11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

I was thinking about home bargains maybe for some of the strips! And yes I completely get it I actually tried to encourage my sister in law who is 35 to take her mum and dad out for a while so we could get dtd but they are never gone for long I tried to give her the whole do you want a baby niece or nephew then you need to take them out for a while and then my father in law will say nah you's go ill stay here with John and then I feel like the steam is coming from nose ears eyes the lot 😂😂

@NicoleR14 yer maybe do that and save the digital coz they're expensive. I know how you feel there we used to get one evening a week to ourselves as they went out but that seems to have stopped now so it's mission impossible planning sexy time😂let me know how you get on if you do test.

I think I must be ovulating today as I did opk earlier and it was lot lighter than yesterday so I'm guessing the surge was overnight as before bed I started getting ovulation pains and have them today.

@dizzy85 we are the same they go out on Saturday night to the pub but they've stopped doing that as well! I couldn't help myself with the digital this morning it came back not pregnant and I probably should of left it at that but instead I opened it up which I probably shouldn't have and seen a second line but after hours of googling I now realise that it's negative and need to stop stressing over it I have the gp today at half 1 about the pain in my belly and breasts and the nausea I'm hoping they can help with it! That's good your opk is still positive I've read somewhere that dh best sperm mobility and count is first thing in the morning and that's the best time to dtd I don't know if this is true or not!

@NicoleR14 🤣how funny! Hopefully they decide to start going back out sharpish🤦‍♀️😂! Aw really sorry it was negative, I guess at least you can rule it out for now and not have to wonder. How did you get on at the doctors? I hope they were helpful. Ooh I may try a morning bd if we can then, although I have to be up at 5 tomorrow so I'll see if we can manage that on Saturday.

I hope so 😂! @dizzy85 still cramping and sore boobs and gp told me to ignore it! So was very pissed off at them! But since the pg tests was negative and af is done with I think I'll go out for a few 🍹tonight x

@NicoleR14 hope you enjoyed your drinks 🍹🍸. That's weird the dr just said to ignore it how unhelpful is that? I'd be well annoyed. I think I'm about 3/4 DPO today we didn't manage to dtd anymore after ovulation day so hopefully there was already enough swimmers up there waiting 😆 oh I do hate these twws need to find something to keep me busy.

@dizzy85 I deffo did feeling it today though I stopped drinking when we started ttc but I just felt so disheartened over it all yesterday I decided to go out feel ill today though lol hopefully this is your month! Yep Dr said ignore it it'll go away on its own but I'm still getting period type cramps and sore boobs! Ive started making baby's clothes to sell at the moment to keep my mind off ttc if I don't think about it too much it might happen well that's what I keep telling myself lol x

@Nmew
@ArjaD

how are you's getting on?

@NicoleR14 well still doing opks but still just to keep track of ovulation since hubby won't be home for another two and a half weeks. So defo not our month since i am due to ovulate in the next week. ☹️ Oh well. Maybe next month, though he might not be home for ovulation day then either.. That's the life of a navy wife!

@ArjaD that's horrible it must be hard dtd and ttc when he's away so much!

Yes we don't get chances too often! But hey we managed the first time and have a gorgeous wee baby boy, so we're staying positive!

You's will get through it and hopefully soon have another baby to add to the clan! It can be so hard this ttc we have been ttc for 5 months and 1 week it feels like forever but its not been half as long as others but we just feel like it'll never happen!

Sorry been a bit M.I.A lately, works been busy!

I’m doing good @NicoleR14 according to my own calculations I’m 5+1 today, yet to see a doctor but will see what they say when I do. I’ve mostly had sore boobs and am a bit more tired than usual. Sucks to hear about the gp, they can be so frustrating! Do you think you will do anything different this cycle?

Sorry to hear you are finding it hard to find the time @ArjaD fingers crossed that it happens soon!

Hope the tww is going ok for you @dizzy85

@NicoleR14 true, you hear so much about people trying for aaaaaages before it happens, guess we can't complain yet.
@Nmew aw the sore boobs are worth it though 😍

@Nmew glad to hear everything's going well best thing to do I think would be phoning the midwife the doctors I'm with don't deal with pregnancy what so ever the receptionist tells you to contact the midwife instead of seeing the gp! @ArjaD that's it can't complain yet! Still feel the need to though 😂 happy for all the lovely ladies I've seen getting their bfps but still feeling a bit jealous over it but I love looking through here and seeing all the posts it gives me hope! Been having some cramps like af cramps in the middle of my belly under my belly button it's been really sore but pointless going to the gp would love to know what's causing it though x

@NicoleR14 hope the hangovers gone today 😆 well hopefully the feelings do go away on their own bloody drs! Making baby clothes sounds lovely I love making things, most of my creative stuff is in storage but I've just started learning oil painting which is fun but you need a lot of space really coz they're messy, I got red oil paint on the in-laws grey carpet the other day but managed to get it off before anyone noticed 🤦‍♀️🤣. Yer that's what I keep trying to do is not think too much about it...it is so hard though!! Are you gonna use opks this cycle?

@Nmew glad your doing well ☺️ keep us updated on how things are going.
The tww is going ok so far Thankyou, I'm only 4/5 DPO now so nothing really going on and I've not started symptoms spotting yet which is good lol.

Needing some advice ladies! I'm in alot of pain quiet sharp at the bottom of my belly my nipples are so sore to even touch really bad shooting pains from the top of my v to my belly button and my back is killing me I've phoning nhs 24 but am i wrong to do so my gp won't see me for another week and is closed but I can't take the pain any longer!

@NicoleR14 I'd definitely ring them as your gp clearly has dismissed what your going through and if it's getting worse like it sounds it is then id at least call them and hopefully someone will get you checked out. Hope your ok. Let us know how you get on xx

Totally right @NicoleR14 - hope they take it more seriously. I'd do the same!

You are totally right to call them @NicoleR14 you know your own body, better to get checked! Hope everything is ok xx

Gave them a ring told me they'd call back within the hour that was 2 and a half hours ago! The pain has settled a bit more but feeling nauseous this is terrible! Thanks ladies!

Hey ladies,
I've missed so much not been getting the emails saying there's messages on our post!
@NicoleR14 definitely right to call them. I can't believe they haven't called back I'd ring them again I'm glad you are feeling slightly better. @Nmew glad you are doing good 😃
Hoping we get some bfp for valentines ladies! ♥️ xx

@NicoleR14 that's shocking 😳😳 how are you this morning?
@Bbutterfly you doing the opks yet? 😃

@NicoleR14 hope you got some answers last night
@Bbutterfly are you in the tww yet?