 🤞🏼

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ArjaD · 11/02/2020 19:27

@NicoleR14 some people see positives for Four days or so from the day they test positive, so defo the best time to try! I wish there was just set-in-stone guidelines for all this, but lock hubby inside, pour him a drink and talk to him about his car or video games 😂😂😂

ArjaD · 11/02/2020 19:32

@dizzy85 I'm actually bouncing I'm so curious about your test. Crossing it all!!

NicoleR14 · 11/02/2020 19:34

@ArjaD I like your way of thinking 😂😂😂

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ArjaD · 11/02/2020 19:39

Whatever works huh 😂😂 I think i may have the start of a UTI too at the moment. Been peeing for Scotland and stingy pains down there too. Must be the cold weather because I don't usually get infections.

NicoleR14 · 11/02/2020 20:05

It has been unreal here with the weather its snowing then raining then windy and sunshine its been terrible here!

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Nmew · 11/02/2020 20:21

Doing good @ArjaD mostly tired and sore boobs, still get cramps which feel exactly like AF cramps! Thankfully not much in the way of nausea. UTIs are the worst, hope you feel better xx

Weathers been crazy here too @NicoleR14, blizzards then sunshine lol

Def looks like you are getting a peak now @NicoleR14 get that man in bed! 😂

NicoleR14 · 11/02/2020 20:42

@Nmew I deffo will be as soon as he gets out the shower 😂! Glad to hear your doing well how many weeks are you now? @dizzy85 did you test yet? X

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Bbutterfly · 11/02/2020 20:43

@dizzy85 how you get on?! We are all thinking of you haha.
Oh no @ArjaD utis kill me I can't cope with the constant need to pee.
@Nmew glad you are doing good how strange you still get af cramps! That bloody witch always lurking even when she's not needed 😂
@NicoleR14 baby dust to you tonight!!!

ArjaD · 11/02/2020 20:51

@Bbutterfly did you do another opk or are you just going with the flow? Xx

Nmew · 11/02/2020 20:52

Haha I know @Bbutterfly lol it made me super paranoid to begin with but then I read its just because of the uterus contracting to grow, and well I guess it feels the same because it contracts for AF too, typical lol

Im 6+3 today @NicoleR14 seeing the doc and midwife mid March.

Nmew · 11/02/2020 20:53

Waiting on the edge of my seat for you @dizzy85 ! fingers crossed

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