11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@ArjaD perfect timing then 😁

Deffo perfect timing so glad you might be in with a chance this month @ArjaD!

It's a mini chance but I'll take it xx

Hope it's the lucky cycle for you @ArjaD

How are you all doing? Any symptoms yet @dizzy85? And how's the urinary infection @NicoleR14?
@Bbutterfly, any positive opks yet?

@ArjaD I'm about 9/10 dpo now I feel quite sick and stomach crampy this morning but I did eat quite a lot of pizza and chocolate last night so it's probably from that, boobs are only slight tender. I did test on Thursday evening 7/8dpo but it was bfn as expected but we had the house to ourselves so I thought I'd just check whilst we had some space. I'm thinking whether to test again later or not as were alone again tonight.

@dizzy85 oooh I'm keeping it all crossed for you! It's so hard to stay away from the tests huh 😂

@ArjaD Thankyou 🤞🏻, yer it is hard, although i don't feel like I've been obsessed this month normally I have a real urge to poas but I'm not feeling like that, it's more where we don't get alone time much I think if I get a bfp I'm gonna scream the house down or cry hysterically lol so if I can test when everyone's out then that'll be better 😂
Is your hubby back today?

Yes he is, just getting some sleep after his nightshift, about to go jump him 🤣🤣

Aww fingers crossed for you @dizzy85
Lol hope he wakes up soon @ArjaD he can sleep more after! 😅

@ArjaD omg I just caught up!! This is great so Happy for your see universe works in mysterious ways! You are in for a chance this month! Maybe it will be your lucky one when you thought it was game over! I did one opk this morning and not positive but supposedly ovulating on Monday. @dizzy85 I have been the same only done one opk this month I'm trying not to obsess over it all! Fingers crossed for you xxx

@dizzy85 your doing better than what I would be I'd have tested already! @ArjaD still there I'm still quiet sore I think I'll need to go back to see gp not checking when I ovulate this month what so ever I'm on cd14 so I think this is the start of my fertile window I actually stopped taking pregnacare vitamins as I was told they can have a big effect on making your cycle longer! So we'll see how it goes!

@NicoleR14 really?? Didn't know that about Pregnacare! That's odd because I stopped taking them a couple of months ago and my cycle has gone back to 31 days from 33.

@Nmew Thankyou, I hope your doing good.
@Bbutterfly Thankyou too and I hope you get your positive opk soon.
@ArjaD hope you had a lovely time seeing the hubby and jumping him 😆
@NicoleR14 im really considering testing soon the in-laws are going out in a bit but I'm not sure I might wait 😬🙃🤣 hopefully you find it more relaxing not using the opks this time round.

@Bbutterfly you're doing well avoiding the opks! Some willpower 😁

@ArjaD yes I've seen a few people complaining about them how they are putting their cycle all over the place I'm usually every 28 days but it's jumped to 34 and 31 days so I've stopped using them I had my b12 and folic acid levels checked last week so they are all fine for me to stop taking them for a while and see if this cycle is any different! @dizzy85 I'd deffo wait till they were out and test it just makes it easier if you need to scream and jump up and down or have a good cry it's just easier when it's you and dh I don't know why but I feel better when it's just us when we're testinglol x

@NicoleR14 that's shocking that these tablets amend your natural cycle! Don't think I'll be taking them again now.
@dizzy85 how did you get on, did you test? X

I'm thinking the pregnacare vits I've started this month may have lengthened my cycle from 28 days, to whatever it is now, I'm on cd32 and no sign of period, nothing, I've been having mild cramping. Will take a test on thursday when I'm a week late. I have take 5 cheap boots strip tests, last one taken on Friday which was negative. I'm trying not to get my Hope's up that I'm pregnant just in case it's the vits. I'm taking the pregnacare gummies

@NicoleR14 @ArjaD morning, I didn't test in the end, I think I'm gonna do it today, I have a baby shower to go to today which I know it sounds bad but I'm really dreading it, so thought I'd wait until I get home after and do it. Also this Tuesday coming would have been my due date if i didn't have the mmc so I'm feeling extra sensitive at the moment but I can't get out of today coz it's my sister in laws and obviously we live with the in-laws🙄😞.
@Ylladyoll wishing you luck 🤞🏻

@dizzy85 aw I'm so sorry. Your time will come though, stay positive xxx you may get a bfp later 😁

@dizzy85 keep your chin up hun it will happen soon I don't think I could go to a baby shower with all this going on its hard enough seeing pregnancy announcements on Facebook without going to baby showers as well I know it sounds bad but it's so hard to do!
@ArjaD it is I thought they would help but they have made me feel better and helped with my folic acid levels and b12s as I have a bit of bother with my b12 being dangerously low from time to time @Ylladyol I deffo think it's the vitamins unfortunately I'm going to buy folic acid and other ones seperate instead of pregnacare me and dh are taking the him and her conception vitamins and all they've done is made my cycle longer so its hard to know when I'm ovulating because my cycles going from long to short to long again!

@ArjaD @NicoleR14 thanks ladies, I am trying to be positive, hopefully later is good news🤞🏻. I really was gonna fake an illness but I feel guilty🤦‍♀️, I'm happy for her and it's not her fault I feel like this so I'm just gonna put on a brave face and try to suck it up😬 and hopefully it goes quick so I can get home and test lol.

It's definitely not easy. But hopefully the day passes quickly for you! I'm crossing everything for your bfp🤞🤞🤞🤞

@ArjaD will update later on, but I've just started to feel crampy again and achy thighs which I get before af🙄 so we will see.

@dizzy85 I hope the witch stays away and you get your bfp! 🤞🏼🤞🏼