11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@NicoleR14 @Bbutterfly I think the earliest I'd be able to go would be Monday as I'm really busy at work tomorrow which is annoying but at least it's sooner than the 6th so I'll definitely get there Monday.in the mean time I'll just hope I'm not ovulating yet, I have been doing opks every day and I can see them getting darker.
How are you both doing? I hope your mouths feeling bit better now.

@dizzy85 I'd deffo get an appointment on Monday that way you'll know to start dtd or not if you've been feeling better I'd be going for it I'm too impatient to wait af due in 4 days but God knows when af will turn up! Mouth is still sore was trying to dtd today but unfortunately In laws wanted us to take them shopping so feeling a bit frustrated about it all feel like this whole baby making just isn't going well 😂! How are you ladies doing?

@NicoleR14 I know the feeling of baby making not going too well 😆🤦‍♀️ we live with our in-laws too so having the space to dtd is testing to say the least, we do manage but I have to laugh at the way we've had to adapt the way we do things it'll be a miracle if we do manage to conceive under these circumstances 😂 so I now can't get out of work tomorrow morning so it'll have to be Tuesday but I will definitely go then we have been dtd a few times anyway as I do feel better so I'm hoping it works out I can just have surgery at a later date.
Ahh getting close for you now🤞🏻 are you just gonna wait or test?

@dizzy85 it definitely is a struggle we've tried to adapt in our own way but I feel like it's never going to happen for us it just isn't working at the in laws we're trying but it's hard af arrived this morning so I must of ovulated and missed the peak its not like normal af though I've had no cramps what so every and its not started heavy yet so we'll see! At least you'll get an appointment and get seen to quicker if your feeling better I'd deffo be dtd! Hoping your month goes well if I was you I wouldn't let dh out the bed! 😂Xx

@NicoleR14 oh no I really hope it's not af if it's not how it usually is? How long have you been at the in-laws for now, Have you plans to move out anytime soon? It is so annoying I do feel the pain.
We've had a rare few hours to ourself today so I did jump on the OH 😂

@dizzy85 there's been no pain and to begin with it was brown and just spotting but now it's quiet red but still no pain it's not heavy yet so I'm not sure how it's going to go! We've been staying with the in laws since October! There's no privacy in between day and night and once night time comes we're too tired to dtd! How long you have you been staying with you's even thought it's been a couple of months it feels like forever! X

@NicoleR14 let me know how it goes I hope it stops and is ib not af. Oh we've been here for almost a year now🙀😂 heeeelp lol! The initial plan was no longer than a year so we could save alot but things didn't go quite to plan and my OH had to change jobs so it delayed and changed everything but I'm desperate to move now as you can imagine so we are getting on the case.

Morning all hope your doing ok, just wondering what cycle day you all usually start opks? Just asking as this cycle out of curiosity I started the day after af had stopped and the line was darker than I'd thought it would be at that point and I did them each day and saw them getting darker up until about Thursday which I forgot to do more over the weekend but Thursdays one was quite dark not positive but I'd say getting there, anyway did one today and it's almost stark white again so I'm wondering if I've ovulated super early as I was having what felt like ovulation pains last week too🤷‍♀️ I'm gonna keep up the opks just to see but thought I'd mention it incase anyone else might ovulate early it's worth checking I'd say soon as your afs stop.

Hiya, i usually start a few days after af is gone too. Just to not miss anything. But i am really beginning to doubt the accuracy of these things!

@ArjaD it does make you wonder doesn't it!

I had started testing from cycle day 6or 7 I'd wait 2 days after af and start testing! Af still here but very strange it's light but normal af colour very red (sorry for tmi) but only when I wipe never enough to fill a pad! Not had one like this before so well see how it goes!

@NicoleR14 how strange, hopefully it's different for a good reason.

Hopefully! Its not like the usual af type of cramps or flow it's quiet light but it is red with clots so I'm not sure how to take it but don't want to test either! Just need to wait and see what happens lol how are you getting on @dizzy85?

@NicoleR14 I'm doing good Thankyou, I'm on cd14 today loosely tracking my cycle with opks, I've not bothered with the doctors yet as the pains seem to have gone but I do have the app next week so I'll still get it checked out, but Ive decided to just carry on dtd and see what happens I just couldn't wait hopefully I'm doing the right thing. How's the bleeding/spotting going today?

I think that's the best way if your feeling better! I'm doing better af has now stopped but still having sore nipples and feeling very nauseous but everyone's been feeling like that here so I'm thinking it may be a bit of a bug but other than that I'm doing better thanks how's everything going? @ArjaD have you ovulated yet?!

@NicoleR14 I've just started my opks again, had af visiting last week so now tracking cycle again. My app predicts ovulation around 8th Feb. But hubby won't be home now till the 18th so I'm really only doing it to log the data in my app to keep it as accurate as I can 😔 how are you feeling?

Aw that's terrible he'll be away during your fertile week! I thought af stopped but it has now came back and I have sever stabbing pains in my right side and feeling very sick with it I have never had an af like this before! It's best to keep a log of everything you definitely have the right idea! X

@dizzy85 I think we all would've done the same as you. Hopefully it was just a one off!
Sorry @ArjaD no sign of hubby coming home before hand so annoying. Yes keep a track, my date is the 10th feb.
@NicoleR14 how weird I wonder what the stabbing pains could be? I hope it eases off soon x

Have to say af was odd for me too this month, lighter and no pain. I honestly think the stress of ttc is getting to us!

It's went a pinky colour now but still quiet sore still having sore boobs as well I'm fed up of this and doctors are no help! Has anyone had pink bleeding after their af before?

@NicoleR14 have you tested again just to check?
@ArjaD sorry your oh is gonna be away how frustrating 😞
@Bbutterfly I just couldn't wait any longer. Where abouts are you in your cycle now?

I've done opks today and they are close to positive so will be dtd again tonight.

@dizzy85 I was thinking about testing but day 2 and 3 of af was more like af bright red with clots so now I'm not sure! Your positive opk could be just round the corner good luck I've got my fingers and toes crossed for you and dh!

@NicoleR14 to be honest I've tested a few times before after I've had a full on af I know it's crazy but I'd had symptoms still and I guess I just wanted to be sure even though it's highly unlikely but you do read stories of people having periods don't you so it makes you think. This ttc does make you crazy too 🤪😂, Thankyou, we are gonna try dtd tonight but obviously everyone is home so a good old extremely quiet session to look forward to haha.

@dizzy85 I do have a digital clear blue test left I could use but frightened of the dreaded bfn! It's terrible how much I completely understand and relate to that sentence 😂😂!

@NicoleR14 do you have a Poundland near you you could get a pack of cheap ones if so and just use one of them and save the digital? Haha it is terrible 😂 I'm glad I'm not the only one ttc with the weird restricted sex life 😂