11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@dizzy85 it takes horrible amounts of Willpower 😂😂😂 I am getting weird stabby pains too, worried it's just af manifesting itself in a different way than the usual cramps. Waaaaa!

Hahaha even though this ttc business is quite stressful for us all I do really laugh at our group. We're all falling apart at some stage of every month @dizzy85 😂 I'm TRYING with all my crappy will power to hold off till Wednesday. But @ArjaD if you test sooner I will too haha. Xxx

@Bbutterfly i just found a batch of cheapie strip tests I forgot I had, this isn't helping 😂😂😂

Hahaha @Bbutterfly this is true at least we can take turns in falling apart 😂 I have a feeling I'm gonna ovulate early this month..obviously feelings mean nothing tho lol and I'm supposed to be waiting till I see the doctor anyway so I shouldn't start dtd😆 but I really wanna just do it! 🤦‍♀️

Are you gonna test earlier than Wednesday now? 😂

I definitely relate to the falling apart feeling lol I’ve been getting weird sharp pains around the ovaries too.. there’s always something!

I have cheapies the wondfo brand. But have 2 frer as well. I think I’ll use a cheapie on Wednesday and only use the frer if I think there’s a line on the cheapie! I’m gonna find it a struggle to not test tomorrow lol why is poas so addictive 😂

😂😂😂 Listen to us all lmao

I feel your pain ladies 😂 feel like I'm falling to bits no positive opk yet sore boobs sore back and dh just shaved so not feeling the urge to attack him now he looks about 10 😂!

Lol @NicoleR14 that gave me a giggle! I feel the same with my DH when he shaves too!

😂😂😂 I know what you mean about the shaving thing too I hate the clean shave look and how it feels too! They do look weirdly young don't they I'm like who is this person what have you done with my man? 😂

Haha this is hilarious what is our problem, right are we all testing tomorrow then 😂 just kidding. Even though I do have two frers in the cupboard. @dizzy85 it's our 'feelings' that send us all nuts lol. @NicoleR14 hang in there you might still get it but late this month.
@Nmew let us know if you end up testing 😂 xxxx

I freaked out when dh shaved he's never been clean shaved since we got together so when I seen him last night I laughed for a good 20 mins and asked dh how am I supposed to dtd with this 10 year old where has my hubby went did you eat him or something and that was it I laughed again for a few more moments before composing myself why do they look so young! Wish all I had to do is shave when I want to look younger 😂

I always laugh too I can't help it its just too funny they look so different don't they 😂 luckily mine doesn't do it very often. Yer they've got it easy shave and look younger🙄😂

Well good luck if any of you do end up testing tomorrow!

Well ladies, af visited last night, two days early 😢 seems my cycles are getting shorter. I'll be out the race for a while now as hubby's work will prevent him from being home to dtd in the next two months. I'll keep an eye on the thread though.

@ArjaD oh no 😢 I'm really sorry to hear that I hope your ok

I'm ok. I've come to accept we're lucky to have our perfect wee guy already. Anything else is a bonus really x

Aww I’m sorry @ArjaD fingers crossed for you when DH returns

@ArjaD I'm sorry she turned up. I'm still hoping but AF symptoms have creeped up this morning. Really hope she stays away!
You never know hubby might get home in time like before ♥️ @Nmew it was so hard not poas this morning but glad I didn't. How you feeling? X

Aww @Bbutterfly I totally caved lol and now I’m all over the place looking at this test! Ladies, what do you think?

Darker photo was taken within the time frame and lighter one was outside the time frame. I never see anything on these cheapies so I’m really hoping this isn’t a cruel evap!

@Nmew that looks like a positive to me 😍 really hope it is xx

@Bbutterfly i fear for it tbh, he's three weeks on three weeks off so a pretty solid nono I'd say. But I'm so hoping you'll still get a bfp!!!!!

@Nmew omg I can defo see it I think you have your bfp! Are you going to take another one? @ArjaD how annoying 😔 when he's next on his 3 weeks off get back to it ♥️

@Bbutterfly I’m tentatively excited, but I really don’t think I’ll believe it’s a bfp until I get it on a better test lol I’m tempted to hold for a few hours and try a frer..

@Nmew that's definitely a pink line I think you've got your bfp!

Id probably hold pee and do a frer too if I saw that on a cheapie I def couldn't wait, ooh good luck 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Cycle day 26 for me and still no positive opk think I haven't ovulated this month at all docs have said it could just be one of those months they don't seem to help people who are ttc they aren't interested all they keep saying is wait and take a test but how many times can you take a pg test and not get heartbroken at the result! Feeling down!