11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@dizzy85 no not yet, according to app ovulating on the 10th feb so Monday. Where are you at now? @ArjaD I really wanted to see if I could go without doing opks this month but so hard not to. I know starting tomorrow I'm going to become obsessed 😂 xx

@Bbutterfly ah not too much longer then. I'm about 5/6 DPO today feel ok so far, it's usually the second half of the week I'll start losing the plot 😆

@NicoleR14 how are you feeling?

Aww I hope the rest of the tww goes quick for you @dizzy85

Hi ladies! Went to out of hours last night and it was just a urine infection but doctor I seen told me to get my hormones checked as they seem completely off when I explained to him about my gp telling me to ignore it he made a complaint against them and has recommended I find a better gp! I'm starting to think the hormones could be causing a big issue with ttc! How is everyone else feeling?

@NicoleR14 I'm glad someone is taking it seriously! Hope they can sort out any hormonal issues ASAP x Just plodding on with my opks as usual. Can't sleep well these days.

@NicoleR14 glad you got seen by a decent doctor, you feeling any better? Yer I'd say get a different doctor too and hopefully they can do hormones tests, I've said to my dr before I think I have a hormone imbalance but he just seems to do checks for pcos then says everything looks fine which I don't feel is right, I might change drs too 😆Anyway I'm 6/7dpo today, nothing really going on i have slight tender boobs and had a pain on my right ovary area yesterday but I've had all this before and it's been nothing so just impatiently waiting now.

Hope it's good news @dizzy85. I'm still doing opks. Mind you with the terrible twos my son's in just now I'm questioning it all 😂

@ArjaD Thankyou 🤞🏻 haha I can imagine 🤣 I have a two year old niece and she's such a little madam at the moment 😂

I agree seeing them In the terrible 2s it makes you doubt yourself completely 😂! X

Morning, @NicoleR14 that would make sense a hormonal imbalance, have you booked in to have them checked? I think they do a blood test and check them don't they? I hope they figure it out so you can get it all sorted. Definitely register elsewhere now! @dizzy85 you lost the plot yet haha, any non existent symptoms creeping up yet?
@ArjaD I haven't done one opk test yet! My friends been ttc for 7 months and she just got her bfp said she deleted the apps and stopped obsessing over poas! 😂 xxx

@Bbutterfly I'm sort of keeping it cool but then also secretly losing the plot at the same time if that makes sense 😂 well the only things so far is the slight tender boobs and feeling on my right side today I've been extra tired and feeling sick and ppl at work have said I look pale but that could all just be from anything😆 I'm gonna buy some frers today but dunno when to test yet I'm about 7/8dpo now.

@Bbutterfly no not yet they are refusing to check my hormones at the doctor surgery I'm with so I'm going to find somewhere else to get seen to! How are you doing?

Well my opk lines are getting darker. My predicted ovulation on the 8th May be correct. Still a teensy bit lighter than the test line. I find it all so unclear.

@NicoleR14 I've heard of these finger prick tests you can do yourself for around £70/80 which is quite expensive considering the drs can just do it! But i think you get results in 2 days so it might be worth looking into?
@ArjaD I know it's so annoying isn't it. It's just horrible when you know you've ovulated according to the opk then tww is torture then when you get a bfn it's like what the hell what more can i do when everything is done at the right times etc it's just so confusing xxx

It actually feels quite awful knowing you're about to ovulate and not being able to dtd because hubby is away.

Oh @ArjaD I'm sorry you're feeling like this, when your baby is due it will come, it's how the universe works everything comes to us at the right moment. Although is hugely frustrating. Is hubby going to be back next month? Hope you're ok xx

Thanks @Bbutterfly x hubby should be home until the day before predicted ovulation next month, which is better news. I thought he wouldn't be there at all again. How are you holding up?

Well ladies, positive opk last night and hubby has somehow managed to blag his way home tomorrow morning for just a few hours.... What do you think, do we still have a chance in hell 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I think that is deffo a meant to be moment @ArjaD get dtd!!!!

@NicoleR14 just think that, since the positive opk was yesterday and he won't be here till tomorrow, it's probably too late...

It might not be have you checked your opk today? @ArjaD

Sounds like good timing @ArjaD I think I read that ovulation can happen up to 48hrs after the LH surge and certainly no harm trying!

@ArjaD yay that's good news, definitely still a chance there.

@NicoleR14 yup, negative opk today 🙁

This gives me some hope though.