11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

Sorry your feeling down @NicoleR14 you might have ovulated and just missed the line on the opk coz that can happen like it could of happened when you were asleep. I know the doctors don't help unless it's been a year ttc they think it's normal but some of them probably don't realise the emotional rollercoaster we go through. It definitely will happen when you really least expect it.

I’m so sorry this months been so hard for you @NicoleR14 doctors just don’t seem to understand the emotional difficulty all this causes.

Also have an update, I held for 5 hours and tested again.. I’m in utter shock right now

@Nmew omg amazing I knew it was a positive 🥰😍congratulations🥳 oh I remember that shock feeling of seeing it I bet it's so surreal have you told oh?

@Nmew ahhhh congratulations I'm so happy for you! 🥳

Thanks ladies, I’m still in disbelief lol just hope it continues to stick!

Yeah DH is all excited and talking names and all sorts already!

@Nmew omg I'm super chuffed for you!!!!! That's amazing!!!!

@Nmew knew it!!!! Omg congratulations! How lovely one of us has finally got their bfp.
It will stick don't worry!!
@NicoleR14 I'm sorry about this month for you, but @dizzy85 could be right about missing your slot? This month I did a opk test at midnight and that was when I got my peak I was quite shocked. You never know. I hope you start feeling better soon x

Thanks so much Ladies! Still cant quite believe it lol dont even know where to begin with what happens next, dont think the docs even see you until 8 weeks which seems like forever away!

Good luck to anyone testing in the morning, I will likely continue to test on my cheapies to torture myself about the line getting darker lol Will try save my second frer for another few days.

Hope that you have ovulated @NicoleR14 I read on another thread about someone not getting a + opk and they ovulated and got a bfp, so it is possible!

@Nmew You've got a strong positive I don't think you'll need to worry I still can't believe it I'm so happy for you! Hoping I did ovulate we dtd every 2-3 days up until the 13th then we missed dtd for 5 days and again on 18th and 20th and we'll just keep dtd until af shows up and see what happens I've been an emotional mess tonight can't stop crying over my sore boobs! So I think the witch is ready to show but if she does it'll be 6-8 days early!

Morning, I don't even need to test I can feel af coming today, not going to waste one. So annoying. But then I was high hoping since we only managed to dtd once after positive opk! @NicoleR14 I still can't believe your boobs are still giving you problems! I hope they start to ease off. X

Aw @NicoleR14 I can't even imagine ☹️ wondering if it's maybe a hormonal thing going on. Stress does stupid things to the body. I'm sure it'll even out though, stay positive!

Hey, how is everyone feeling today? @Bbutterfly hopefully it's not af coming
@ArjaD have you tested today?

@dizzy85 my af came two days early so not even any need 🙁

@ArjaD sorry I just looked back and realised I did see that and comment before, my crazy brain.

@dizzy85 af arrived! Will enjoy the weekend and get back on it next month I guess! How you feeling? Are you still holding off this month and waiting for doctors? X

@Bbutterfly bugger eh. Oh well, I'm getting the rum out!

@Bbutterfly ah how crappy I'm really sorry to hear that. Well I'm in two minds on what to do now, my doctors is the 6th, the pains I was having aren't nearly as bad or constant as they were and I know gallstones pains can come and go and I'm guessing if I had an infection I'd be feeling really ill. I've already started doing opks just to see but I can't decide what to do for the best wait and miss a month or just carry on 🤦‍♀️🙃🤷‍♀️

@ArjaD ooh I do like rum, enjoy🥃

Sorry to hear af arrived for you ladies! I think af could be on the way for me also getting alot of pain in my right side and so emotional boobs extremely sore and untouchable!

@dizzy85 aw it's tough, really don't know what I'd do in your situation 😔 I'm sure you'll work it out though!

@NicoleR14 hope af stays away. Have the doctors said anymore about your sore boobs?

@ArjaD it is tough I'm really torn it's just all the waiting around for the doctors it takes so long feels like wasting time but I'm sure we will fingure it out.

@dizzy85 If I was you and was feeling better try and get an earlier appointment with the docs see what they thought of it and if they don't think it's starting up again then go for it its terrible how long the gp takes for appointments! Nope they have told me to wait it out and see what happens which is so annoying especially when painkillers and creams don't help! Was planning on dtd this evening but I've had my teeth removed at 4 dh is trying his luck and I'm too emotional and telling him to stay at arms length my mouth is killing me! How's everyone doing tonight? X

@NicoleR14 I have tried to get an earlier appointment but there's none available it's stupid, the only way I can get in is ring up at 8 for an emergency appointment on the day but I'm not sure they'll class it as an emergency as it is now, so I think I'll be ovulating within the next week would you just skip it and wait🤷‍♀️?
How frustrating for you too, have you tested anymore recently? And ouch I hate the dentist I can completely get that would be a mood killer.

@dizzy85 I'd class it as an emergency I'd phone first thing tomorrow morning make the appointment and tell them you couldn't wait any longer if all goes well I'd get straight back to dtd! No i haven't tested anymore after the last bfn I kinda gave up thinking there was any hope this month and definitely I'm still so sore I hate going to the dentist I feel like a blowfish at the moment my cheek and jaw is so swollen!

@dizzy85 I'm with @NicoleR14 on this one I'd ring early and get an appointment, don't wait and then you can dtd try again next week. Definitely try.
I hope your mouth starts feeling better soon ♥️ I had my wisdom tooth out before and it was achy and horrible I feel your pain. Xxx