11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

I hope so too @dizzy85!
@Bbutterfly, positive opk yet ?

@dizzy85 keep us updated everything crossed for you too, hope babyshower is going ok.
@ArjaD would you believe I haven't tested! ovulation supposedly tomorrow, I've dtd a lot this weekend 😂 and I'm also working from home tomorrow so I'm really hoping we get our bfps this month. Last month remember I only managed to dtd once on ovulation day because oh had work. Still can't believe I haven't tested. X

I remember last month! Especially because that's the boat I'm in this month too 😂😂🛥️

Bfn this evening ladies 🙄 if I've got time in the morning I'll do another if not then probably tomorrow Eve. The baby shower wasn't too bad just went on for ages though. Hope your all good.

Aw was thinking of you @dizzy85. Not to worry, you're defo not out!!

@ArjaD no not out yet so will still stay hopeful, it was only a cheap test and I didn't hold my pee for too long so I'm blaming that for now lol.

Was thinking of you too @dizzy85 yeah maybe do one first pee in the morning? X

@dizzy85 deffo try fmu! That wasn't so bad if it went quick enough do they know the gender? I'm currently nursing a hangover watching Annabelle as my hubby finds it amusing how jumpy I can be! (it's not going well whatsoever) 😂!

@NicoleR14 omg that movie was scary 😳😳😳

A hangover and a scary movie? Lol you’re braver than I am @NicoleR14

What Dpo will you be tomorrow @dizzy85

Sounds like you are doing really well this month @Bbutterfly let’s hope all that fun will get you a bfp!

I'm nursing a hangover too couldn't be bothered to cook earlier so ordered a nandos 😀 I didn't want to drink this weekend been really good but went out and few cocktails later 🙄 typical haven't hd a drink for like 4 weeks typical two days before ovulation. I really hope We do get some bfps this month! I can't watch scary movies when I'm hanging, it has to be something funny and easy to watch so I don't get anxious haha. Xx

I've been a nervous wreck all day unfortunately I thought last night I could keep up with my father in law needless to say he out drank me and I was hugging the toilet at 1 this morning so my hubby thought it would be fun to let me watch Annabelle comes home and I jumped at everything never again will I get that drunk and let my hubby pick a movie with a hangover 😂!

@Bbutterfly @NicoleR14 @Nmew yer I will try to get up earlier and test first thing, I'm about 10 or 11 DPO. Ooh hangovers are the worst I hate the anxiety part and I agree couldn't deal with a scary movie hungover 😂

@dizzy85 even 11dpo is still very early! You've still got a good chance! I'm currently trying to get dh to dtd I promised myself I wouldn't force him this month because I feel like such a bad person for keeping going at him but we've only dtd once and I'm on cycle day 15! So I'm going to try my luck 😂

Morning,negative on a frer this morning 😞 I think all my hopes gone out the window now as I just had a tiny bit of spotting when I wiped too and the main thing that was making me think I might be in with a chance this month is that I always start spotting about a week before af everyday and this month I didn't apart from Friday I had a tiny speck of blood then nothing since now 😭 so I def think I'm out now 😭😭😭 ergh and it's Monday 😭

@dizzy85 aw sorry Mrs. Just wait and see if she shows though, you never know!

Me again lol..so now I've just started getting really strong intense period cramps, which I never usually get I normally have the odd cramp but not until afs actually started never this bad before, think I'm in for a bad one😭 I wanna go home to bed!

@ArjaD hopefully she doesn't but these cramps are still going on and their getting worse it's definitely weird how strong they are. I guess I'll just wait and see now.

@dizzy85 oh no 😩 this waiting and guessing game is so annoying. I hope af stays away for you. Always worse on a Monday too x

@dizzy85 I've probably said this before but I find that no two months are the same these days. Always different feelings and symptoms! I do think it's ttc related stress sometimes. 😒 It's so hard!

@Bbutterfly Thankyou it is very annoying I'll probably just use a cheap test tomorrow if af doesn't show save my last frer. Is it ovulation day for you today?

@ArjaD yer I agree there our bodies do like to change things up but it's really thrown me this month, that cramp I had earlier was so weird it just came out of nowhere and was extremely intense for about an hour then nothing it was that strong I had to stop what I was doing and sit down for a bit. It reminded me of the intense pain I had during my mmc which wasn't nice and I've not had that type of cramp since. Plus the lack of spotting is messing with my head coz the month I did get pregnant I didn't spot like normal either so you can imagine how my brain feels at the moment 🤯 I've just taken the afternoon off work coz I've had enough of today, I feel like getting into bed and watching a sad movie so I can have a good cry..as sad as that sounds lol but I think I need it.

@dizzy85 Yeah that's what I'd do if I was you I hate wasting the expensive ones. Yep ovulation day today, I did my first opk at 7pm last night and it was peak so went straight to the bedroom lol! Waiting for oh to get back from his meeting I'm lucky that I'm working from home today haha. I literally couldn't of tried harder this month I need a break 😂. @ArjaD don't let your mind drive you mad thinking about it all and trying to guess what's going on. Glad you have the afternoon off, love a sad film to cry to, if you have amazon prime watch 'this is us' I pretty much cried every episode but it's a lovely series. X

Sorry @ArjaD accidentally tagged you.
This ttc is so hard isn't it, I always thought it would've been easier than this x

Just imagine if we all lived a bit closer we could have sad movie get-togethers for a good hormonal cry 😂 we all need it sometimes!!